I subscribed to a CD magazine thirty years ago and the first issue I received had a statement from the publisher that a topic that was being discussed had gotten out of hand and no more letters would be published.
the usual story topic was a boy being forced to be a girl in front of others. One of the Madams wrote a simple line that started a controversy. “In real life, wouldn’t this be child abuse?”. In real life, yes but this is erotic fiction.