I understand that many people wear diapers in order to get in the mood for sex. My situation is different. I'm a married senior male who is functional sexually but has been abstinent for a number of years due to my wife's discomfort with sex. I've combined cross-dressing with masturbation but since I've begun wearing and using diapers I have no interest in cross-dressing and surprisingly little interest in sex. I'm not an AB. I'm beginning to find masturbation time consuming and uncomfortable afterward (painful). Wearing diapers feels good and has been fulfilling my needs. My wife knows I do this but not how often I use them for urination which is nearly every day. I wet myself intentionally most nights if I wake up and have to pee, but I limit myself so I don't wet the bed. I want to be forthcoming with my wife but don't want to make her unhappy... I remember how she disliked my cross-dressing and how upset she was initially. My question is How many in this group have given up sex for one reason or another and use diapers as a surrogate pleasure? How many are in a relationship? How does your wife feel about it?