dogboy
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There are many of us on this site that have lived with being AB/DL for years, hiding it from our wives. We simply learned how to self nurture, finding time away from family to wear diapers and regress. It's not ideal but it's better than doing without diapers and doing without our family. I did for years until my wife discovered my Amazon diaper order. I had to explain the whole thing to her. Her response to me was, do you have enough supplies.
She did buy me plushies, onsies, sippy cups etc., but she also wanted the husband and man that she married. I was a weight lifter and I had two cars that I raced on the track. I was and still am a musician and a writer and she appreciated all of those sides of me but at the end of the day, she needed to know that I was still the man she married.
I think you are pushing too much on your wife. I think you should pull it down by about 90% and start small, giving her a fair amount of time to get used to this. It took my wife a while but over time she understood more and more. When I started writing diaper stories for this site, I would read them to her as she was an English major and I appreciated her input. I think she gained a better understanding as to how I experienced regressing and feeling like a baby just by hearing my stories. Sometimes it was a little embarrassing for me to read them because I knew I was exposing my inner desires but there it was.
I guess what I'm saying is that you should go slowly and find some creative ways to educate her so that it doesn't sound so freaky to her.
She did buy me plushies, onsies, sippy cups etc., but she also wanted the husband and man that she married. I was a weight lifter and I had two cars that I raced on the track. I was and still am a musician and a writer and she appreciated all of those sides of me but at the end of the day, she needed to know that I was still the man she married.
I think you are pushing too much on your wife. I think you should pull it down by about 90% and start small, giving her a fair amount of time to get used to this. It took my wife a while but over time she understood more and more. When I started writing diaper stories for this site, I would read them to her as she was an English major and I appreciated her input. I think she gained a better understanding as to how I experienced regressing and feeling like a baby just by hearing my stories. Sometimes it was a little embarrassing for me to read them because I knew I was exposing my inner desires but there it was.
I guess what I'm saying is that you should go slowly and find some creative ways to educate her so that it doesn't sound so freaky to her.