Sexual Relief?

[Jp82pikapi]

Been a while since I've been on here. I joined the bdsm scene about half a year ago and have been very busy. It's been a great time, have met some very awesome people and developed some great relationships. I have a mommy, an aunty, and 3 sisters. Mommy has even diapered me before. I've run into a bit of a weird problem though. One of the main reasons I was turned on by diapers was because of the humiliation factor. Having such an adult privilege taken away from me is a very embarrassing thing. It still feels good when I actually wear, but I miss a lot of the sexual intensity that I used to get from this fetish. In the bdsm community, at least in the one I'm a part of, acceptance of other peoples kinks is valued and treasured highly. Sure, a lot of people might not understand it fully, but they'd cut off their arm before they kink shamed me about it or any one else. That's an awesome feeling to be my true self, and has let me experience baby space in a safe environment surrounded by what I've come to know as family, but it doesn't lend itself well to humiliation. Has anybody else been through this or something similar? What helped? I'm watching my favorite porns, reading my favorite stories, and they just aren't hitting me like they used to.

 

[PCS]

I’ve never been into porno (not judging!) but wearing nappies used to be an intensely sexual thing for me.

Right at the start, from when I was about 12 or so, all I would have to do would be to see a pack of DryNites on a supermarket shelf and I would start to get aroused.

When I first got my hands on adult nappies, just holding or unwrapping one would have me shaking with excitement and I couldn’t help but have an orgasm just putting it on.

As I got a bit older the excitement became less intense. I was glad I was able to control it a bit more to as wearing while aroused wasn’t always very comfortable!

I could make myself excited very easily though, and loved to slip a condom on inside a wet nappy, lie on my front and move until it happened.

Nowadays though (in my 30s) I still love wearing and wetting nappies. I find it very comforting and relaxing but it no longer arouses me as it did.

Seeing my partner wear and wet though is still a huge turn-on.

Perhaps this is something that happens to a lot of people over time?

 

[Trevor]

I don't have direct experience but it seems to me if you spend a lot of time and energy normalizing your kink, it might be successful in the sense that you erode the mystique and humiliation connection with it.

 

[Jp82pikapi]

Makes sense. I guess between getting older and normalizing the fetish, it's lost some of it's potency as it were. Thankies for responding!

 

[KitsuneFox]

I never could get into BDSM ... was not a good sub/pet when I tried .
Oh well, I'm not going to judge what others enjoy.

Have you tried other aspects of diapering, sisification, or humiliation to see if they satisfy your desires more ?

 

[Trevor]

Makes sense. I guess between getting older and normalizing the fetish, it's lost some of it's potency as it were. Thankies for responding!

This is something I've been wary of as I moved to wear 24/7 for longer and longer periods. It's very much a sexual thing for me, so I wouldn't want to undermine the effects. I feel like in being mindful, it hasn't lost any of its potency but just the exclusivity. It's like there's the diapers I wear every day which are potentially sexual but aren't over most of the day and then there's the idea of diapers, which remains very strongly sexual.

 

[ykdprdave]

Like most things, the more you do it, the novelty wears off.

I wear almost 24/7/365 (some days not, but always at night) and it’s definitely not like it was 15 years ago when I’d damn near blast off just putting on a diaper lol