Pushing it in public

[David315]

Hi all,

I was just just wondering how far and how daring you may have been in public while diapered. I have heard many stories about going for massages while diapered and going to the doctor. I am thinking about doing this kind of thing but am not sure yet. I was just wondering if any of you had any experiences to share.

Thanks

 

[bobbyjeff]

I guess if you're a voyeur who enjoys possible public ridicule or humiliation you might give a swing, but for the most part you are going to find that the folks around here think that intentionally exposing yourself in public is just asking for trouble.

 

[Darkfinn]

Please, use some sense here.

As hard as it may be to comprehend, the general public does not have a desire to see your diaper or know anything about its condition. I understand that you may have some exhibitionistic tendancies... but let's try to keep them to a minimum, ok?

How many news articles have you seen about some "Diapered Freak" going around and exposing his undergarment of choice to the masses? Things like this do not help the AB/DL community at all.

If you really want to go to your next physical in a thick diaper, think twice... odds are your doctor has seen this thing before, but you are probably going to get a lot of questions about it... as incontinence is a serious health issue experienced by millions.

I would not reccomend going to get a massage in only a diaper... put some boxers or gym shorts on over it please! The person giving your massage doesn't need any more complications in their day... and you'd better tip them damn good too.

 

[bob111]

I go anywhere in diapers. I just try to hide them as much as possible.

But the "best" I did was, in a magazine store, I crouched to read one on the bottom shelf and I knew my diaper was peaking out of my pant a bit and I let it be. Several peoples where around and I did not care.

Also, while wating in line to pay, on an other occasion, pulling my shirt a little to scratch, revealing the top of my diaper. Done machinally, I did not realise. I'm sure the persone behind me saw it.

I don't get a kick out of this, but I find it funny, just imagining what the "witness" would think.

 

[Fire2box]

I never try to expose my choice of underwear while out in public regardless if it's diapers boxers or tighty whites. I worn to the movies, the dentist and other places where I figured I wouldn't be able to move for a while. Plus diapers just gave added comfort for a root canal, though a MP3 player with loud earbuds that gives off great bass proves more useful.

 

[soren456]

I wear them in public because I want to wear them.

But I don't wear them for the public.

This means they're under my pants, I've got a shirt on, I'm not playing soccer or doing any other activity that will compromise the secret. I like it that way. I get to enjoy my diapers without needing to explain myself to curious or hostile onlookers.

 

[Siege89]

Unless i needed them for Med reason, I WOULD NEVER WEAR IN PUBLIC. This is privte and should be keeped as such.

 

[Fire2box]

Unless i needed them for Med reason, I WOULD NEVER WEAR IN PUBLIC. This is privte and should be keeped as such.

You can wear in public and still keep it 100% private. One of the best ways to wear in public without people finding out is act normal, if anything that's the best thing you can do. Asides for maybe wearing a longer shirt.

 

[Calico]

I wear in public all the time but lately I have been home a lot because I am not working much again. I have worn to work, stores, dentist, to my shrink, to the bank, movies, restaurants. But I do not wear when I see a doctor because I'm still not comfortable being seen in it and they usually have you strip down and put on the gown.

 

[Siege89]

I know i can but, I just cant do it, I feel like I'm exposing people to something that i shouldn't be. If it for Med, thats fine. But doing it for a fetish seem wrong to me.

 

[hinkie]

My thinking regarding this is simple. If you think of diapers as just another type of underwear, then act as such. This means not exposing your underwear choice in public. Now, in situations where it is unavoidable to reveal the diapers, such as a locker room, I would wear my boxer's over them.

While I have worn in public a few times, I am always discreet about it. Put yourself in the position of the person you might expose the diaper to, and realize how they will react.

 

[bobbyjeff]

For me its a safety issue. We live in a world where people have been beaten and killed for being openly homosexual, racially different, or just plain old not fitting in.

 

[Elli]

I'm wondering...

Is there perhaps a difference in opinion here between people who find it directly and solely sexual to wear a nappy/diaper and those who primarily find it a source of emotional boldness or for a different spin on an ordinary routine day? Or maybe not at all?


Now, it's obvious that there is overlap between the emotional and the sexual, and I'm sure many people find nappies an instigator of both sexual excitement AND emotional security.

If it were only for a sexual thrill, I would perhaps be more uncomfortable with wearing in public, regarding it as a deeply private thing. As I find it maybe 90% an emotional boost (maybe more) I feel OK with wearing in public as long as it is as discreet as possible.

I totally agree with hinkie that, 'If you think of diapers as just another type of underwear, then act as such.' I too think we have a responsibility to keep it discreet.

 

[Siege89]

I find it to be a mix of thing for me. I think its just safer for me not to wear is all. Plus I'm still kind of a newly open *B/DL. So as time goes on, I may wear in public. But atm i feel that it wouldn't be smart

 

[Slycamer]

ok i have gone as far to wear in the locker room with a pair of boxers over.

but that was intentional. as for unintentional i went to a roller skating rink and my best friend knows(slightly) and came up and said "your exposing your problem. i had loose pants and had no clue they were that loose till i was there. and i quickly went and tied my jacket around my waist to cover it up and so i didn't have to pull my pants up every second. now it was every 10 seconds.

 

[h3g3l]

I'm wondering...

Is there perhaps a difference in opinion here between people who find it directly and solely sexual to wear a nappy/diaper and those who primarily find it a source of emotional boldness or for a different spin on an ordinary routine day? Or maybe not at all?


Now, it's obvious that there is overlap between the emotional and the sexual, and I'm sure many people find nappies an instigator of both sexual excitement AND emotional security.

If it were only for a sexual thrill, I would perhaps be more uncomfortable with wearing in public, regarding it as a deeply private thing. As I find it maybe 90% an emotional boost (maybe more) I feel OK with wearing in public as long as it is as discreet as possible.

I totally agree with hinkie that, 'If you think of diapers as just another type of underwear, then act as such.' I too think we have a responsibility to keep it discreet.

Yes. These are two different things entirely. At their extremes, being a DL means you've got a fetish surrounding diapers. Enjoying humiliation surrounding wearing diapers marks infantilism.

 

[Elli]

Siege89 - I really respect your wise opinion there. Thanks for that.

h3g3l - That's very interesting to me, as I try to work out what's what with all this and my own desires. Thanks.

 

[adriansurley]

Being incontinent, I wear all the time. It is all a matter of what you get use to. Some people find it risky to just generally wear in public at all but what I would consider risky would technically me wearing like some spandex shorts or something. Then, again I am not one who really cares what others think too much within reason so...

 

[mooster]

I definitely would not push it. Discretion is key here.
:no:

 

[Darkfinn]

Being incontinent, I wear all the time. It is all a matter of what you get use to. Some people find it risky to just generally wear in public at all but what I would consider risky would technically me wearing like some spandex shorts or something. Then, again I am not one who really cares what others think too much within reason so...

Agreed.

When wearing 24/7 you realise that most of the general public is oblivious to your condition... so you don't go to such great lengths to hide your diapered state.

I just wear normal clothes over my diaper... nothing special, no underwear or extra layers or anything. I don't purposely try to show off... but if I bend over or move a certain way and someone sees a peek of something, so what? To me it's no different than regular underwear showing... and I see much of that every day anyways.

I do wear my pants one size large and a bit baggy... just to provide extra space for the padding... but otherwise my everyday wardrobe is unaltered. I certainly wouldn't wear anything skin-tight over my diapers... but I don't own any clothes like that, so no big deal.