Telling my mom

[Leo2500]

i told my mom i had a secret, but now she is all over me about it and its starting to get me mad! :wallbash: i was so mad i almost told her but i keep on thinking about what would happen if i did tell heer so, your advise, should i or should i not :dunno:

 

[EmeraldsAndLime]

First up, it was probably a bad move to tell her you had a secret.

Secondly, if she isn't going to get off your back about it, then you'll have to come clean. Hope to god she accepts it. Unfortunately, there's no backing out of it at this stage. And I wouldn't recommend lying as that can really put you in a spot of trouble. Even if you say it was a joke, she'll still know you're hiding something.

Might be a bit too late now, but read this anyway: How Do I Tell Someone?

 

[Pojo]

If you are going to lie, then don't tell her that you were just kidding...Just make up something else to say as your secret

 

[Zeit]

I'd say that you have a right to your secrets just as she does hers... of course I have no idea what your relationship is to your parents so that might not fly. Maybe say one day you'll tell her and just let that day never come...

 

[Squigma]

By telling her you have a secret you've probably made her think you want to tell her what is itbut are too scared to. If so, then she won't stop trying to find out because she thinks she is helping you.

So you're gonna have to tell her something. I would really reccomend against telling her - I don't know what she's like but it's not that likely to go well.and if I were a parent, I probably wouldn't want to find out my kid had a diaper fetish...

I think the best bet is to make up a convincing lie that sounds like something you'd keep secret but isn't that bad. Perhaps something like you looked at some porn on the internet? It's something that all guys do, so it's not gonna an awful shock, but it aounds like a secret.

But depending on your mum, that might not be the best idea. You know her better than me so put some thought into if you should tell the truth or not, and what lie you should tell if you decide to lie.

 

[IncompleteDude]

If I were you, I would make up a fake secret to replace your TBDL one. But that's just me.

 

[Eclipse]

It all depends on how you think she would react. If you think she would act positive (unlikely) or neutral (possible) to the idea then go for it. Only you can judge that because as everyone else said, we do not know your mom.
If you think she would have a negative reaction, I would also suggest telling her another secret, but one that is a real secret you have so you do not have a chance of getting caught in a lie. A good secret I just thought of to tell her is to tell her you wet your pants on accident the other day, see what her reaction is on that. Just say you washed your clothes before anyone noticed, but you wanted to tell her because you were worried about it. If she has a negative reaction to that, just drop it and do not tell her about the diapers. If she has a neutral reaction to it, I would also suggest dropping it. Although if she has a positive reaction by saying that "its okay, accidents happen, if it happens again tell me and we will help work it out." Of she says something similar to that I would say you might be in the clear to tell her about the diapers. Just say that you got some diapers and started wearing them. If she flips out, say its cause of the accidents, if she doesn't flip out tell her the truth and tell her it is because you enjoy them.
Good luck and use the best judgement you possibly can!

 

[Tommy]

remember, everyone saying that you shouldn't tell her, but think how good it will be if she understands

 

[Charlie]

I'll agree with what others have said and say that you should make up a lie.

Make it believable and secret worthy (just make sure that the lie isn't worse than having a diaper fetish!). Or make it something that she won't enquire about... Or make it something that might sound like a big deal but is pretty pathetic on the secret scale.

Or you could just tell her to forget it and hope she gives up...

 

[IncompleteDude]

I say make a special handmade card for your mom, and say that was the big secret.

 

[Martin]

Or you could just tell her to forget it and hope she gives up...

I don't know how everyone else's parents are but if I'd do that to mine she'd only get more curious as I'm trying to hide it again

I say make a special handmade card for your mom, and say that was the big secret.

Come on, you aren't a 4 year old anymore (at least not in her eyes) you'd have to do better then that.

Porn does sound like a good idea. I don't have any other ideas.

 

[Pojo]

If you gave her something for Easter, then you could say that that was the secret if she asks about it later...If she doesn't then it would probably be best to forget it, but prepare a like just in case

 

[Dakota13]

Wait dont do anything maybe she will drop it, but if she dosnt keep a good excuse in mind like some of the other suggestions.

 

[Serendiapity]

As other posters have already said, you probably shouldn't tell her unless you REALLY WANT TO. To be honest, I wouldn't, because it's such a (relatively) small aspect of my life, and I see no need to tell my parents. You might consider telling her something else as your "secret", but do whatever you thing is the right thing to do. Go with your gut instinct.

 

[IncompleteDude]

Come on, you aren't a 4 year old anymore (at least not in her eyes) you'd have to do better then that.

Porn does sound like a good idea. I don't have any other ideas.

Now maybe this whole AB thing is getting to my head, but I was serious there! lol

 

[babymikey]

tell her calmly u need to have some time to urself so u can think about how ur gonna say it and think to urself and explain to her its nothing illegal its not drugs and let her know that whatever happens when u do tell her if her reaction is bad that u still love her

 

[Gingy]

yeah she may start going through your room when your not around, and possibly stumble apon your stash. :0. Yeah you should make up a fake one like:

Im affraid of cats (shut up I am)

I think dog food tastes good

I download music illegally

ECT.

 

[d4l]

remember, everyone saying that you shouldn't tell her, but think how good it will be if she understands

Hypothetical situation your mom out of the blue tells you she has a bdsm fetish. now chances are you would be a bit creeped out. Now if she asked you to spank her while she dresses in leather.....now reverse it the other way around except you are your mother and bdsm=diapers. Think about that every time you think about telling your parents.

 

[Zyro]

I would say there is another girl I like...meheheh, that would then lead to more questions like; Whats her name? Is she pretty? Does she wear her skin inside out? (well mabye not that one, but you get my meaning, right?) And so on.