Not wearing when on dates

[sciencedude]

I generally don't wear diapers when I go on dates, because I'm scared of them smelling, or the woman accidentally finding out. I'll not wear diapers on days that I go to singles things (or at least try not to). Does anybody else cut back when dating?

 

[splootbutt]

Probably not the conversation you would want to have on a first date. Give it a few weeks/months of dating before playing the kink cards.

I definitely waited too long and regret it. But, life goes on.

 

[Anemone]

Personally I don't wear in public unless I'm on a date.

 

[Edgewater]

The choice of whether to wear or not should be yours, but understand that if things begin to become a bit more comfortable, it is a very important discuss to have as being a DL is likely to be a life long thing.

You should consider therapy as a means of understanding your needs and wants as that is very important in understanding the why's.

 

[Ceras]

My mommy has me wear diapers out on dates unless we're having a real romantic date, then I'll wear evening wear and a nice bra and panties.

 

[loadedpamperman]

I don't have much of a choice although I bought several pair of CARER incontinence underwear that look/fell just like underwear (work excellent for minimal or slowly occurring leaks!) but have to continually go to the bathroom every 45 minutes or so as they do not handle "floods" well and I have severe urge issues on top of everything else so I usually have to wear Garywear PUL pants over the top just in case.
I am a disabled veteran with significant health issues and if a date has an issue with that or the fact I need diapers, she's too shallow for me anyway. I actually CAN NOT WAIT until I'm divorced (long story) as I NEED a soulmate. I am a very social creature with more true friends (all but 1 male, the female my best friends' sister, married to another of my best friends) than any one man deserves in 3 lifetimes and I never have to be alone if I don't want to be but to look forward to coming home after a long day building a car for a customer, come home after fishing a 2-3 day bass tournament a couple hundred miles from home and to have someone just as excited to see me as I them is true bliss!

 

[Edgewater]

I have been blessed and I can understand your wants, as I would be lost without my soulmate.
By the way, Thank You For Your Service!! There are several vets here, so welcome to the group!