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Hello,
I have some questions about diapers and abdl.
Sorry in advance if i hurt you.

I prefer understand before criticize.
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ?
- Be abdl is a sickness ?
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
- Why i should try a diaper ?

Thank you in advance for your answer.
 

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Tamaya said:
Hello,
I have some questions about diapers and abdl.
Sorry in advance if i hurt you.

I prefer understand before criticize.
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ?
- Be abdl is a sickness ?
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
- Why i should try a diaper ?

Thank you in advance for your answer.
Being a ABDL isnt a sickness. Some people wear due to being incontinent etc.
 

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Tamaya said:
Hello,
I have some questions about diapers and abdl.
Sorry in advance if i hurt you.

I prefer understand before criticize.
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ?
- Be abdl is a sickness ?
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
- Why i should try a diaper ?

Thank you in advance for your answer.
1. I myself have no clue why I like to wear and use diapers. Like many others here I have speculation, no concrete proof.
2. Benefits of wearing them? Eases my anxiety. Inconvenience. I get anxious without them.
3. ABDL is a sickness? Only if one allows it to control their lives.
4. Autism and ABDL? There is no concrete proof of any connection between ABDL and autism. Some can argue there is and there are some things ABDLs can connect between the 2. Example would be the tight fit of the diaper compares to weighted blanket on an autistic person. Mainly sensory like feel and sound.
 

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Hi Tamaya,
1. I wear diapers because I enjoy it, I like the Look & feel.
2. Benefits. I'm doing some thing i enjoy witch makes me happy, when I'm gaming i not got to stop for bathroom breaks.
3. No, its not a sickness its a fetish.
4. I don't think their is a link between autism and wearing diapers, many people with autism don't wear and never will.
5. why I think you should try wearing ... you clearly have an itch to try wearing, and untill you scratch that itch your always be wondering, try them and you might not like it at all you might love it, but ether way your know and its not something thats hurting you or anyone else.

Hope this help
 
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Hello Tammya
For me It because of incontinent !
The Benefits are that I can be myself and still have a very active life .
I'm not a AB and no it not a sickness .
If it make you happy and it something that you do enjoy , I can't see why not !!
 
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Hi @Tamaya. Here’s the short answer for those that are not incontinent. Diapers are said to be all of Prozac, Ambien and Viagra all rolled into one magic feeling 😂
 
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If you are interested, read my little book about it. https://www.wattpad.com/story/267329569-you-are-not-that-different

I am a DL. In short: I love diapers for exactly the same reasons why I love women. If you want to know why I like them, and I believe this true for ABDL or any other fetishist as well, answer yourself the question why a woman loves a man. Honestly, I am sure that the exact same mechanism is at work for them as is for us. The only difference is the target that we are interested in.
 

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- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
Because at one time is was DL - Diaper Lover, now it is MS and I wear adult pull ups or adult diapers 24-7
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ? <<<< >>>>>
this makes no sense the inconvenient ? (not an easy situation for use) - the convenience ??? (an easy situation for use)

- Be abdl is a sickness ? NO - AND BE CAREFUL here.... you should GOOGLE that question before offending several thousand people BY ASKING such a question
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
CHECK YOUR wording / SPELLING>> autistic, what is the link between autism/diaper ? <<<<< you should GOOGLE that question before BY ASKING such a question HERE

- Why i should try a diaper ? - If you have to ask that, then maybe this "wearing by choice and NOT medical or any other reason than fun" is NOT for you.
 

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Dartplayerinwvc said:
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
Because at one time is was DL - Diaper Lover, now it is MS and I wear adult pull ups or adult diapers 24-7
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ? <<<< >>>>>
this makes no sense the inconvenient ? (not an easy situation for use) - the convenience ??? (an easy situation for use)

- Be abdl is a sickness ? NO - AND BE CAREFUL here.... you should GOOGLE that question before offending several thousand people BY ASKING such a question
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
CHECK YOUR wording / SPELLING>> autistic, what is the link between autism/diaper ? <<<<< you should GOOGLE that question before BY ASKING such a question HERE

- Why i should try a diaper ? - If you have to ask that, then maybe this "wearing by choice and NOT medical or any other reason than fun" is NOT for you.
Just as a note to this Tamaya is french and may not have a lot of experience with english writing, a few spelling mistakes and or wrong words is fine.

Tamaya said:
I prefer understand before criticize.
Nice sentiment, but maybe just don't criticize people for their own personal choices that affect only themselves.

But to answer the questions:
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
For me there are probably many reasons, from events that happened in childhood to stress and anxiety relief, the convenience, the Comfort they bring. There s probably some degree of sexual connection in there from going through puberty with an interest in diapers.

- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ?
Benefits, pure convenience being able to relieve myself while busy with other things (like games, cooking, shopping etc.) Not having to sit on or use public toilets (especially in a pub where the men's room is often disgusting), a much happier attirude and outlook in general, relief from depression without the need for addictive psychoactive meds.
Inconveniences: More laundry, the need to keep it secret, bad stigma from people who don't understand, difficulties finding an understanding partner. finding private locations to change in public places, lingering smells.

- Be abdl is a sickness ?
No! As Dartplayerinwvc pointed out this can be a risky question to ask.
It is technically a Fetish, though there are many who do not see it that way as it is in no way sexual for them.
Are women who prefer mens underwear a sick? What about men who wear tights? What about adults who love playing video games or building things with Lego, Are they sick?
Having a preference for clothing or enjoying things that bring you happiness is not a sickness it is merely an individual's choice.

- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
There is no scientifically proven link between the two however studies have shown that autistic children tend to take longer before becoming potty trained and are more prone to episodes of bedwetting letter in childhood than non ASD children.

Part of this is that autistic children tend to take longer to learn new things or get a handle on new concepts. It can be very hard and traumatising for them to break a routine and adapt to new things and as they are in diapers from birth it is a strongly ingrained routine for them and takes more time and support to potty train.

People with ASD also tend to react strongly to sensory stimulation and a diaper provides that.

This extra time spent in diapers, emotional connections to this period and the more sensory nature of childrens things like toys May make it more likely for them to develop an interest in diapers and ABDL things later in life. There is a lot more and much better discussed information for this here on the forums.

- Why i should try a diaper ?
That's entirely up to you, if you have even a little interest it may be worth giving it a go if not then don't. It is a choice only you can give the answer for.
 

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Tamaya said:
- Why you wear a diaper ? medical ? childhood memory ? roleplay ? stress ?
- What is the benefit ? the inconvenient ?
- Be abdl is a sickness ?
- I saw many people are autist, what is the link between autism/diaper ?
- Why i should try a diaper ?
- I like to wear diapers, the softness and feeling of security.

- The benefits, are the feeling of security, the convenience of just being able to pee a little.
The inconvenience, are keeping it a secret, what people think and say who don't understand it.

- No it is not.

- Not self autistic, but I have seen some scientific articles that can give indication why it may look like there is a like.
But I think there are many reasons.

- If you have thought about how it would be to wear a diaper then why not try to see if you like it or what you maybe like about it.
But it's only you who knows if you want to try it.
 
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Hello,
Thank you for all your answers.
To see to try.

Is it a good thing to tell this at my family or friends ? Or is preferable to keep the secret ?
 
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Tamaya said:
Hello,
Thank you for all your answers.
To see to try.

Is it a good thing to tell this at my family or friends ? Or is preferable to keep the secret ?
ask your self why they need to know

Unless it's IC really no reason to tell them
 

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Thank you for the answer.

I doubt myself a lot, I should trust myself more before asking questions.
 

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Tamaya said:
Thank you for the answer.

I doubt myself a lot, I should trust myself more before asking questions.
You're fine darling just have some confidence
 
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