Still figuring things out.

[omuryu]

So I've been having thoughts on what I like about the kink again. It's really hard to pin down the "But why tho?" with the whole thing, so I'm gonna start one step at a time. I'm sure I've mentioned it before, but I think the biggest thing that makes me wonder what I like about the kink is the fact that I don't like messing. I often find it gross, but so many other artists and goers of the kink are into it. I know I don't *have* to be into messing to be into the kink but this thought in the back of my mind is making me think- "Then why be into diapers" and that in turn, again, makes me think about what about the kink I like. I'm mainly looking for advice and what I can do to get pass these doubts of mine.

 

[medfet878]

So I've been having thoughts on what I like about the kink again. It's really hard to pin down the "But why tho?" with the whole thing, so I'm gonna start one step at a time. I'm sure I've mentioned it before, but I think the biggest thing that makes me wonder what I like about the kink is the fact that I don't like messing. I often find it gross, but so many other artists and goers of the kink are into it. I know I don't *have* to be into messing to be into the kink but this thought in the back of my mind is making me think- "Then why be into diapers" and that in turn, again, makes me think about what about the kink I like. I'm mainly looking for advice and what I can do to get pass these doubts of mine.

I'm bladder incont so I normally just wet only and use a toilet for #2 . But I have messed a few times in my diapers because I wasn't near a toilet and had to go badly and I just let it out. Yeah messing isnt my thing either but if it needs to happen then do it.

 

[chamberpot]

well when you get it figured out let us know.lol.. I don't know the whole why thing for sure .. I just enjoy it, it doesn't affect anyone else but me, better then drugs or drink. am happy .. don't often mess.

 

[fredy552]

I have done #2 on purpose and pushed it out about 6 times and did really like it. I do enjoy a wet diaper even though I am now incontinent. The wife knows now that I wet myself she thinks this has been going on since I had Covid and was hospitalized back in Nov. of 2020. I came out after being incontinent at the hospital. She has seen me changing my diapers but does not get involved. I keep hoping she will help change my diapers now that I am Incontinent. She knows nothing of the AB side.

 

[KarmaBaby2]

Not every ABDL likes messing, just like not every one is into bottles, sex with them or sissy clothes. Every person is unique in what abdl means to them

 

[omuryu]

Not every ABDL likes messing, just like not every one is into bottles, sex with them or sissy clothes. Every person is unique in what abdl means to them

Hey. Thanks for that. Helps puts some things in perspective.

 

[keepitonDL]

I don’t like it either , i find it gross and then the whole cleanup makes me feel like I could triple wash and still stay self conscious. I’ll try anything twice I tried it once, let me tell you there was no twice.
Maybe you find more comfort in the clean, fresh feeling and that became a kink some how. What’s not to love about freshness security and a little bondage around the hips ya know
Where the other is uncomfortable and just a bit much to be doing on purpose.
Either way I’m with you on this, your valid

 

[LilPaddedBunny]

Everyone is different, some people like to dry wear diapers for comfort. Messing is definitely not for everyone but wetting can feel nice, and if you drink lots of water it won't even smell much. Most of the time you can get away with just baby wipes and powder afterwards and not have to bother with a shower. A good quality diaper with high absorbency will keep your skin feeling dry and control any odors. If you're not into wetting either, that's understandable too! There are also people who just like regressing and acting little without diapers.

 

[PaciPilot]

I’m not into messing either. We’re adults and frankly with our varied diet and the fact that we just eat more than kids, the messes are bigger and smell worse. They’re also more solid and harder to push into a diaper.

Basically every time I’ve tried it, it has resulted in a very uncomfortable shower where I either ruin a wash rag or two, or I end up grabbing it with my hands and waffle stomping it - which is positively disgusting.

Meanwhile, it isn’t so bad to wet and wipe down with a flushable wipe or a warm wash cloth.

TL;DR Messes = big gross cleanup. Wet = pretty quick and easy cleanup.

 

[PeterPPeevy]

I love the act pooping in my pants and panties, or a pull-up, and then engaging in a lot of smearing, and finally, but not always, masturbating. Clean-up in the shower, for me, is usually very pleasurable: if I haven't masturbated before getting to the shower, I sometimes do it in the shower, either with my good right hand or I let a jet of water from the hand-held shower spray head goose me most pleasurably. If I let it pound the glans and head of my penis, I can soon get to a wonderful orgasm.

About cleaning clothes and washcloths: I rinse my clothes (always black pants) thoroughly in the shower, then soak any light coloured panties in a bit of bleach before putting everything into the washing machine. White or very light coloured panties sometimes begin to show a bit of staining around the leg openings, but only after multiple poops and clean-ups. I use dark washcloths which always look fine afterwards. Once everything is dry, there's no poop smell at all, even on me, I think. At least my wife has never complains, and she would if she smelled something. I always scrub myself hard with soap and mint body wash; cleaning me thoroughly also cleans the washcloth thoroughly. Just to be sure, I usually soak my panties and washcloth in a bit of rubbing alcohol.I actually like being super clean as much as being filthy dirty.

 

[medfet878]

Not every ABDL likes messing, just like not every one is into bottles, sex with them or sissy clothes. Every person is unique in what abdl means to them

Very true.