wristlost
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Hi everyone,
Just thought I'd get this off of my chest and share my experience of telling someone. I've been a DL for as long as I can remember but I'm beginning to lean heavily toward the AB spectrum recently. I wear on occasion if I know my stomach cramps will be bad overnight (I sometimes get stomach cramps due to anxiety/sensitivity to certain foods), and to wet without getting up for the bathroom in the middle of night as an added convenience.
My younger sister (19) and I (21) get along very well and we aren't afraid to come to each other for support. We used to spend lots of time together but now that we are attending college I feel we are growing apart compared to when we were younger. I feel like I outgrew some things we used to do like draw together and make silly videos, but I notice diapers help me regress to a state where I don't feel that way.
During one of our long discussions one night I felt insecure about this side of me and I decided to tell her about the ABDL topic, why I liked to wear diapers and how they helped me regress for the reason above and provide sense of innocence. I was prepared for rejection and feelings of shame, but she was totally understanding and said she was completely fine with diaper stuff as long as I was happy! I once had an accident while we were drawing and felt embarrassed to ask her for a change; she insisted it wasn't a problem and changed me into a fresh one before staying around for a while to talk. It was an amazing feeling to know I could trust her and be comfortable with this side. We became much more open and supportive after this, maybe due to the fear of losing that closeness.
I've read lots of posts where a bf/gf or friend, even a complete stranger changes the OP, but I haven't come across one where an open and understanding sibling does so which I felt was odd so I decided to share my experience.
Just thought I'd get this off of my chest and share my experience of telling someone. I've been a DL for as long as I can remember but I'm beginning to lean heavily toward the AB spectrum recently. I wear on occasion if I know my stomach cramps will be bad overnight (I sometimes get stomach cramps due to anxiety/sensitivity to certain foods), and to wet without getting up for the bathroom in the middle of night as an added convenience.
My younger sister (19) and I (21) get along very well and we aren't afraid to come to each other for support. We used to spend lots of time together but now that we are attending college I feel we are growing apart compared to when we were younger. I feel like I outgrew some things we used to do like draw together and make silly videos, but I notice diapers help me regress to a state where I don't feel that way.
During one of our long discussions one night I felt insecure about this side of me and I decided to tell her about the ABDL topic, why I liked to wear diapers and how they helped me regress for the reason above and provide sense of innocence. I was prepared for rejection and feelings of shame, but she was totally understanding and said she was completely fine with diaper stuff as long as I was happy! I once had an accident while we were drawing and felt embarrassed to ask her for a change; she insisted it wasn't a problem and changed me into a fresh one before staying around for a while to talk. It was an amazing feeling to know I could trust her and be comfortable with this side. We became much more open and supportive after this, maybe due to the fear of losing that closeness.
I've read lots of posts where a bf/gf or friend, even a complete stranger changes the OP, but I haven't come across one where an open and understanding sibling does so which I felt was odd so I decided to share my experience.