I was a little bit silly the first time I met another ABDL.
Warning, long side story ahead...
We had met on fetlife as I was hoping to get to en event held here in the UK and he was also planning to go, I have met plenty of (vanilla) people from online before and feel quite comfortable doing so was he. I had written in a post on that events group page that I would love to attend but would find it difficult without transport (I don't drive), he replied offering a lift as he was fairly local, if we could meet beforehand so he knows who I am.
Well we chatted for a bit online and as I said I'm quite happy to go and meet others and I felt comfortable with the arrangements to meet this guy who lived not far outside my city (close enough to be same postal code but far enough to be a separate town for those in the UK he's in Wells I'm in Bristol).
As for the actual meeting, everything went well. He met me at the train station, we went to a nearby bar, had a few drinks a good chat and a laugh both padded, then went back to his place to get changed (this is the point he showed me his garage with a literal mountin of packs of nappies and the frst time I had ever seen printed adult nappies, Crinklz original) he let me take my pick of nappies he had there to change into (I went for the crinklz) and have another drink before he dropped me at the station and I went home. In all it was a great day and a fun experience.
The silly part (and where you may want to skip,) comes as this was about the same time I was exploring an interest in spanking and had recently learned about Capsaicin creams/oils. I had already tried some 0.9 mg strength cream and ...enjoyed? ...been ok with, and it only lasted about 3-4 hours. But I had also ordered some Fiery Jaxx oils at 0.7, 0.9 and 1.25mg strength as I had read that the sensation from oils lasts longer then cream as it sits on the skin longer before being fully absorbed.
Now capsaicin cream can be bought over the counter in pharmacies in 0.025 upto 0.1mg strength to be used in small amounts as a pain relief for various conditions, however a larger (pea sized amount) applied to the butt cheeks creates a strong, burning (to the point of being painful) sensation. it doesn't cause any actual damage it just triggers the pain receptor nerves in the body. It's like eating a very hot chilli pepper (capsaicin is a chilli extract) but when applied to the bottom feels like you've just spent an hour over daddies knee without the actual impacts or bruising/welts.
Well my oils arrived the morning I was due to meet and I was a little impatient to test them so I sprayed my backside right away (about 10:00 AM). Not a problem for a while as they are hydrophobic and work best as a spanking alternative when wet and under pressure so I thought they weren't working, so when I put my nappy on to go get the train to meet him I was fine, it was a little warm but not that bad. By the time we were at the bar (12:00 ish) I was a little wet and it was starting to heat up back there, once I had wet a little more it was getting quite sore and hard to sit still. I explained this to him and we had a good laugh.
Back at his place I really felt like i'd been wooped hard that morning but it calmed down a bit after I got changed (maybe 3:00) *phew*. when he dropped me at the station (about 4:30) I was still dry, but not for long... all that beer by the time I got off the train was now in the nappy and my backside burned again and I still had an hour of bus journey to get home. Suffice to say it was not a comfortable trip.
To end this story, I took the nappy off shortly after getting home and my bum was fine, I put a nappy on at bedtime and kept it dry, when I woke at 8:00 the next day I wet it and began to feel my backside warm up once again but not by as much this time.
Moral of the story... Capsaicin oils definitely last longer than cream and you should not apply them liberally before going to meet somebody wearing a nappy unless you really need to feel like you've had your bottom wooped a treat.