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MaxiPad89

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I'm not calling anyone out, just looking for rationale discussion.

How come the thread with the person asking about porn sites got locked? This website is a place for ABs, DLs and ICs. I think for a lot of DLs specifically (I as one), diapers are in fact a sexual fetish. I don't see how being able to talk about sexual fetishes is necessarily a bad thing. People do mention sex in posts, so why not be able to mention sexual outlets? Websites like DiaperGal and AB Hunnies are for the most part pretty tasteful, others are a little more sexualized, but either way, sex is normal and healthy, so why not be able to help each other find places they might enjoy?

I've been a subscriber DiaperGal many times, not so much other places, so I'm not really outraged out anything. Just a thought.
 

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I think that the rationale is that:

a) We are a support site trying to help each other and new members with the problems of being ABDL etc. We are not a dating site and we do not encourage the use of porn etc because;
b) Much of the site can be viewed by the public and as such, we try to be PG-13. If we are to change how people see us and to appear safe to hesitant and worried potential new members, the last thing that we should be discussing is porn. If that is what people want, they can find it themselves.

Just my view.

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There is a difference between not being a dating site and overzealous moderators. The fact is there aren't a whole lot of these communities. So any stupid rule can exist without fear of alienation. Just claim it's a rule in the discussion is over.
I'm not saying that all of the moderators act like this, but definitely some do. One in particular is on a different site. He's by far the worst.
 

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The lack of porn is due to ADISC having roughly PG13 content standards. While that is kind of a relic from before the <18 ban, I would be kind of disappointed if it went away. Part of the reason I like the site is because it's a lot cleaner than a lot of other things out there.
 

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See, I disagree. It's not like we're spamming the websites of people doing it with a diaper hanging between their legs. We already discuss how diapers and sexual connections, there's a thread right now about how someone plays with themself through their diaper. If that stuff is going to be allowed, I don't seem the harm in simply discussing what porn websites are good and what are bad.

Also, to the comment about trying to change how people see us, I think people will much more easily accept diapers as a sexual fetish than people shitting themselves because they want to feel young. I'm not going to judge what people are into, but I think one would be way more frowned upon than the other.
 

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ADISC has a rule requiring content to be PG-13, i.e. it must be acceptable for a PG-13 movie. (Roughly speaking).

When Moo closed all teen accounts, a number of members expressed their concern that ADISC would turn into another 18+ site. Hence, we left the rule in place.

Personally, I think allowing non-PG-13 content would make it more challenging for ADISC to remain a support site. If everyone is typing with one hand or using the site to find more porn sites, that would make it hard for people to obtain support. There's plenty of other sites that offer or focus around adult content and discussion. ADISC has its own niche - support and forums free of R/X-rated content; I can't see any good reason we should give up that focus to become something we aren't.
 
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HogansHeroes,

I quite agree. Quite simply, this site is as great as it is because we mostly keep things clean. I have had a look at a number of other sites and left pretty promptly because they were distinctly 18+ sites. ADISC successfully focuses on supporting people by keeping it clean and focusing on the issues. If the PG-13 rule was dropped it would ruin the site and I would probably leave. That would also leave me with no access to a safe community.

Leave it as it is I say,

DLE
 
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I have no problem with the PG-13 rule. I came to this site after I got my computer last year and found that most of the diaper sites were just porn. When I came across Adisc, my first thought was 'where are the pictures?' before I realized that this one was different. I appreciate the thoughtful, supportive, intelligent community we have here and it is a privilege to be a part of it.. I don't want to see non members looking for support googling or stumbling upon Adisc and mistakenly assuming it's a resource for porn. I also think of people who laugh at us because of our fetish who might take a look at this site and having it reaffirm their misguided belief that we're just a bunch of deviant sickos.

Anyone can google diaper porn and find what they're looking for. We don't need to be a resource for it.
 

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Adisc does not throw up a content block if I view it on my mobile phone unlike EP and a like
 

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Porn doesnt run everything. U run it. If content here was free, there would be cum everywhere and besides its an easy community to feel great about yourself. In glad its pg-13
 
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While I would point out that there are ways of having R-rated discussion that are safe from the prying eyes of new members, if there were enough interest, I agree that keeping the main site PG-13 is a good goal and makes for a more welcoming community. Especially given that we want this to be a place that one could direct parents, friends, or significant others to if they want to engage in a discussion about why someone they care about is interested in wearing diapers.

I also think that one can be PG-13 while discussing sex, especially in a support context. For example, the thread about people playing with their diaper started with somebody feeling insecure and a flood of replies all saying a variation of "don't worry that's normal" and (I think tastefully for the most part) explaining how and why touching a diaper can be involved in sexual practice. Given the considerable worry that people place on everything from finding a significant other to performing the physical act of sex, I think it makes perfect sense that they would come here seeking support for that and receive that support in an engaged discussion. While at the same time maintaining some rules about avoiding overly graphical sexual discussion or pornography.

One could almost say we're the 8th grade science class of diaper forums. =P
 

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Because this place is PG13 and pornography is not PG13.

If you want to get your rocks off, go find another forum to do it in
 

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See, this is the exact type of response that pisses me off. Completely unnecessary.

Too bad, mate. If you want to whack off, then this isn't the forum to do so, nor is this forum going to supply you with material to do it; that's not what this place is for.
 

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See, this is the exact type of response that pisses me off. Completely unnecessary.

Well it's essentially correct. This is the one AB/DL site I know of that remains free of porn type stuff. You can have every other site out there, that's cool; but some of us don't care much for that. Maybe we can keep our one site, no?
 

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Too bad, mate. If you want to whack off, then this isn't the forum to do so, nor is this forum going to supply you with material to do it; that's not what this place is for.

I have noticed somethin, why do you bully almost everyone you talk 2?
 

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I have noticed somethin, why do you bully almost everyone you talk 2?

It's the way I talk. I never mean ill when I post, although people make it out to be that way, which really sucks and I've tried to change my typing habits to sound better, but it's difficult and to no avail. The way I type feels second nature now that I can't fathom changing it, and I actually don't want to.

I'm sorry if it comes off as bullying. I try to make my posts short and to the point without much sugar to cover anything up, and it just comes out harsh and rude, but I promise I don't mean any ill nor hate.
 

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It's the way I talk. I never mean ill when I post, although people make it out to be that way, which really sucks and I've tried to change my typing habits to sound better, but it's difficult and to no avail. The way I type feels second nature now that I can't fathom changing it, and I actually don't want to.

I'm sorry if it comes off as bullying. I try to make my posts short and to the point without much sugar to cover anything up, and it just comes out harsh and rude, but I promise I don't mean any ill nor hate.

Thats fine I never said u were or anything its just that it was on my thread u against snowblitz the other day and this. I was only curious. Ill try to translate whenever if ur trying to make a point without harshness. ^^

Sometimes it does seem that way and like you said its the way you are, people shouldn't be so quick to judge but I should be the one 2 talk but hey now I know. If you dont want anyone to make it seem u dont sound harsh nothing is better then a quick second emoticon like a smily face.

At least you have your spirit cuz...looks like you have no skin nuthin but bones with them roses, heh heh (that was terrible Snivy)
 

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Too bad, mate. If you want to whack off, then this isn't the forum to do so, nor is this forum going to supply you with material to do it; that's not what this place is for.

Wow, what an asshole.

First of all, I never said I was whacking off to anything. I said we should talk about allowing users to discuss what websites they find worthwhile. If you read my original post, you'd have read that I frequent one site and that's it. I'm not here trying to get a rise out of anything. I know where I want to go and didn't ask anyone for an opinion.

Second of all, people who have diaper fetishes need some sense of support too. Do you have any idea how hard it is to go up to an adult woman and tell them, hey, I'd like to do you, now go put a diaper on? Even in the most committed and loving relationship it's not exactly an easy task.

My problem is that people here talking about shitting themselves, people here talk about dressing as a one year old, people talk about wanting to damage their body to require a diaper for the rest of their life, and that's all fine and dandy, but god forbid you want to see a member of the opposite sex wearing one. That's apparently a huge problem. Go look at my post history and you'll see never once did I mention trying to get my mojo on to posts of this page. I don't need to do that.

But hey, if you want to be condescending douche bag to someone who is trying to say there might be more people who want to discuss a topic, go right ahead.
 

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Wow, what an asshole.

First of all, I never said I was whacking off to anything. I said we should talk about allowing users to discuss what websites they find worthwhile. If you read my original post, you'd have read that I frequent one site and that's it. I'm not here trying to get a rise out of anything. I know where I want to go and didn't ask anyone for an opinion.

Second of all, people who have diaper fetishes need some sense of support too. Do you have any idea how hard it is to go up to an adult woman and tell them, hey, I'd like to do you, now go put a diaper on? Even in the most committed and loving relationship it's not exactly an easy task.

My problem is that people here talking about shitting themselves, people here talk about dressing as a one year old, people talk about wanting to damage their body to require a diaper for the rest of their life, and that's all fine and dandy, but god forbid you want to see a member of the opposite sex wearing one. That's apparently a huge problem. Go look at my post history and you'll see never once did I mention trying to get my mojo on to posts of this page. I don't need to do that.

But hey, if you want to be condescending douche bag to someone who is trying to say there might be more people who want to discuss a topic, go right ahead.

Actually kurocat just said its the way he is I personally dont think he's an asshole but if I might point fingers your kinda being rude calling out unneccesary things.

Who said we didnt believe you? We personally dont want porn or else semen is all over the website and the staff has to clean it up. Staff help with issues, not tolerate immature or explicit content.

None of us are being rude except for you. Care to tone it down a littlebit? I dont see any difference in thinking its ok to blow up, that makes you completely defenseless.

People obviously have different fetishes but I highly doubt we are gonna be rude about it, this is a community not a slutpit. If you have a problem with your issue then talk to someone umm whats the word...AHA a therapist. I see your problem but now your extending the situation even worse. Please dont. Because snivy will be exhausted hearing fighting.

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I also think that one can be PG-13 while discussing sex, especially in a support context. For example, the thread about people playing with their diaper started with somebody feeling insecure and a flood of replies all saying a variation of "don't worry that's normal" and (I think tastefully for the most part) explaining how and why touching a diaper can be involved in sexual practice. Given the considerable worry that people place on everything from finding a significant other to performing the physical act of sex, I think it makes perfect sense that they would come here seeking support for that and receive that support in an engaged discussion. While at the same time maintaining some rules about avoiding overly graphical sexual discussion or pornography.

I said somethin bout sex 1 time bout "penis captivus"
 
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