First thing I want to say is that it is perfectly okay to be wondering if there is a term/reason for this. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
When people say it is sexist to be asking these questions, it's not.
For example, If I were a biological male, and I enjoyed stereotypical female roles, but identified as "Male" No one will call me sexist. They'll say "Good for you! You don't let your gender define you!"
But if I were a biological male, and I enjoyed stereotypical female roles, but identified as "Female" People might say "That's sexist! Just because you like female roles now you think you must be a woman?! Is that what you think being a woman is all about?!"
And that's not fair. If you're going to start calling it "sexist" then you have to start asking yourself "What is gender anyway?"
What defines it? Our genitals? The way we dress? The roles we take on? Is it what society considers "Masculine behavior" Or "Feminine Behavior"?
Anyways, You are not weird!!
It is okay to search for terms for things or to ask "why?", we do this so we can find a place to start to better understand ourselves.
This has been my experience, and it has helped me enjoy life so much more than I could have imagined, I just
do what I feel like doing.
Dogboy's advice "Sexuality is fluid" is 100% right, and very wise advice. Maybe it doesn't play out that way for everyone, but picking out labels oftentimes results in us trying to act accordingly to the labels we select. We become confused when our desires aren't consistent. For a lot of people, they will never be.
I decided "I'll never know what I truly was until the end of my life. Until then, I am going to do what I feel is right, and what is me."
-Dress however you like to dress
-Date whatever genders you want to date
-Take on whichever roles feel right to you, masculine or feminine
-Do whatever things you like to do, masculine or feminine
-Express yourself however you feel that day
Make yourself open to all the possibilities. Don't overlook any just because you feel it doesn't match the label you think you identify as. You will learn more and more about yourself as you go along!
I guess what i'm saying in short is: It's okay to try to find labels/terms, but don't let them confuse you.
I see these labels as "describing tools", for many people they fit and they help. If you do some research, and a term really sticks out to you and it is perfect, that is great!! If it doesn't, that's fine too!
Maybe this will help:
Genderbread Man
It helps you to realize what some of the different factors are in understanding yourself, it might be a good place to start if you want a better understanding
Look at the different areas on the chart, there are different variables. You can organize your thoughts and understanding better! Based on what you figure out from this chart, maybe a term will fit you! If not, at least you will be able to understand these different areas of yourself better.
Usually when people ask me how I "Identify" I just describe some of my tendencies to them and explain that there is no where (that I know of) that I truly fit.
It's also normal to describe yourself as "A dash of this, a dash of that" or to have mixed tendencies and things like that.
Also, I apologize if you know all of this already and i'm just giving you tons of useless information! If any of this helps, or gives you further questions, I would encourage you to ask!
