Press out leaks are inevitable if you don't know with some reasonable certainty, the absorbency/capacity of your diaper in relationship to your wetting frequency and volume. I am very good at knowing when I am pushing the limits of my diaper, but I have had the occasional press out leak at work. My work atmosphere is a professional setting with business casual dress and when I had the press out leak with a crescent shaped wet stain in the back of my pants, my sport coat or untucked shirt offered enough cover until my small wet stain dried. I can change in the privacy of my own office and keep an extra diaper in my brief case for situations such as these. Of course, plastic pants will also help. Another preventive discretion and courtesy practice I use are several drops of baby powder scented oil inside my diaper to keep me smelling fresh and clean. Just search with your preferred browser "scented oils." There are different companies with many scent choices. Some coworkers have even commented on how nice I smell and have asked about my after shave or cologne, little did they know how wet I was. I also enjoy messing my diaper but never at work or even around my wife, my private enjoyed activity. Scented oils won't cover up my messy diaper, I just smell like I messed my diaper with baby powder scent mixed in!