So I've been having thoughts on what I like about the kink again. It's really hard to pin down the "But why tho?" with the whole thing, so I'm gonna start one step at a time. I'm sure I've mentioned it before, but I think the biggest thing that makes me wonder what I like about the kink is the fact that I don't like messing. I often find it gross, but so many other artists and goers of the kink are into it. I know I don't *have* to be into messing to be into the kink but this thought in the back of my mind is making me think- "Then why be into diapers" and that in turn, again, makes me think about what about the kink I like. I'm mainly looking for advice and what I can do to get pass these doubts of mine.