thanks guys, all great responses. I am still thinking of telling her. we did tlak for about 5 minutes on fetishes. I gave her a list, it was like the top 20 fetishes and i erased one and put diaper fetish as number 5 an she looked at it and said " thats not right". I said "oh, well i'll check again". I don't know if she has a diaper fetish because of that, or mabey it was justa coinedence. I think this is good over all, becuase she said that.