practical problem, anyone who has some advice?

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JustAGuy

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So the situation is like this:
I live on my own and I regularly order diapers online. (usually like 2 packs of thick ones and one pack of thinner ones). My hiding spot is together with some small BDSM-stuff in a drawer under my bed, where you need to move a nighttable aside along the wall in order to open it. It's kind of a good spot, and it needs to be, cause yes, I do live on my own, but my mom tends to look around my appartment quite a lot when she visits.

Now, I try to keep my appartment clean myself on a day to day basis, but once in a while my mom comes te give it a good overall cleaning. Now, my hiding spot has prooven mom-proof so far. But last time she visited she said something like 'hmm, I'd like to clean under those drawers'. Now, for that to happen she would have to remove the drawers and see my stuff. She didn't actually mention a specific time and it was just some kind of 'by the way' thing she said. But I know my mom is kind of a 'hands-on'- person so I'm a bit worried for when she comes cleaning this friday.

So for my own peace of mind, it would be good to move them. But I have no idea where/how whatsoever. There are like 25 diapers left or something. I live in an appartment in a city.
3 possible scenarios I thought about:
- putting them in garbage bags (the only big enough bags I have) and storing them in one of those luggage lockers in the nearby trainstation for the time being. But me moving 2 (or so) garbage bags and putting them inside a locker would be a bit weird and I still have to see if they're big enough...
- Putting them in bags and ask a friend (who knows of my diaper fetish) if I can store them at her place for the time being. But then I'd have to take a 20 minute tram ride with 2 garbage bags or something, which also seems a bit weird
- I just risk it and hope for the best.

Some people will be thinking, just stop having her clean your appartment, and while that maybe a long-term solution for situations like this, for now that is not really an option.

Maybe I'm worrying about nothing and I should just risk it, but does anyone have any tips?
 

HarryPotter

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How about a suitcase with a lock. If she asks what's inside you say something like that's my Winter or Summer spare clothes.
 
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You're a grown up, kindly tell your mum there is no need to clean your bedroom you are more than capable of doing it yourself.
 

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So the situation is like this:
I live on my own and I regularly order diapers online. (usually like 2 packs of thick ones and one pack of thinner ones). My hiding spot is together with some small BDSM-stuff in a drawer under my bed, where you need to move a nighttable aside along the wall in order to open it. It's kind of a good spot, and it needs to be, cause yes, I do live on my own, but my mom tends to look around my appartment quite a lot when she visits.

Now, I try to keep my appartment clean myself on a day to day basis, but once in a while my mom comes te give it a good overall cleaning. Now, my hiding spot has prooven mom-proof so far. But last time she visited she said something like 'hmm, I'd like to clean under those drawers'. Now, for that to happen she would have to remove the drawers and see my stuff. She didn't actually mention a specific time and it was just some kind of 'by the way' thing she said. But I know my mom is kind of a 'hands-on'- person so I'm a bit worried for when she comes cleaning this friday.

So for my own peace of mind, it would be good to move them. But I have no idea where/how whatsoever. There are like 25 diapers left or something. I live in an appartment in a city.
3 possible scenarios I thought about:
- putting them in garbage bags (the only big enough bags I have) and storing them in one of those luggage lockers in the nearby trainstation for the time being. But me moving 2 (or so) garbage bags and putting them inside a locker would be a bit weird and I still have to see if they're big enough...
- Putting them in bags and ask a friend (who knows of my diaper fetish) if I can store them at her place for the time being. But then I'd have to take a 20 minute tram ride with 2 garbage bags or something, which also seems a bit weird
- I just risk it and hope for the best.

Some people will be thinking, just stop having her clean your appartment, and while that maybe a long-term solution for situations like this, for now that is not really an option.

Maybe I'm worrying about nothing and I should just risk it, but does anyone have any tips?
you could clean there yourself but depending on the circumstances that might arouse suspicion. removable ceiling tiles make wonderful hiding places, just find a spot she doesn't normally clean, bottom of a sock or shirt drawer, inside folded towels, under the mattress. good luck
 

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You could put them in a box in a closet for temporary.


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Perhaps you could find a box that will fit them all and wrap it up to look like a gift for someone?
 

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my advice would be to grow up and stop having/letting your mom clean your apartment. I mean seriously, no wonder the millennial generation gets called cupcakes and snowflakes. NO offense, but be an adult.
 

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Honestly, if anyone feels the need to poke around my home, they're going to earn that eye-full that they probably didn't want.
 

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Putting them in your friends house would be the best bet for you right now, (Unless your mom also cleans his house =) ) it should be impossible for her to find them. And if you're concerned about transporting them in your garbage bag, just put them in a traveling suitcase or in multiable backpacks (if they don't fit in one of course). And once she comes and does her routinely checkup, go back to your friends house and some of you diapers back but not all in-case she does come back again :)
 

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Just a suggestion, but how about tell your mother that is no need to clean that area. If she asks why, directly tell her it would better for both of you.
 
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Your mother is still cleaning your space? Even after you moved out? You dont need a better hiding spot, what you need is to sit down with mom and tell her that her services are no longer required.

Alternatively, if you really want her to keep cleaning up after you, as an adult.... just tell her. "Mom, I know we are both adults now. I know you still get gratification from wiping my behind and cleaning up my messes. Well, you are in luck, because I still like to wear diapers! In fact, they are under my bed. While we are having this heart to heart, I have a win-win for both of us. You can change my diapers too, as well as clean up MY house, and we can pretend like Im still a baby. You satisfy your motherly desires, I satisfy my baby desires, and we can both be awkwardly functional!" If she seems unphased, at the end you can add, "my diaper is a little soiled now. I might cry soon if im not changed."

Sarcasm off. Seriously, you have your own apartment. Your place, your rules. Grow a pair and cut off mommy from treating you like a kid, or go full pervert. Your choice, and I care not which one you decide.
 

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Your mother is still cleaning your space? Even after you moved out? You dont need a better hiding spot, what you need is to sit down with mom and tell her that her services are no longer required.

Alternatively, if you really want her to keep cleaning up after you, as an adult.... just tell her. "Mom, I know we are both adults now. I know you still get gratification from wiping my behind and cleaning up my messes. Well, you are in luck, because I still like to wear diapers! In fact, they are under my bed. While we are having this heart to heart, I have a win-win for both of us. You can change my diapers too, as well as clean up MY house, and we can pretend like Im still a baby. You satisfy your motherly desires, I satisfy my baby desires, and we can both be awkwardly functional!" If she seems unphased, at the end you can add, "my diaper is a little soiled now. I might cry soon if im not changed."

Sarcasm off. Seriously, you have your own apartment. Your place, your rules. Grow a pair and cut off mommy from treating you like a kid, or go full pervert. Your choice, and I care not which one you decide.
Sound advice, this.
 

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... Seriously, you have your own apartment. Your place, your rules. Grow a pair and cut off mommy from treating you like a kid, or go full pervert. Your choice, and I care not which one you decide.
OK I'll admit, I LOL'd!

I think though from reading the OP, that he's not dependent on his mom to clean his space, but it's a thing she does periodically, as a way to keep in touch. Maybe he enjoys the excuse to see her and socialize, maybe she enjoys doing something for him that's supportive on occasion.

I mean my mom likes to bake me cookies when she visits and it's not like I depend on her for food ... my wife on the other hand...

But anyhoo, getting back to the OP, I think you can just tell your mom not to clean there. It is your apartment you can set limits. If you must justify it, you could tell her it's where you keep your porn. Or if you do want her to clean them, get a plastic storage trunk and padlock and put them there. Then you can stick it in the closet.

Hehee, thanks to MarcusP though I can't help thinking that if she asks what's in the trunk you can either say, "A dead body", "Porn", or "Adult diapers", and I bet she won't ask any further questions.
 

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Or you could be honest about it. Take out the drawers for her, and if/when she asks about the diapers tell her you're an adult and choose to wear them sometimes because you want to.

Alternately, if you're too afraid to do that, you could say you'd have to tip the whole bed and move it to do that. It's too heavy for that though, and you do not want to risk her health for an area of the floor that is so blocked off anyways that it probably doesn't even have dust under it. It's just not worth it, but hay maybe when you move next time.
 

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PUHleeze!!! If your mother is (and has!) cleaned YOUR apartment you DESERVE to have her find your stuff! Gimme a break, guy. HELLOooooooooooo?
 

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My mother is very bad about understanding the concept of privacy herself... so I've gotten rather good at hiding things.

Let's see, 25 diapers...

Above and beyond the other suggestions, they could be simply moved into a box in a closet she's already cleaned. Or, if you want to be a little more clever, wrap them in plastic wrap and tape them that way to the undersides of drawers. :p Without knowing more about your apartment, I can't immediately suggest better hiding places than that, or than has already been suggested by others.

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PUHleeze!!! If your mother is (and has!) cleaned YOUR apartment you DESERVE to have her find your stuff! Gimme a break, guy. HELLOooooooooooo?
WTF are you talking about? He never said (so far as I read) that he ASKED her to clean up his apartment. How does he deserve to have his privacy invaded? My mom did this to me all the time when I was living at home, and I'll admit I'm not exactly the neatest person in the world, but I never asked her to and honestly would have preferred that she didn't take it upon herself to do so.
 
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Some people will be thinking, just stop having her clean your appartment, and while that maybe a long-term solution for situations like this, for now that is not really an option.
I think this is the statement that seems to be causing some confusion and consternation, so perhaps you could elaborate a bit. Why is not really an option to have her stop cleaning your apartment? Of there are physical limitations or a disability which prevent you from doing it yourself, then it's understandable. Or if your schedule is unmanageable where you're required to work seventy hour weeks and you don't have the time or energy, then it's fortunate you can still get some help from your mother. Or if you are paying her to clean because she needs to supplement her income. Even in those situations however, you are still an adult and you have a right to privacy. You have the right to set limits as to what needs to be cleaned and what areas are off limits. You don't need to give reasons but you need to set the boundaries. As your mother, she should understand and respect your wishes, but if she is unwilling or unable refrain from going into areas where you don't want her, then it is time to come up with an alternative arrangement.
 
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