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I like to call myself a "straight" individual, being I don't find any sexual attraction in Males. However I hate to admit, but I think my body has a stronger "sexual" attraction to diapers than women. In that, it takes me a lot longer to be aroused by a lap dancer than a diaper. I just recently went to my first strip club with a few friends, (I'm 19 & a virgin), and yeah, I got a lap dance with a hot topless babe that pretty much buried her boobs in my face and dry humped me, and it kind of bothered me how unaroused I was, I hope maybe it was because I had to pay for it, and it didn't seem the same as something real. I've never really had a serious relationship either, so that might be what has to trigger me in the future. I guess the reason I'm posting this is to get your "true and anonymous" (as we all are on this forum) feedback and personal thoughts on this or similar experiences with any of you. It is hard to distinguish the difference between sexual orientations and sexual fetishes. Perhaps one is more powerful. I'd feel a lot better about this if anyone has some good input.


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Thanks, I just read every post of those three threads. I suppose maybe a few people here could help me out in figuring out my sexual orientation. I would appreciate it and answer any questions.

I just want to make it clear that even the "thought" of kissing or loving another guy is gross IMO, but understandable for the many others out there that feel that way. I'm just saying that I'm for sure not gay, I do want to have sex with women, but it might be just for the experience instead of being sexually driven.


p.s. Any moderator, I would appreciate if you could move this topic to the "Mature Topics" board. Thanks.
 

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You can be straight as an arrow and still get turned on by a diaper.

I'll be honest... I'd rather see a girl diapered than naked, and getting a lap dance from some topless stripper isn't something I'm attracted to at all. Now maybe if she was topless and diapered...

But yes, I get your point... and no, it's not that wierd. Seeing some chick naked doesn't do much for me at all... and I can get "hot and bothered" by just thinking about diapers... but I still consider myself straight.
 

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The Fetish is strong with you.

Every fetish comes in 3 levels, each progressively stronger than the last. You seem to be in the third level, which means you can't get aroused (or it is very hard to) without the fetish object being present.

Welcome to the club. I'm the same way.
 

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It could just be a desensitization of things like strippers and the like, because of weird shit seen on the internet. I know that if I ever look up porn for that purpose, which isnt often at all mind you, I tend to go for EXTREMELY specific stuff, kinda weird stuff, too.

Anyway, my point is that it could be something totally different than diapers altogether, though anyone, including me, would undoubtedly come to the same conclusion about the lack of arousal. Honestly, I don't find strippers arousing at all. Too many track marks and bullet wounds. Just kidding on that last part, just don't settle on diapers being the issue because they're the thing right in front of you. Some men go through bits of unarousal no matter what, because of some chemical imbalance or stress related deal. I mean you could get a woman of their preference to sit on their lap and explain everything theyre willing to let that guy do.. and the guy will shrug it off and go back to watching TV
 
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I suppose maybe a few people here could help me out in figuring out my sexual orientation.
i really don't care about my sexual orientation at all. there just lables, and lables really shouldn't account for as much as they do. if your 19 and have never been in a serious relationship, then sexual orientation should mean even less to you. if a lap dance didn't do it for you, then you don't need to go deep into trying to find out who you are because it doesn't really matter. just keep doing what you've been doing and be happy.

P.S. nice avitar.
 

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I wouldn't worry about it so much. Different people get turned on by different situations, and not everyone will feel comfortable enough to get aroused by a lap dance in a strip club in front of dozens of people (I know I wouldn't!). You'd probably be surprised by how many people there either fake it, or just get dragged there by friends with no real interest. Sexual things should really be something private, so when you sit in your own room / home alone with that special someone, things (in your crotch) may be looking up.

Also: Moved to mature topics.

Peachy
 

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I can understand where you're coming from pretty well here.

I've never been to a strip club... nor do I really want to be to be honest (that could be considered part of my point). I couldn't really see myself being turned on by some girl I don't know, rubbing her jugs in my face just to make a dollar.

Though things could be a bit different if, maybe she was wearing a diaper... though I am the one who prefers to be diapered - it would still make a difference.

Point is there's nothing to worry about. Everyone gets affected by their fetishes differently and to greater or lesser extents. Unless it's really, truly bothering you (it really shouldn't) there is absolutely nothing to worry about :)
 

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I wouldn't worry if it was you first lap dace you may have been to nervous to get aroused, I used to go to alot of strip clubs, and really never get aroused, back then I wasn't sure if I was gay.

But the thing is is still got aroused, with my other fetish, but not by the dancers, what clinched it for me is when I took one home, and still couldn't get it up, I found out I wasn't interested in sex with a woman.

What I'm trying to say,is something may get you off, in the privacy of your own home, but in a setting like a club you are alot more nervous, you may want to go someplace quiet and private.
 

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I'm straight, but I also find that I'm more attracted to my fetishes than to just women...But I do have attractions to women without the fetishes still...Maybe I try to imagine them involved in the fetish, but I still find them attractive without that...Maybe I'm not at the third stage that Prometheus mentioned, but yeah...
 

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Well, I'm Asexual, I have no attraction to women or men, just my fetish. ^_^
 

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See, what I wish were true, is that if a person "wanted" to like something, they should be able to "like" that something.

At this moment, I'm more interested in hearing from those of who are heterosexual, in that, hearing what makes them aroused by women, and to what extent.

I can sometimes get hard just by reading text about diapers, so this bothers me that I don't get hard by watching topless babes.. yet a lot of you were right, I was a little nervous, and didn't have time to listen to the atmosphere of the place before I got the lapdance, as my friend signed me up for one within 5 minutes of walking in. There were also 2 guys staring at me in the background while I was getting a lapdance, (wow-- I wonder if most people notice what's going on in the background of a lapdance) so that was a little odd. Can some 100% straight people tell me what arouses them? I'm really curious to know, because I've defined myself as straight since I hit puberty.
 

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I’ve spent the last 20 years in the strip clubs. I started as a patron then a denizen and soon an intern. I brought my photographic skills in and found my self earning cash photographing strippers and porn stars. Eventually after putting up with many dancers I wound up living with one for 8 years raising her infant son and leaving the bar scene. It was all a lot of fun but I wasn’t aroused by it.

Three years ago she left. I found myself lonely and longing for a woman’s touch. I can beat my meat but can’t hug myself or rub my own back. I started going back to some of the bars and for the first time buying lap dances. Once comfortable with the setting and girl I found myself aroused. Now the girls I lived with were from the “better” bars and would get mad if a customer nutted during a lap dance but these seemed disappointed. Soon I learned to let go and enjoy it. I’ve had lap dances that were better than a lot of actual sex.

Still alone I go back to one bar every month or so for a little “human interaction”. I always hang out for an hour or so and have 1 or 2 drinks, no more, first. It takes several lap dances in a row to get me going and if with a girl I don’t know or the bouncer is too nosey it might not work. The point is you usually need to be able to relax to get aroused.

And yes Darkfinn, I have had a lap dance from a girl in footed PJs and a diaper. I gave them to her at a X-Mas party. It created such a seen in the bar I didn’t get off on it. I did get pics! I don’t have permission to share them. A lot of people thought it was great but a vocal few hated it and used the ped**** word harshly.

. There were also 2 guys staring at me in the background while I was getting a lap dance, (wow-- I wonder if most people notice what's going on in the background of a lap dance) so that was a little odd. Can some 100% straight people tell me what arouses them? I'm really curious to know, because I've defined myself as straight since I hit puberty.
Bouncers, they’re there to watch the girls for their safety and so they don’t go too far and the bar looses it’s license. Bars usually put the lap dance area in the back so patrons don’t have to deal with others gawking at them.

A kiss! Face to face, nose to nose, lip to lip, tongue to tongue. Necking, nibbling ears, nuzzling the neck, holding, hugging, and devouring each other. Gets the blood flowing down below. Moving on breasts aren’t my thing, I prefer girls with smaller ones, But you gotta spend some time there. A little belly, just a small bulge between between the navel and mound I love to rest my cheek and kiss there. Hips and butt with the right curves to caress. Pussy of course, shaved with thick outer lips, barley visible inners and just right scent. The right scent IS the most arousing thing! When it is right most girls think it’s too strong, perfumes and douche wreck it.

Most dancers won’t kiss you or let you taste their pussy, if they will you DO NOT want to. Most will let you get in close enough to get aroused with out swapping germs.

Don’t be concerned you do get conditioned to be aroused by things. Diapers used to get me up like a lightning rod but now I wear them so much they are just a comfort. And a few other things too. When you get with a girl it may be awkward at first but it will be good.

Nam

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I like to call myself a "straight" individual, being I don't find any sexual attraction in Males. However I hate to admit, but I think my body has a stronger "sexual" attraction to diapers than women. In that, it takes me a lot longer to be aroused by a lap dancer than a diaper.
DAMN, same problem. I need to fix this, but I doubt that I can.

What ticks me off is I'm more turned on by girls in underwear/thongs/panties/epicness/bikini's than naked. WTF do I do when she takes her clothes off. Also only about 95% straight, another thing that bothers me. I only like girls my age, I can't really even get hard for girls that are much older than me on the internets. Naked girls, does nothing. :( (Maybe if they were my age AND I knew them, I don't seem to like it if I don't know them.)

Damnit /b/

EDIT: I FAILED OF INSTEAD OF OFF!
 
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What ticks me off is I'm more turned on by girls in underwear/thongs/panties/epicness/bikini's than naked. WTF do I do when she takes her clothes of.
Damn, same here... Pics of naked women don't do much for me compared with them in nice underwear... :dunno:
 

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Damn, same here... Pics of naked women don't do much for me compared with them in nice underwear... :dunno:
The fashion industry will eternally be thankful for that. Always wondered why the women's lingerie section covers half the store while men'S underwear are usually crammed on two racks in the far back corner? I guess you're not alone there :tongueout:

Peachy
 

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The Fetish is strong with you.

Every fetish comes in 3 levels, each progressively stronger than the last. You seem to be in the third level, which means you can't get aroused (or it is very hard to) without the fetish object being present.

Welcome to the club. I'm the same way.
I'm not so sure if I'm in that level. Like I said, reading the right text about it even gets me to rise, and embarrassingly enough-- somehow once and a while I am able to unconciously and 100% involuntarily get a tiny movement of sperm through my flaccid self slowly while just invisioning the text i'm reading.

Yes, the fetish is strong with me, but that last part I just told you all makes me feel like I have a problem.
 

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The Fetish is strong with you.

Every fetish comes in 3 levels, each progressively stronger than the last. You seem to be in the third level, which means you can't get aroused (or it is very hard to) without the fetish object being present.

Welcome to the club. I'm the same way.
I think that might be me too. I mean, this fetish is more than just sexual for me. It's very emotionally fulfilling too. But I've never actually been sexually aroused by a girl before. The thought of a girl babying me, yes. But making love to a girl, no.
 

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Sadly, I am completely asexual. 'Tis a bitch, because I cant get my groove on with the ladies.
 
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