People who aren't AB or DL absolutely will not understand and I dont expect them to. Nothing good will come out of telling a person who is not AB/DL, so people please dont kid yourself into thinking it will be fun to tell people. Once told you can NEVER take it back. I see younger people on here fantasizing about telling there friends. Don't do it. Again, once told you can never take it back. They will never look at you the same again.