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IMHO, anyone who wears diapers to bed on the appointed day and knows about sleep in diapers Friday is a participant in it. Therefore, I think that I always participate in this special activity even though I wear diapers to bed every night.
For anyone who must wear diapers, you are just as much an active participant as someone who only wears on that day.