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I wasn't exactly sure where to put this, and I didn't see anything terribly recent about this topic, so I'm just gonna run with it and pretend like I know what I'm doing. :educate:

So. I'm an ab/dl, but that's not the entirety of my fetishism. I think it's a partial offshoot of one of my main fetishes, humiliation. Sometimes I like to be told mean things when I'm diapered, in other words. :D

Another big thing my girl and I get into that's humiliation-related is cuckolding, where she goes out and sleeps with other men occasionally. It's hot, and we are very safe, so...yeah. It's good clean all-American fun.

In conjunction with the cuckolding we also play with chastity. I have a cb-6000 that I'm often locked away in because I have a tendency to play around a lot more than I should.

Uhhh...I love satin and silk panties. I'm a bit like a ferret in that I'm instantly attracted to shiny things in general.

As far as humiliation goes, I also enjoy small penis humiliation, which plays into the cuckolding aspect of things.

As far as BDSM goes, I'm a switch. I don't like heavy pain, but I do like some. I'm a switch, so I also enjoy dominating. As a dominant I'm not married to any actions. I just enjoy putting an animalistic look in my girl's eyes, no matter how it's done.

Hmm. Oh, medical stuff. We get into enemas and the like. And I like girls who wear glasses, which my girl does.

Okay. I think that covers most of it.

What I'm trying to say is: I'm a mess. Are there any other messes out there? :D
 

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La de da....

All of mine are connected. ^_^

This isn't a fetish, but it's still a part of me: Trans-gendered. (The "-" makes the spell checker happy. :) )

Actually, my being a TB/DL is very connected to my being trans-gendered. Whenever I imagine being a baby, two things happen.

  1. If I try to imagine myself as a male baby, I am turned off. Girl babies are much cuter, in my opinion. :)
  2. Three years ago, when I first got into all of this, I would always see myself as a (then) 14 year old boy crawling around in nothing but a diaper. It repulsed me. I almost made myself sick many times. But, when I imagined myself as a girl doing the exact same thing, it was extremely cute.

Conversely, I've always made the connection that infants/babies are very gender-neutral.

If you put a male baby in pink clothing, 9 times out of 10, the people who see him will go, "Aww, what a cute little girl!" Most of the time, babies are assumed to be girls unless they clearly look to be otherwise, or there are obvious signs (i.e. Race car designs on the stroller, spaceship designs on the diaper, a shirt that reads "Strongest Baby" or something).

That wasn't exactly the converse, so let me try that again...

I imagine myself as a girl for many known reasons, and quite a few that I still can't exactly figure out. One of them is the desire to be cute. Naturally, babies are cute.

All in all, I feel that they contribute to one another constantly.

I'm also into the DS aspect of BDSM, specifically "animal-play". Being a human, but living as a dog, is usually a turn-on for me. :) Not sure why, though...

But I have noticed that both my TB/DLism and my affinity toward puppy-play both involve a state of being that I'm not in real life (One being a baby, the other being a dog). They also both involve a sort of loss of responsibility, and a carefree life.

And, again, I'm always wanting to a be female human-puppy. Never a male.

La de da...

I think that's about it..
 

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I suppose I'm what you call a 'mess' as well XD

My boyfriend and I are not much for the cuckolding. But humiliation, chastity, medical play, bondage, puppy play and the like are cool ^^. I'm also a switch, but I guess leaning more towards the Domme side of things. He's a switch as well, but leaning towards submissive.

I don't consider my being a *b a fetish, it's more of a lifestyle for me ^^
 

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I agree. *b/dl is more lifestyle for us too. She's in baby role probably 80 percent of the day during her more stressed-out times. *grin*
 
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Balloons. I've had a fascination with them as far back as I could remember. My mom always said there was no better toy for me than a balloon when I was little. When I got older and started exploring, I figured out others had sexual attractions to balloons. Mine's not really that sexual, I just love blowing them up and playing with them.

I guess it relates in some fashion.
 

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My other fetish involves hospital restraints. I know that others here have had some bad experiences with them in real life, so I don't go on about them at every opportunity, but I like them, and have some restraints of my own. I have a Posey, and also a Humane Restraint straitjacket, and used to have some leather cuffs from a four point restraint. Diapers add to the experience of being in the jacket by creating a sense of being restrained for an extended period of time. My wife and I take them out only occasionally though. I feel like she's not as into that as much as I, but knows that I am into it immensely. Because of this feeling, I don't force the scene onto her very often. It's almost as though some coercion on her part is needed to parlay the guilt on my part to make it satisfying and fulfilling, not just kinky for kinky's sake, if that makes any sense.
 
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I woudn't say I'm 'into' other fetishes, but I'm definitely curious about a few.

school girl outfits (girls wearing)
socks (girls wearing)
humiliation
spanking
 

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WAM or wet and messy.

Basically have fun and aroused by getting dirty with food and stuffs (mud, pudding, pies, etc.)

Actually quite fun mixing both DL and WAM.
 

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School Girl Outfits on girls, Diapers, Girls wearing diapers, ABDL. I like seeing pictures of people in wet and poopy diapers..


Also somewhat have a pee fetish.

Lol does that count
 

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I also view my *Bism as an off-shoot from humiliation.
Anything humiliating is a turn on for me, except for gross stuff. :p

I'd draw the line at cuckolding though, as I can't imagine being happy with that. It's sort of hot but impractical in my mind.
 
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Ageplay generally (I think every guy likes the school girl and cheerleader look), spanking, some lite S&M, sex toys, pants wetting and some other lite water sports, panties (but not fancy lingerie). Not a fetish, but something about a woman in nothing but socks, panties and a man's dress shirt is irresistible.
 

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Cripes, I don't even know anymore. I've been thinking about fetishes and stuff a lot lately, and it's been really bothering me.

I want to reel off a big list of all the stuff I like (or, at least, think I would like). There's all sorts of things, really; but it just confuses me so much. I'm quite naïve (and by that I mean totally clueless) when it comes to this sort of stuff, and it would make me feel kinda stupid to say I'm into something when I have no understanding of it at all.

I know I'm into BDSM-y stuff, it's been something I've fantasised about in some way or another since before I even knew what sex was. But I really don't have much knowledge of that. The whole thing really confuses me, and I'm not even sure why. Like, I don't know anything about it, but I don't know what it is I don't know about it either.

And there's all sorts of other stuff I'd probably like. But I don't know if there's names for them, or exactly what it is I'd like, or anything. I just know there are lots of things I could really, really enjoy.

I guess there's just loads of stuff I want to get into. But I've got no idea how, and no one to actually... get into it with. Nor do I know how to find someone. Not to mention the fact that I'm absolutely terrified by fetishes and even just normal sex. It all makes no sense to me... I wish there was someone who could just tell me how to get into it all, because I've don't know at all. It scares me how little I know... I can't even contemplate the possibility of ever actually trying anything out, simply because I just don't know how I'd go about it.

But, I'm starting to get whiny, so I'll wrap it up here. I'm glad I managed to post in this thread and try and make some sense of my thoughts. Because I kept trying to post but having no idea what to say.
 

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Age-play/diapers aren't so much a fetish for me as a comfort thing.

My other most major fetish is definitely watersports: specifically desperation followed by wetting, deliberate wetting, wetting someone else's diaper, wetting in sneaky naughty places, wetting other people, tying other people up and making them wet themselves, wetting in pottys ... the list goes on!

I'm also into some aspects of BDSM, particularly being submissive. I'm not really into punishment though, I prefer to be told what to do and to do it: I like to feel like I'm being good. But the occasional spanking helps! :)
 

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As people could probably discern from my name, I like to cross-dress, well at least I imagine to, I don't quite have the guts to do anything and the urge isn't so strong that I can surpass my immense nerves. I think the urge is subdued by the use of my other fetishes.

DL - pacifiers mainly

cross-dressing

transexuals /shemales /transvestites (I'm not sure which is more offensive, but I don't mean to cause offense) This is my bisexual tendencies coming into action.

Frilly dresses on anyone, but its more attractive on Girls (Emo,Scene and goth girls all catch my eye)

Sex Toys - sucking (links heavily to pacifiers)

strange hair colour, like bright Red or hot/bright Pink - links to the cross-dressing/ sissy side of me.

unfortunately, I'm not aware how any of these came about :frown:
 

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It's interesting to see what kinds of fetishes people have outside of the one we hold in common. I'd consider infantilism to be one of my tame ones.

1) Female period clothing. I'm immensely attracted to women in all forms of historical garments from specific time-periods (most notably from the early American / Revolutionary period). To me, there's nothing else more feminine than this. I'm not talking about replica mass-produced shit, either -- the more authentic, the better.

2) Maxi pads. Probably a branch of the diaper fetish, I'm a pretty huge fan of women in maxi pads, too!

3) The drug-addict look. While I do not condone the use or abuse of illicit drugs (nor would I ever date somebody with the problem), the heavy-eyed dazed semi-zombified drugged-out look is an intense turn-on for me. There's something instinctual, base, and primitive about it. All I require to fulfill this fetish is some good acting and some good makeup -- leave the real drugs for the real addicts.

4) Women who cuss. Fuck yeah. This gets me real ready real quick!

5) Larger women. A female body is beautiful in any form, but I do happen to appreciate the large-and-in-charge type of girl -- if she's confident in herself, that's even better!

Man, this list goes on, but that's just a few of them.
 

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Hmm, smooth clothes, lycra, PVC or rubber. Females in cute, overly feminine frilly dresses. Hermaphrodites and people in sexual roles opposite of their common social roles.
 
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AB style stuff isnt really a fetish when I'm the one thats a baby(girl) its just relaxing and comforting. Same goes for LG, sissy etc unless being dressed as a girl is forced/humiliating.

Girls in nappies, ageplaying (school girl, juvenile etc), overalls, really slutty clothing, emo/scene is all very appealing. I really dont know why overalls are such a turn on but to me they can be far more of a turn on than a nice set of lingerie. Emo/scene has to have an element of innocence (or thats what I call it) in their dress style. The average emo look in my city is pretty sad... all the girls look like they took their look from the same magazine.

Really I'd be open to try just about anything. Except maybe pee and scat play, I have no problems with seeing it through a nappy. But once its in the open I'm really not interested. But basically anything behind closed doors that isnt causing me grievous bodily harm would be good to try!
 

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emo/scene is all very appealing. I really don't know why overalls are such a turn on but to me they can be far more of a turn on than a nice set of lingerie. Emo/scene has to have an element of innocence (or thats what I call it) in their dress style. The average emo look in my city is pretty sad... all the girls look like they took their look from the same magazine.

The Magazine you're looking for is Kerrang! The back pages is like clothes shops. That's basically where all Emo/ Scene girls get their look.

Also, If anyone lives in London - Camden is the place to go if you want to buy/see any Emo/ Scene/ Goth and their markets are amazing. (for anyone, not just the 3 types of people already mentioned)
 
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I like anything to do with baby stuff or age play. I also like all things to do peeing and pooping. It all seems to go together for me.
 
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