Question for sexual DLs

[CrazySmoker]

Depending what I'm doing. If isn't any job and/or interactions with another people, so I enjoy that free time to myself, always in private. If not, I let it go and deal with work.

 

[Sgdlboy]

For me i was a bedwetter that wore through out my teen years , going though puberty in diapers sort of reinforce the feeling , i do get the guilty feeling after i masturbate but i still be in my diaper and will not take it off as im used to wearing it growing up even before puberty.

 

[BigKid25]

Yep, exactly this. The desire to get out of the diaper asap after orgasming dissipated as my level of self acceptance increased.

And then yeah, I usually keep some abena or ATN on-hand for if I want some quick fun but know I'll have to take it off soon for whatever reason.

Lol ATN is my go to also! I like using the CVS brands for cloth backed when I'm in that mood too. Really can't beat $12 for 20 diapers that you can grab at the store whenever. Especially when they are pretty damn effective considering the cost.

 

[WeakEndPartyPerson]

If I self-pleasure before sleep I don't change and then sleep! It's better sleep (for me anyway) and lying in ejac' isn't that bad. 95% of the time I urine wet and then move to the other emission as little as 2 minutes later ensuring a warm depository. Ejac' does become more of a liquid so unless you're in a really awful brand the nappy you're wearing should do its job.
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[Lyric]

I love to be naughty in my diaper and rubber pants. I rub myself over my pants while I'm driving, watching TV, lying in bed, sitting with my sweetie having dinner out or in a movie, and any other time I can get away with it, but I especially like to rub when I am going potty in diapers and my sweetie smiles, shakes her head and says "what am I going to with you?"

 

[Seabear]

It started off sexual with me as only had to see a adult nappy and got turned on which made it awkward to put on and use but now it’s more of a comfort thing and don’t come in them that often

 

[CookieMonstah]

Normally for me I'll wear one and use it so it's quite wet and then in the morning when I wake up, before taking it off, I'll masturbate into it. Once I am finished it comes off within 10 minutes.

 

[hti24]

I once heard an ABDL podcast guest say (paraphrased) that diapers began as Viagara for him before ending up as Xanax. That description mirrors my own experience perfectly. When I started wearing diapers they were primarily sexual objects: I'd wear with the express purpose of eventually having an orgasm, and once that came (as it were) I'd take the diaper off. Later, though, I noticed a tendency to wear more often when I was feeling anxious. I have OCD; it's subclinical these days, but back when it wasn't, diapers would take the edge right off my symptoms. (I've written a few blog entries about the relationship between OCD and diapers - feel free to DM me if you want the links.) Now, I mostly wear for pure enjoyment. I frigging love diapers; shoot, I frigging love seeing the word "diaper" on my computer screen! They're still sort of sexual (and oh, do I love diaper porn), but I seldom masturbate when wearing. Nowadays it's far more about the unadulterated pleasure of being diapered. The sexual stuff is a bonus, but it's no longer the focus.

 

[DiaperJoy69]

Are diapers/pullups a sexual fetish? Everyone is different but in my case the answer is a very resounding YES!! For the longest time I found it so difficult to control myself, to make myself enjoy the pleasure of wearing and wetting before masturbating. Now that I am older and wiser, I savor the feel and comfort of wearing either a diaper or pullup, letting myself to enjoy the slow ebbing growth of sexual pleasure, adding to that lovely intimate sensation by wetting repeatedly. As I wear 24/7 there are many times that I will spend a few days enjoying those sensations before masturbating, which results in a much more satisfying ending.

 

[Punished34]

I find wearing plastic backed diapers very arousing. Even more than making love to my spouse. I have not made love with her more than 3-4 times a year. I am concerned it is not very much as compared to married couples do it a few times a month. Is it normal to make love that few times a year? (I do not have incontinence and don't wear it around my family). I struggle to try to get stiff when making love with her so it gets pretty tiring.

You're not alone! Im single now but have had many arguments about that and my gfs wanting vanilla sex ( no diapers or panties) it's not necessary for me but definitely makes it more fun. Trying to find some one who is more accepting. Wish I had advice but wanted you to know you aren't alone.

 

[Lyric]

Couldn't agree more. Sexual feeling and wearing diapers are linked inextricably. I love to wear and wet for as long as I can, rubbing occasionally, or being touched or rubbed by my sweetie, or just having her see me doing ordinary jobs around the house in just my diapers, rubber pants and tee shirt and having her check my diaper off and on. Slowly going potty a little at a time until I know my sweetie will say "I think youv'e been a naughty boy and its time to change those wet diapers of yours." By that time I'm ready to have my girl unpin my diaper, and wipe me down until we are both so excited we come togther.

 

[bigboymatty]

As others have said, it's changed (no pun intended) for me over time.

When I was a teenager and just starting to experiment with diapers, or more so with wet pants and makeshift diapers (multiple pairs of underwear, towels/washcloths, paper towels, trash bags, etc.), it all focused around the sexual aspect. The only reason I was doing any of it was because it turned me on and as soon as I came I was done.

Now, I will wear to wear, sometimes going through several changes before showing and putting regular underwear back on. I do generally masturbate before taking my last diaper off, but I change out of it pretty quick not because I feel shame or gross but because that's what I planned to do anyway. Sometimes I'll fall asleep in it and then pee once more when I wake up, before hopping in the shower.

As a teenager I definitely considered myself exclusively DL/TL but now I've developed a little side too, so sometimes my diaper wearing is part of being in my little space.

 

[Punished34]

As others have said, it's changed (no pun intended) for me over time.

When I was a teenager and just starting to experiment with diapers, or more so with wet pants and makeshift diapers (multiple pairs of underwear, towels/washcloths, paper towels, trash bags, etc.), it all focused around the sexual aspect. The only reason I was doing any of it was because it turned me on and as soon as I came I was done.

Now, I will wear to wear, sometimes going through several changes before showing and putting regular underwear back on. I do generally masturbate before taking my last diaper off, but I change out of it pretty quick not because I feel shame or gross but because that's what I planned to do anyway. Sometimes I'll fall asleep in it and then pee once more when I wake up, before hopping in the shower.

As a teenager I definitely considered myself exclusively DL/TL but now I've developed a little side too, so sometimes my diaper wearing is part of being in my little space.

Quite creative! Wish I had thought of that though my addiction has only recently grown stronger