Settling into a new dynamic

[ItsTimmyTime]

My vanilla wife and I are only 4 months into exploring my ABDL side. Over the last two weekends she's started engaging with me during bathtime, bathing me and washing my hair which I love!!

She doesn't want to be a mummy character to me and I've never wanted that from her. However, naturally she has some lovely nurturing/CG qualities which I told her I would really love to experience, so bit by bit we've been playing around and seeing what works.

She sometimes speaks to me in this little voice, like the way you'd speak to a young child. Well I really like it, but sometimes it'll make her cringe - we always have a little chuckle though and see the funny side.

During bathtime she was being all sweet and caring, saying things like "lift up your arm" and "put your head back". Whilst she was washing my hair she suddenly dumped a ton of water in my face, after doing her very best to prevent water getting in my eyes. She started to laugh and she told me she got a sudden urge to say "Boooo!" to me, as she was up close and I had my eyes closed.

This totally freaked her out and instead of pretending to scare me, she dumped a ton of water in my face in a sudden panic! Obviously we laughed it off as you do.

I'd like to hear from others that have experienced any similar/cringy/awkward moments during the early phases of working into your own personal dynamics and how your dynamic progressed over time.

 

[SoCalSwitch]

I’d have to say that the two of you are doing exactly what should be done. Communication and finding happy ground.

Consider yourself blessed with a partner that will at least accept and even participate.

 

[ItsTimmyTime]

I’d have to say that the two of you are doing exactly what should be done. Communication and finding happy ground.

Consider yourself blessed with a partner that will at least accept and even participate.

Thank you. I do count my blessings everyday that's for sure and I make sure my wife knows how much I appreciate her all the time 😊

It's a shame this post hasn't had a little more engagement, it would've been nice to hear similar stories.... still, it was a funny story that was worth a share 🤭

 

[Lyric]

It's helped my relationship with my wife for us to find ways to have fun with my diaper fetish. Whether its having fun in bed, or in the bath tub or on our sofa, anything that makes us laugh about me and my wet diapers helps us.

 

[ItsTimmyTime]

It's helped my relationship with my wife for us to find ways to have fun with my diaper fetish. Whether its having fun in bed, or in the bath tub or on our sofa, anything that makes us laugh about me and my wet diapers helps us.

It's definitely a good thing to keep that humour and be able laugh between yourselves 🤭

 

[PamperedMarine]

When I started wearing around my wife I was anxious. I started by having them visible in the closet. Then openly taking them to the bathroom to pad up. I think she got fed up about me being weird about it because one day she just grabbed one from my stash and diapered me while I was standing naked in my closet. I can wear whenever I want now, and she will assist about 50% of the time. She also makes comments about how it helps fill out my jeans. She likes to make me blush.

 

[sbmccue]

My SO bathed me on Sunday, complete with baby wash, bubble bath and copious bath toys. She hasn't washed my hair yet, but the bath times are sublime. I went from a bath to being diapered, fed some baby food and a bottle, and then napped in my crib. A couple of hours as a toddler helps me 'recharge the batteries' and enjoy a full-on adult week, so I'm grateful to her for taking the time to baby me.

 

[foxkits]

Just let her.take the lead at her pace she will in time find it's no big deal hopefully.

 

[ItsTimmyTime]

My SO bathed me on Sunday, complete with baby wash, bubble bath and copious bath toys. She hasn't washed my hair yet, but the bath times are sublime. I went from a bath to being diapered, fed some baby food and a bottle, and then napped in my crib. A couple of hours as a toddler helps me 'recharge the batteries' and enjoy a full-on adult week, so I'm grateful to her for taking the time to baby me.

There's nothing quite like being bathed by your SO and smelling all baby fresh before being changed into a fresh diaper is there!! There's no better way to wind down after a long week at work.

Definitely helps keep you grounded for the week ahead 😊

When I started wearing around my wife I was anxious. I started by having them visible in the closet. Then openly taking them to the bathroom to pad up. I think she got fed up about me being weird about it because one day she just grabbed one from my stash and diapered me while I was standing naked in my closet. I can wear whenever I want now, and she will assist about 50% of the time. She also makes comments about how it helps fill out my jeans. She likes to make me blush.

Sounds like she took you by surprise that day 🤭 It's such an incredible feeling the first time that happens! 😍 Sounds like your dynamic is progressing nicely there.

 

[Lyric]

It's definitely a good thing to keep that humour and be able laugh between yourselves 🤭

It is. Its such a nice time for the two of to play around together, touch each other and more.

 

[Lyric]

When I started wearing around my wife I was anxious. I started by having them visible in the closet. Then openly taking them to the bathroom to pad up. I think she got fed up about me being weird about it because one day she just grabbed one from my stash and diapered me while I was standing naked in my closet. I can wear whenever I want now, and she will assist about 50% of the time. She also makes comments about how it helps fill out my jeans. She likes to make me blush.

Yes, I remember how nervous I was the first time I took my wife home to stay the night with me before we were married. I was wearing diapers and rubber pants at the time, they were wet, and I figured I would change out of them in the bathroom so she wouldn't see me, but she followed me into the bathroom as I was taking my pants down. She saw me in my diapers for the first time and I was sure she'd leave but she didn't. She told me she wanted to see what I looked like wearing diapers and get over it all. I ended up showing her where I stored all my diapers and rubber pants, but still felt weird that all I had on was a big wet cloth diaper and rubber pants around her. She kind of took charge and asked me if I wanted her to change me. I did and helped her the first time.