Perverted? (Half assed explicit maybe)

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I have a question for all female members of TBDL of which there are few.

Other of us manly men can answer, if you know. I might have posted this before but I cannot remember.

Why am I "perverted" for enjoying womens... uhh womanly features.

I enjoy looking at them, talking about them to friends and looking at them some more. If a girl hears me doing this, why does this make me "perverted"?

I shouldn't talk about this in front of girls O' course but I don't try to. I know I'm doomed to self love for at least the next year or two but why does being the way I am make me "Perverted"? Also, I'm not going to change the way I am so women will like me more.
Man's Prayer said:
I am a man, but I can change, if I have too, I guess.
 

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No. Your not perverted. Every/Most men will talk about it. In front of women or not. It's natural.

But just be sure you don't go that extra mile.
 

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If you drool over a woman on the bus...that might make you perverted....but just admiring her womanly..erm..attributes hardly makes you perverted.

I'm just presuming you admire without the ogling and drooling! :p

Of course, I'm old enough to understand how the male mind works..."BOOBS!"..."BEER!"...(not necessarily in that order) heheh

Anyway...there is the opinion of a female (the type with 2 x-chromosomes)!
 

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LOL @ the man's prayer (Red Green rules :D)

To be honest, I couldn't answer, women are like Arabic to me, fancy and frilly and totally foreign! Perhaps, it may be when men go a little too far, and are anything but subtle in pointing out the size of a woman's breasts or whatever.
 

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making comments about a girl's body or openly staring at her breasts is considered rude for a reason. it makes a person feel like they're just an object for your pleasure, and not even a full human being. i know i have at least one female friend who gets really upset and uncomfortable when guys objectify her body. it makes her feel scared and powerless and dehumanized when people look at her that way.

you can't change the fact that you're sexually attracted to women's bodies. most guys are; it's normal. but if you think only about a person's body and forget that it belongs to a human being with thoughts and feelings and a personality, then you ARE being a little bit perverted. try not to stare, and don't comment on girls' bodies within their hearing. these are basic rules of social etiquette.

a lot of guys never learn to see females as anything other than lust-inducing objects. guys like that seldom get laid, and when they do it's just f*cking, not lovemaking. if you ever want to be in a satisfying relationship with someone, you have to get to know them as a person, and think with something besides your dick.
 
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Hmm.

Well I genrally don't comment on them within earshot. The thing is, I only talk to other guys about it, what I want to know is how this chick keeps finding out. And shes kinda bitchy in the first place so It doesn't really matter. I never talk to them about it because I know all they do if you do is just get mad at yeh. I generally think with my brain thanks. :D
 

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Me and my Friends usually just do a "DAYUM!" when we drive or walk past a rather "hot chick". (Out of earshot though)

Sometimes it might even be...

Friend: "DAYUM!"
Me: "Dude, I think you'd go to jail if you hit that."
Friend: "Really?" *Looks again*
Me: "Yeah, girls nowadays have a pre-requisite to dress slutty."
Friend: "Oh shit!"

(and yes, none of my friends know I'm inclined to the other gender. It doesn't bother me, anyway.)
 

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but if you think only about a person's body and forget that it belongs to a human being with thoughts and feelings and a personality, then you ARE being a little bit perverted.
Now here's something to think about: around here (Orange County) most of the girls that are drooled over have hot bodies but no personality. I may be wrong but their high school life consists of ditching, partying, and f**king. So does that change things at all?
 
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To quote Lewis Black in Accepted:

"No more sexual harassment lawsuits, either. Since when is it a crime to say "Hey, nice tits"? When did THAT go out the window?"
 
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Ahh Lewis Black.

An intelligent man, and a funny man.

Kraidy how do they not find out?
 

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Me and my Friends usually just do a "DAYUM!" when we drive or walk past a rather "hot chick". (Out of earshot though)

Sometimes it might even be...

Friend: "DAYUM!"
Me: "Dude, I think you'd go to jail if you hit that."
Friend: "Really?" *Looks again*
Me: "Yeah, girls nowadays have a pre-requisite to dress slutty."
Friend: "Oh shit!"

(and yes, none of my friends know I'm inclined to the other gender. It doesn't bother me, anyway.)
That situation sounds really similar to me. At the place I used to work (retail) one of the guys would point out a some girl and go "I'd hit it", to which I would have to point out she's in junior high...and they didn't know I was eyeing the guy behind her :rolleyes:
 

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You're not perverted, jeez.

Then again, I probably wouldn't know. I'm not too fond of that part of a woman, if you know what I mean. *blushes and hides*
 

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It depends on the girl really. Some might still think guys talking about guy stuff is perverted, others couldn't care less.

As long as what you're saying isn't down right rude or offensive, then it isn't a problem. Most girls I know talk about sex more than guys do.
 
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Most girls I know talk about sex more than guys do.
Thats what makes me mad, they talk about it as much as we do, or slightly less, and WERE perverted. Come on, I just want some. Give it to me plzthx.
 

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Did anyone notice this line of Mr Alex's original post in this thread?

I have a question for all female members of TBDL of which there are few.
And did anyone notice that subsequently I was the only female who actually responded?

Just thought I'd point that out! :)
 

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It's probably worth ignoring any girl that says that you're perverted because of what you talk about (unless you really are being perverted).
If someone butted into a private conversation to tell me that what I saying was wrong/perverted/anything I'd have to throw something at them.

Although actually I think girls are just trying to wind you up.
 

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Did anyone notice this line of Mr Alex's original post in this thread?



And did anyone notice that subsequently I was the only female who actually responded?

Just thought I'd point that out! :)
Sorry ayanna, but a thread in which only women respond is going to be pretty dead around here...:p
 

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Hmm.

Well I genrally don't comment on them within earshot. The thing is, I only talk to other guys about it, what I want to know is how this chick keeps finding out. And shes kinda bitchy in the first place so It doesn't really matter. I never talk to them about it because I know all they do if you do is just get mad at yeh. I generally think with my brain thanks. :D
sounds like your talking about a specific girl. and by the way you keep talking about it, it sounds like you do care and it DOES matter. you should do one of two things: stop talking about her like that and see if it helps, or give up!!
 
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