Dartplayerinwvc said:
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
Because at one time is was DL - Diaper Lover, now it is MS and I wear adult pull ups or adult diapers 24-7
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ? <<<< >>>>>
this makes no sense the inconvenient ? (not an easy situation for use) - the convenience ??? (an easy situation for use)
- Be abdl is a sickness ? NO - AND BE CAREFUL here.... you should GOOGLE that question before offending several thousand people BY ASKING such a question
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
CHECK YOUR wording / SPELLING>> autistic, what is the link between autism/diaper ? <<<<< you should GOOGLE that question before BY ASKING such a question HERE
- Why i should try a diaper ? - If you have to ask that, then maybe this "wearing by choice and NOT medical or any other reason than fun" is NOT for you.
Just as a note to this Tamaya is french and may not have a lot of experience with english writing, a few spelling mistakes and or wrong words is fine.
Tamaya said:
I prefer understand before criticize.
Nice sentiment, but maybe just don't criticize people for their own personal choices that affect only themselves.
But to answer the questions:
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
For me there are probably many reasons, from events that happened in childhood to stress and anxiety relief, the convenience, the Comfort they bring. There s probably some degree of sexual connection in there from going through puberty with an interest in diapers.
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ?
Benefits, pure convenience being able to relieve myself while busy with other things (like games, cooking, shopping etc.) Not having to sit on or use public toilets (especially in a pub where the men's room is often disgusting), a much happier attirude and outlook in general, relief from depression without the need for addictive psychoactive meds.
Inconveniences: More laundry, the need to keep it secret, bad stigma from people who don't understand, difficulties finding an understanding partner. finding private locations to change in public places, lingering smells.
- Be abdl is a sickness ?
No! As Dartplayerinwvc pointed out this can be a risky question to ask.
It is technically a Fetish, though there are many who do not see it that way as it is in no way sexual for them.
Are women who prefer mens underwear a sick? What about men who wear tights? What about adults who love playing video games or building things with Lego, Are they sick?
Having a preference for clothing or enjoying things that bring you happiness is not a sickness it is merely an individual's choice.
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
There is no scientifically proven link between the two however studies have shown that autistic children tend to take longer before becoming potty trained and are more prone to episodes of bedwetting letter in childhood than non ASD children.
Part of this is that autistic children tend to take longer to learn new things or get a handle on new concepts. It can be very hard and traumatising for them to break a routine and adapt to new things and as they are in diapers from birth it is a strongly ingrained routine for them and takes more time and support to potty train.
People with ASD also tend to react strongly to sensory stimulation and a diaper provides that.
This extra time spent in diapers, emotional connections to this period and the more sensory nature of childrens things like toys
May make it more likely for them to develop an interest in diapers and ABDL things later in life. There is a lot more and much better discussed information for this here on the forums.
- Why i should try a diaper ?
That's entirely up to you, if you have even a little interest it may be worth giving it a go if not then don't. It is a choice only you can give the answer for.
