I'll trade anyone who wants to...I have to wear most of the time but any/all of the time I even *might* fall asleep since I wound up unable to stand or walk in Aug-Sep 2004....took a couple years to be able to go without a wheelchair or walker (though still use a cane) but the wetting issues have never left and have been slowly worsening while awake though I am able to go without a diaper in the summertime so long as I am able to force myself to go to the bathrooms every 45 minutes or so.
Needing to wear is nowhere near the fun wanting to wear (for fun, especially diapersex, which used to be a whenever I was in the mood activity including both of my sons being conceived while I was "in" fully loaded "Pampers" (actually Molicare Super Plus, sons were born in '98 & '01), GOD, I miss those days!!!