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Don't you just hate it when you meet those people that are just mind-bogglingly irritating? For me, I can't stand the type that discards your sincere kindness like it was nothing. It makes me want to punch them. It's like they think I am inferior to them, and thus undesirable to associate with. I never will understand this isolationist mentality, and I do despise it. Kindness is kindness. It is an evil thing to condemn a person for wanting to be friends with you. I feel very strongly about this.

What I really don't get though is the whole irrationality of this behaviour. Why would you recoil from those that wish you well, provide you with opportunities and desire socialization with you? It is something only the most neurotic of fools and bullies would do. So not only do I want to punch these types of people for being insensitive jerks, but for being stupid as well. They can't even manage to act to their own benefit. Truly deplorable and insane.

What kinds of things do people do that drive you up a wall?
 

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I hate people that are all goodie-ish...Like people who never do anything bad, or people that say they will never cuss, or lie, or do something bad...It makes me want to punch them in the face...I also hate people that are just retarded...(Not actual handicapped people)...
 
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I hate this special kid, who isn't severely special, just won't go especially far in life, druggie and stuff. I hate him because he insults people for no reason, and is a dick to everyone.

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I hate two types of people.

Person A: One that has been born and breed into luxury. Became a doctor or a lawyer and thinks that everything comes to everyone on a silver platter. The kind that turns their noses up at things that you have tried to do for them because its not the way they are used to and they want you to act differently than you normally do. The kind of person who has never lived one solitary day thinking...what now?

Person B: A person who has a disability and uses it to be able to get out of things.

ie: "I can't help you with the dishes because I have a bad foot"

What exactly does having a bad foot have to do with sitting on a stool and doing the dishes?
 

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There is this girl Kara I know. She. gets. on. my. last. nerve. I have known her for about 2 years now, she is just so damn weird. First time I met her our conversation went like this,

Kara: Hi
Amanda: Good Morning.
Kara: I like your sweater.
Amanda: Thanks
Kara: It's Babyphat, or a knockoff?
Amanda: It's real.
Kara: How much did it cost?
Amanda: Around 100
Kara: Must be nice to afford clothes like that
Amanda: It was a birthday gift.
Kara: Whatever... *walks away*

Honestly, I still don't get the point of that conversation. Anyways, I've heard from some of our friends that she likes to talk behind my back, but I really can't be bothered with confronting her about it, I have better things to do. She's also one of those take, take, take, people. Y'know the kind? You owe me everything, and your not getting anything in return.

She's also really vulgar. She can look at an elderly person and tell them to "Fu%k off." Shes just... really weird. She can go tell my friend that I'm a stupid whore, then come up to me, give me a great big hug, and tell me that I'm freakin' awesome. Girl needs counselling I tell ya...

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I also hate girls... who think they are the shit. I mean, a healthy confidence is good, it's great, but some people take it too far. My best friend thinks, lmao, she's skinny. Every time I see her she's like "I lost 20 pounds, I'm now a size 6," and I'm sitting there thinking... you look the same as yesterday, and you sure as hell ain't no size six, because those are my pants your wearing." lmao.
 
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Is it okay to just hate the general public?

Perhaps I just nitpick on the small details too much, but I find a lot of people rub me up the wrong way. Maybe just being to judgemental?
 

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Oh, I could go on with this topic for hours, but instead I'll just stick with a very few:

- Anti-governmentalists. Please, do you really even know enough about the government of your country -- whether it's American, Australian, British, or what-have-you -- to bitch about it? My bet is likely not, but when you are well-educated enough about your opinions, I'll be glad to toss conversation with you. American kids are big on this, but they painful truth is, most of them don't have any way to legitimately support their opinion.

- "My Life Sucks!" Get over it. No matter how bad you think your life is, suck it up and put on your big-girl panties. Wipe your eyes, because I can guarantee that there are other people somewhere else who are so much less fortunate and don't even think twice about their grievous condition.

- Stupid people. You know who you are.

- People who don't clean up after their dog in public. I hope you get hit by a car that bursts into flames -- you and your pretty little dog.
 

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I dislike people that won't shut up. Whether it be online or IRL. They just keep yacking and yacking and yacking.

Hint: If I'm taking forever to respond and giving you one-word replies... stop talking.

Also... I have an intense hatred for people who insist on talking on the cell-phone and driving. If you have to answer it and make a 1 min conversation... fine. If it's gonna be longer than that... get off the road. You are endangering other people's lives.
 

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Frankly, I don't really "hate" anyone. :D :)
Nobody I currently talk to rubs me the wrong way, either.

Why? Because if someone really starts to get on my nerves, I will usually just add them to my ignore/block list, and close the window.
Within 5 minutes, I forget about them.
Since I only clear my ignore/block list maybe once or twice a year, I don't have to see them again for quite awhile.

I'm a very tolerant person. I don't mind if other people have different beliefs to me, or even if they criticise me or my work. So long as they do it with tact and respect, that is fine.
Someone has to deliberately lie to me, display a lot of manipulative behaviour in front of me, or repeatedly waste my time, before I will become annoyed with them.

Manipulative behaviour means things like:
* complaining loudly in order to get more attention than you deserve
* indulging in self-pity, or otherwise making people feel sorry for you
* sucking up to authority figures
* using passive-aggressive techniques such as "Fine!" or "Well, Dear".

Lying is pretty simple. If you say something is true when you know it isn't, that's a lie.

Wasting my time is again pretty simple. It consists of things like:
* requesting "help" with a problem but not providing any information as to the problem itself (forcing me to waste my time asking, when this information should have been provided in the first place)
* bugging me about trivial issues
* complaining to me about things which have nothing to do with me
* asking questions to which you don't want an honest answer
 

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People who don't indicate (whilst driving), especially on roundabouts!
I just step out into the road and force them to break harshly now. :D
Well not really, but I should!

I hate closed-minded people, especially those who aren't open to ideas or opinions other than their own. I hate people who like to debate, but always use logical fallacies and put together a very nice sounding arguement that actually makes no sense (it's worse when they do it on purpose).

People who commit stupid crimes, like murder or rape or anything violent.

Snobs! Anyone who purposefully discriminates against someone else on the basis of anything that the person can't help (race, sex, sexuality, class etc...).

People who say that they are depressed when they are not.

People who lie for personal gain.

Hmmm, lots of people annoy me. I just like niceness! Anyone who acts selfishly, bullies others, has a closed mind, thinks that they're better than others, or hurts other people is someone who rubs me the wrong way.

(And I'm relieved to find that this thread wasn't about anything sexual, which I originally thought it was. :p)
 

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In all seriousness, I hate dumb people.
 
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I hate closed-minded people, especially those who aren't open to ideas or opinions other than their own. I hate people who like to debate, but always use logical fallacies and put together a very nice sounding arguement that actually makes no sense (it's worse when they do it on purpose).
Eep! Stay away from me then. :p

Hah, nah... I have to agree with this point. It can be frustrating sometimes when you find you are talking to someone who's acting like a brick wall or just regurgitating an opinion they heard elsewhere. As for the debating thing, I love a good debate, but only when someone has put forward a very solid rebuttal to an argument. I base my own argument on personal experience - always have, always will. Because it's the only thing that I know that is 100% certain.

I'm pretty open to others peoples ideas and opinions. I consider it a learning experience. I may like my way of things, but sometimes (ok, I'll admit - usually) there is always a better way to do it that someone else can teach me. And hey, anything that can save me effort and time is welcome. :)
 
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Frankly, I don't really "hate" anyone. :D :)
Nobody I currently talk to rubs me the wrong way, either.

Why? Because if someone really starts to get on my nerves, I will usually just add them to my ignore/block list, and close the window.
Within 5 minutes, I forget about them.
Since I only clear my ignore/block list maybe once or twice a year, I don't have to see them again for quite awhile.

I'm a very tolerant person. I don't mind if other people have different beliefs to me, or even if they criticise me or my work. So long as they do it with tact and respect, that is fine.
Someone has to deliberately lie to me, display a lot of manipulative behaviour in front of me, or repeatedly waste my time, before I will become annoyed with them.

Manipulative behaviour means things like:
* complaining loudly in order to get more attention than you deserve
* indulging in self-pity, or otherwise making people feel sorry for you
* sucking up to authority figures
* using passive-aggressive techniques such as "Fine!" or "Well, Dear".

Lying is pretty simple. If you say something is true when you know it isn't, that's a lie.

Wasting my time is again pretty simple. It consists of things like:
* requesting "help" with a problem but not providing any information as to the problem itself (forcing me to waste my time asking, when this information should have been provided in the first place)
* bugging me about trivial issues
* complaining to me about things which have nothing to do with me
* asking questions to which you don't want an honest answer
Is he talking about me again... >.>

In all seriousness, I hate dumb people.
I do not like it when people say that. There will always be someone of greater intelligence than you. "Hating dumb people" is very narrow minded, you do not know what people face and how they were brought up. You also do not know their challenges, so I do not believe this to be a fair 'hate.'

In all honesty though, I am with Moo, I do not 'hate' anyone. Hate is an extremely strong word that I only use in times of passion when I do not think clearly. I find that it really is true, you know, the saying "Hating someone is really hating something within yourself." It always seems to hold true, even when I look at other people, and listen to what they 'hate.'

Don't get me wrong, negativity is good, normal and healthy, but I find it very ignorant to use the word 'hate' so loosely. Oh and the negativity thing...just remember that positivity is normal as well :)

FullMetal
 

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What kinds of things do people do that drive you up a wall?
1: Whiners. Honest to god, everyone has their own problems, and the last thing I want to do is listen to you have a bitch about how your life sucks all the goddamn time. I can understand you having a bad spell, or a string of bad luck, but when all a person ever does is whine about how bad their life is constantly, that's when I fantasise about smacking a brick upside their heads. "NOW YOU'VE GOT SOMETHING TO WHINE ABOUT, BITCH! ENJOY YOUR SKULL FRACTURE!"

2: People who I can't disengage from. I detest it when someone cannot get any sort of hint that I want our conversation to end, or even worse, when they start up a conversation without me being willing. A prime example would be me sitting at a computer with my headphones on, and some dickhead sitting down next to me, Pulling one headphone off, and saying "Hey, what are you doing?". That actually happened, and I swear I was so tempted to ram a keyboard into his mouth.

3: People who invade your personal space. I hate it when you're talking to someone, and all they do is walk closer to you. then you walk backwards, which in turns makes them walk closer to you.... Ergh!!

4: Acceptance-whores. The people who flaunt every aspect of their personal lives right in your face, and then act like they're saints because they "don't give a shit" what other's think of them.

"I do drugs, and I'm damn proud of it!"
"I'm gay, so **** you if you can't accept me!"

When your entire social identity is based off you either being gay or any other crap like that, you're just an annoyance. I don't give a shit of you're gay, or you're a "straight up thug" or any other crap. Force feed it down my throat, and I'll force feed some reality up your ass.

Humphrey Sez: yous sounding like a grumpy old man!!
 
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Oh, I could go on with this topic for hours, but instead I'll just stick with a very few:

- Anti-governmentalists. Please, do you really even know enough about the government of your country -- whether it's American, Australian, British, or what-have-you -- to bitch about it? My bet is likely not, but when you are well-educated enough about your opinions, I'll be glad to toss conversation with you. American kids are big on this, but they painful truth is, most of them don't have any way to legitimately support their opinion.
When you say this do you mean those people who jump on the bandwagon every time there is something new to hate, or those of us who don't hate the government, only the current authority and still like it here, but realise the United States isn't the best country in the world either?
 

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I really really hate...

1. Individuals that think they know a lot more because they know more than you, you follower of "the man!"

2. The average teenager.

3. Creeps on the internet.

4. WHINERS ABOUT LIFE!
 

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I'm willing to give almost anyone a chance, usually even more than one chance, but I think I've started to just dislike (not necessarily hate) people in general. Half the world is just too damn judgmental, hurtful, greedy, indifferent, arrogant, and close-minded.... many won't even admit it. I wish they could just get over it so the world would be a better place. Don't get me wrong though. There are great people out there in the world (though no one is perfect).

Anti-governmentalists. Please, do you really even know enough about the government of your country -- whether it's American, Australian, British, or what-have-you -- to bitch about it? My bet is likely not, but when you are well-educated enough about your opinions, I'll be glad to toss conversation with you. American kids are big on this, but they painful truth is, most of them don't have any way to legitimately support their opinion.
Governments.... can't live with them, can't live without them. I'm sure lots of people probably don't understand how tough it is to run a country. However, the government is supposed to exist for the people, but unfortunately, in many cases, it might seem like the government doesn't care or just doesn't do enough. The fact they need to know is that the government is made of many people. Many of those people may really not care, but many others do. However, bureaucracy is slow and people don't like that.... even if there is someone that cares. Plus, people's opinions can differ so greatly that there will ALWAYS be someone somewhere to bitch about something.

Also, those of you people saying you hate when people whine about life... what if those people didn't whine? The feelings could be bottled up inside.... then those people hurt themselves or someone else. Some people really don't have great lives. (I admit my life kinda sucks sometimes, but I don't whine about it constantly. There's some good stuff in the world and I prefer to talk about such good stuff) But I do admit that people take it too far sometimes. One little thing happens and suddenly life sucks (even if the person is rich, has 50 friends, ideal mate, etc).... or for other people, they're so obsessed with their problems that they won't talk about anything.
 
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When you say this do you mean those people who jump on the bandwagon every time there is something new to hate, or those of us who don't hate the government, only the current authority and still like it here, but realise the United States isn't the best country in the world either?
Opinions are perfectly okay! Believe me, I don't necessarily like the current authority either (nor do I like the prospects on the horizon), but I'm moreso talking about the people who jump on the bandwagon and throw up their arms for "Anachy!" and "Down with the government!" because their friends do, their favorite bands do, their associates do, what-have-you. The world is full of impressionable people in that way!
 
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