Quiting AB\DL

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I am a quoting AB\DL! AB\DL lifestyle is an addiction to me. And it can be an addiction to other people too. I'm not trying to make people feel bad for what they are doing. I'm not here to make anyone feel bad.so before you read this know hat I don't hate anyone here at all in any way possible. I don't think anything people do here is weird at all. Because I obviosly am here because I was an ABDL. But may I be the first person to quit their AB\DL addiction. Or may be the fist to call AB\DL and addiction. To tell you more in detain! About why I am Doug this. I am a Christian. I'm going to stabd for my faith! I don't care if I get banned or told to never come here again! I will stand up for what I believe in. I'm not an angry person. I believe in the Christian Faith and I must stress that this is a world full of deception. People! Atheist or whatever you are doing, there is a God who loves you. A God that can do anything! I believe in him. I'm going to stop because I love him and I want a relationship! He is the most High God.

Anyway, this world is a world full of deception. By being an AB\DL, we fall into the deception this world offers. It is hard. It is very hard not to. But we must not. If you have a real Christian experience you know what I am talking about. A Christian life and a relationship with God is more important than anything because it has so much more to offer than AB\DL. It is a life full of richness in the only God who loves you! Jesus died on the cross for our sins and a lot of the world decides to call this just a bunch of cheesy stuff that's fake. Well I'm gonna tell you once and for all! It's not! Because I love it. And I choose love rather than objects. Because objects can't love you back. A real God can. And there is much more to it than just that! I have proof that Christianity is real. But to believe you must have faith. Please guys don't involve yourself in this world but go and believe in Christianity. I'm telling you this not because I want to convert you but because in this day and age you cannot trust this world. And the reason why you can trust me is because chritianity is NOT of this world. It is the truth.

John 3:16

Jesus said, "My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jewish leaders. But now my kingdom is from another place."

This is nothing but truth. I hope you think about this. I know some of you will hate me because i am a Christian. But you must put God first. If you don't turn to Jesus and accept him as your savior, you will go to a place burning. Please listen to me. I am telling this to you because this is why I believe Christianity and that is the truth. And no matter what! Jesus loves. He loves you. But you must turn to him and repent in order to be saved. He dosnt want you to go to that place that you go to when you choose not to turn to him. But you are the one who makes the choice. Those of you who choose not to turn to Jesus will regret it after death. Or at the end. Please guys. You need to think about it. Please read my banner under this post because it is truth.
 

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You can be an ABDL and religious I am an ABDL and I attend church and to be a full christian you have to help not just be able to quote bible verese becuse im pretty sure god will ask you so who did you help in your life time not how many bible verse do you know and how many time you went to church. If you want to give up objects then give them all up and become a monk beucse your life will be full of things that will distract you from god. ALso you are saying that me wantong to wear and use diapers will distract me from beliving that Jesus is my savior i am not able to see that logic. Also by qutong bible verse by taking them out of contex from the whole bible is the same idea that people use to hate on the LGBTQ comunity. Rember that Jesus eat with the sinner and the non bleiver when he went into town and turned away the most holy people. He even forgave then men that put him to death so i bleive that if thoses people can be forgven I will be for wearing a diaper
 

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While there is no doubt evil and corruption in the world, I can assure you ab/dl is not part of it. And frankly you will not have an easy time convincing others it is. I have a hard time believing there is a God who loves us, but will damn us to hell for having a childlike side, for drinking from bottles, playing with toys, and wetting diapers; for doing something that hurts no one.
 

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Can you please explain why you think that AB/DL is incompatible with Christianity?
 

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I'm a Methodist Minister of Music and I wear diapers by choice. I understand why you would think that giving in to diapers is an addiction, but it's not so much an addiction as it is a fetish, and there is a world of difference. Fetishes are grouped under the larger heading of Paraphilias, which means it's a psychological condition.

When my mom found my diapers, she made me see a psychiatrist. There were other, more serious reasons, but we did discuss Infantalism, which is considered to be a psychological disorder. My point is that God would not judge you for what psychologists would consider a disorder, anymore than God would condemn you for being bipolar or in my case when I was younger, Borderline Personality disordered.

I can understand that you have to do what you feel is right and I have no intention of talking you out of that. I just think you're going to continue to be unhappy because a fetish lasts forever, just like being gay.
 

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... and people wonder why I don't like religion. XD It messes with people.
 

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Here's my two (or more) cents... I feel like anything that I use as a distraction from what I should be trying to accomplish is an addiction. For instance, I became psychologically addicted to drugs last spring. It clouded my judgment and made me fail my classes. I also was physiologically addicted to vaping; it acted as a crutch to get me through my stresses and kept me from fully caring about what I said or did. I have since quit any kind of drug intake (minus the occasional drink)

Since last fall, I have been wearing diapers nearly nonstop, and it has only improved my ability to focus on my ambitions and goals. My mind is staying more occupied towards caring for my health, my relationship, and my personal spiritual guidance. I dont perceive these garments as an addiction, nor do I feel like they detract from my personal well-being. This could potentially change at some point, but for now, I feel like I can really focus on graduating college once and for all because of the support and strength it gives me.

If you feel that way about diapers, if they are clouding your judgement by keeping you from what you believe is the correct path in your own life, then it is probably a good idea to quit devoting your time and effort to the lifestyle. Whether you wish to become a wealthy businessman or devote your life to God, don't let anything get in the way. Find your dream and go for it, and don't let anything slow you down. I wish you all the best, whether I agree with you or not.

Peace
 

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I cant say what you should do your walk with God is your own not for me to say.
As my walk with God is the same .
We cant judge how some one believe's God is to them.
Only when they choose to harm other's should we step in and protect ourselves from harm.
I wish you the best in your path .
 

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I cant say what you should do your walk with God is your own not for me to say.
As my walk with God is the same .
We cant judge how some one believe's God is to them.
Only when they choose to harm other's should we step in and protect ourselves from harm.
I wish you the best in your path .

Thank you so much! And again! I'm not here to try to judge people as it seems that I have because this is not my judgement but it is the judgment of God. But Christianity is a faith. And for people who wonder why Christianity is not compatible with AB\DL is because the bible tells you to leave your childish ways. This is not about religion but it is about faith.

Here is the passage about leaving your childish ways.

[[[[[1 Corinthians 13:11King James Version (KJV)

11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.]]]]]

Also when you have a sexual fetish, you are putting your fetish before God. You need to put God before your fetish. But to do that you can have a fetish but you can't use your fetish. You cannot put things before God. God must be more important over all things. If there is another Christian on this forum struggling with this too please let me know.i would be more than happy to help you. Not that I am any better , because I am not! But you may want someone to help you. I am not here to try judge peopl. All ideas I say are said because of what the holy bible talks about. Thi a world is heading away from God. Before this age, it was not as much. But the world has turned away.
 
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Thank you so much! And again! I'm not here to try to judge people as it seems that I have because this is not my judgement but it is the judgment of God. But Christianity is a faith. And for people who wonder why Christianity is not compatible with AB\DL is because the bible tells you to leave your childish ways. This is not about religion but it is about faith.

The bible also tells you a lot of other things that I can bet you do not follow some of them.

masturbating
watching porn
eating bacon
gossiping
gluttony
women speaking in church
being gay
Wearing polyester and other mixed fabrics
eating certain seafoods
working on saturday
round haircuts

The list goes on and on. Some of which the punishment would be to be put to death. I realize people will believe what they believe, but what I don't get is when a person goes all anal over it and only picks and chooses what they believe from the book, rather than the whole thing.

Personally, I think people should just do whatever it is they enjoy and stop over complicating things like this. Especially when it comes to your life here, because it very well maybe your only life.
If there is a man in the sky, so be it. I will live as I please and enjoy my life regardless, because I couldn't care less about what such an evil like being thinks of me.
 

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But it's not all about that........ I'm trying to tell you this because there is a life full of something that you guys don't see. The world has led you away. The things you mention are all legalistic version of Christianity. What you say tells me that you think religion keeps people from enjoying their life. You may also ask "there are so many religions, which one is real". Christianity is the only religion that someone dies for their people. Jesus. It is different than al others.
 

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I am a Christian. I'm going to stabd for my faith! I don't care if I get banned or told to never come here again! I will stand up for what I believe in. I'm not an angry person. I believe in the Christian

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This is nothing but truth. I hope you think about this. I know some of you will hate me because i am a Christian.

The Galileo gambit (also Galileo fallacy; users of the fallacy are Galileo wannabes) is a logical fallacy that asserts that if your ideas provoke the establishment to vilify or threaten you, you must be right.

I feel like your statements try to grab sentiment here. You see, an appropriate way to approach this topic, isn't to preach doom and then claim everybody will stone you for your words, instead, it would have been to preach hope and share your personal experience, and have enough faith in yourself and your intentions that you don't have to protect yourself by assuming people will attack you. You see, I'm ok with people talking about how they are going to try and leave, i'm skeptical, but i'm ok with it. However, I'm not OK when they start preaching that God is going to strike down every single AB/DL here for having an 'addiction'. The words you have shared may hit an AB/DL who is going through a tough time, and then throw them right back into a purge because they are afraid they are going to go to hell. I don't support that type of mentality being spread.

Please tell me where in the bible God condemned AB/DL's? Didn't he say: "But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven." You have no proof that God hates the AB lifestyle as far as I can tell, so who is to say that he condemns it?

In fact, Jesus spent a lot of time around the people who were of the more odd and humble sort, rather than around the pharisees. Why is it that Jesus would have suffered so much to save imperfect humans if it wasn't because God loved the variety of humanity, the art of their existence, rather than all of humanity being redundant perfect praising clones. If there is a God, I believe he prefers us to enrich the good about ourselves, rather than purging our identity to spend eternity droning off praises. Look at the variety of the universe, it is full of variation, no part of it is the same to another, shouldn't the manner that God works with humanity be similar to that of his other creations? I say that it is beautiful to embrace your diversity, and that is not an Addiction, it is called self respect.

But don't mind me, I'm just a deceptive atheist.
 

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But it's not all about that........ I'm trying to tell you this because there is a life full of something that you guys don't see. The world has led you away. The things you mention are all legalistic version of Christianity. What you say tells me that you think religion keeps people from enjoying their life. You may also ask "there are so many religions, which one is real". Christianity is the only religion that someone dies for their people. Jesus. It is different than al others.

It a story. There isn't any proof for it, and I am even pretty sure you are wrong. I mean do you know how many religions there are? Unless you studied every single one out there, not really going to hold you to your word.

However, let assume you are right that Christianity is the only one that had someone die for their people. So? That's not exactly proof. Also, sure he died but he didn't even remain dead, so it's not like he took some loss or anything like that.

But also ... all religions like to believe theirs is the one true religion. I am sorry, but to me it's nuts. It makes no sense at all, and in fact I do believe the world is a much better place with out religion. It's unnecessary and causes more problems than it ever solves.

Look, if you really want to believe this, and want to quit. Please don't try and come here to convert others, convince me or anyone else. Go on your merry way, and good luck to you. I hope the best for you and the path that you have chosen.
 

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Good and I pray for you because of the path that you have chooses. I know that your thinking "ya ya ya ya ya whatever you to you" but you have no proof for what you believe in. And I wasn''t trying to prove to you anything. I was simply stating why I belive in Christianity. Im not angry at you or anyone. But I am rather saddened that you find me cheesy.
 

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Good and I pray for you because of the path that you have chooses. I know that your thinking "ya ya ya ya ya whatever you to you" but you have no proof for what you believe in. And I wasn''t trying to prove to you anything. I was simply stating why I belive in Christianity. Im not angry at you or anyone. But I am rather saddened that you find me cheesy.

No need to pray for me. In fact .. please don't. XD I personally view that as a bit of an insult. I mean you an go ahead and do it or whatever, but don't tell me ROFL XD.
I am not angry at you either and I don't think you are cheesy. I think religions are cheesy.
 

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Again. Christianity is not so cheesy when you get into it. Because when you get into Christianity it is much different than how you view it! I promise you! It's a whole new level. It's a different view.
 

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[[[[[1 Corinthians 13:11King James Version (KJV)

11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.]]]]]
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Sorry, but you need the context of this verse to actually understand it, it has nothing to do with stopping wearing diapers.

http://biblehub.com/kjv/1_corinthians/13.htm
Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. 9For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. 10But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away. 11When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known. 13And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

The context of the verse was talking about CHARITY, hence, childish things are in reference to selfishness. Ever notice how a 2 year old wants everything and if somebody takes one of his many toys, he goes crazy? That is being childish, the lord was condemning selfishness, not wearing diapers. As I spoke before, Jesus describes the kingdom of heaven being similar to the children. The moment you try to pull out the innocents, love, and joy out of the people because they are too much like a child, is the moment you have strayed from the teachings of Christ.


Edit: Full chapter to emphasize how much it was really talking about CHARITY:

1Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. 2And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. 3And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.

4Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 6Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 7Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

8Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. 9For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. 10But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away. 11When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known. 13And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
 

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Ok if God is supose to be important than anything else then sell all of your stuff and become a monk beeucse if not then watching tv could be put before god you could spen that time praying or reading the bible. Also rember the holy bible is not exactly what Jesus said it took hundreds of years for the deciples to writes down the words and by then the words got most likey twisted Jesus did not say start a new religion no he said go preach my word. and I know what im talking about i went to catchic schooling for many years. Also i hope you realze that we do not know what religion is right and which is wrong becuse all relgions talk about some named Jesus or close to his discription.And rember the story about casting the first stone thats what it seems like your doing casting the first stone at this comunity
 

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Again. They are not so cheesy when you get into them. Because when you hget intoncheistianity it is much different than happy you view it! I promise you! It's a wjole new level. It's a different view.

I grew up Christian. Studied the bible, read as much as I could, and after that I became an atheist. The bible itself is what made me an atheist. It just is way to absurd for me to believe as someone who thinks extremely logically.
 

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You have let doubt overcome you! Let me guess! You were forced to believe it by your family or something? Or something?
 
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