I don't have much of a choice although I bought several pair of CARER incontinence underwear that look/fell just like underwear (work excellent for minimal or slowly occurring leaks!) but have to continually go to the bathroom every 45 minutes or so as they do not handle "floods" well and I have severe urge issues on top of everything else so I usually have to wear Garywear PUL pants over the top just in case.
I am a disabled veteran with significant health issues and if a date has an issue with that or the fact I need diapers, she's too shallow for me anyway. I actually CAN NOT WAIT until I'm divorced (long story) as I NEED a soulmate. I am a very social creature with more true friends (all but 1 male, the female my best friends' sister, married to another of my best friends) than any one man deserves in 3 lifetimes and I never have to be alone if I don't want to be but to look forward to coming home after a long day building a car for a customer, come home after fishing a 2-3 day bass tournament a couple hundred miles from home and to have someone just as excited to see me as I them is true bliss!