Should I wear diapers to a munch (Beneath several layers of clothing)

[paddedn7]

Hello, I am planning on going to a munch tonight and I am wondering if I should wear a thinner diaper under a onesie, fishnets, compression shorts and a skirt. This isn't a ABDL munch, just a general munch for kinksters. I don't want to be found out by my walk or anything, and I'm wondering if people would notice.

 

[todderhr]

The munch's I've been to say stealth is fine; because they meet in public places and normies won't understand.

 

[tbjay]

Nah it's fine. Hosted plenty and some wear some don't. It's really about respect for the regular folk who aren't into kink or exposing to kids.

Eventually, hopefully, luckily, the munch is suppose to lead to a more private setting. We use to have New Years parties and things where it was an open forum in a hotel or private residence.

Munches are ment to be an introduction to the community and you. Long as you don't do anything that could be construed as unacceptable in public more than likely you'll get to attend a more private open event. But your experience may vary by location, munch, and host.

Be polite and kind and I imagine you'll get the same in return. You also may or may not run into people that don't agree with it, but remember "my kink is not your kink." Vast majority of other kinks I've met don't care or are indifferent but accept it, there will be a few that don't agree or like it. But if they put you down, their not good kinksters. Or people.

 

[dpcare]

Hello, I am planning on going to a munch tonight and I am wondering if I should wear a thinner diaper under a onesie, fishnets, compression shorts and a skirt. This isn't a ABDL munch, just a general munch for kinksters. I don't want to be found out by my walk or anything, and I'm wondering if people would notice.

that's entirely your choice

 

[Cottontail]

Hello, I am planning on going to a munch tonight and I am wondering if I should wear a thinner diaper under a onesie, fishnets, compression shorts and a skirt. This isn't a ABDL munch, just a general munch for kinksters. I don't want to be found out by my walk or anything, and I'm wondering if people would notice.

If you're making a reasonable effort to be discreet, you're going to be totally fine.

That said, as the munch is probably over now: How'd it go?

 

[paddedn7]

If you're making a reasonable effort to be discreet, you're going to be totally fine.

That said, as the munch is probably over now: How'd it go?

It went pretty good! Thanks for asking. I ended up not wearing though.

 

[Belarin]

Glad to hear it went well.

For my thoughts on the question though I have worn to munches (general kink) plenty of times, I think, as was said, that on the whole it is acceptable if you are making every effort to keep it discreet and not shoving it on other attendees, this would for instance mean absolutely no soiling (wetting maybe if you are careful and keep to amounts that won't leak).

These are often in vanilla public venues so you just have to be a bit careful but I'm fairly sure I've been to munches where people have been collared, plugged or wearing vibes/kegal balls etc. and other fetish type clothing under regular clothes, as long as you are taking care not to let it be noticed they are usually ok.

 

[SherriLil]

I met up with someone from "this" community for the first time ever, a couple of weeks ago, for lunch in a restaurant and some friendly conversation with a like-minded individual. We were both on the same page about just wanting to meet up socially with someone, nobody was looking for anything beyond that. (This being the internet, clarity is important.) Our chat spanned topics that were mostly unrelated to our infantile underwear preferences. I wore a diaper, as I always do, but it never came onto the radar or into the conversation. It's easy to wear a diaper without anyone knowing - that's how I spend all my time when I'm away from the house. Next time, wear the diaper, just be discreet - you'll be fine.

 

[PupSpaz]

In our kink community good behavior in public is often associated with the term "grandmother rules", ie don't wear anything you wouldn't in front of your grandmother. Of course, there's always that one person with a more unique grandmother...

The kinky community in general is very welcoming, and quite familiar with littles and the idea of diapers, most wouldn't bat an eye even if they somehow knew you were wearing - whether they noticed or you shared with them. Kink takes many forms, and to many of us diapers are kinky (sometimes or maybe for you all the time!) Part of munches is getting exposed to a lot of different ways to be kinky - manipulating your mind and body in various ways to create novel or stimulating experiences that "normal" society often seems to look down on (often while hiding their own kinks, lol)

 

[paddedn7]

Thanks everyone for your very helpful insights. I have multiple events to go to in the future, and I think I will wear, thanks to all the helpful comments. <3