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My girlfriend was here for almost the whole evening (and sleeping). We haven't slept the the complete night. Usually she goes home. Just like I go home at her house during the evening. A mix between being "new intimate" friends and the other fact is that I'm IC. She doesn't have any problem about me being IC. I've known her for almost 5 years, became good friends and spent a fair amount of time together. Eventually she asked a few (and sometimes uncomfortable) questions. I'm largely private and only share a very few close friends. I finally had to own it. It wasn't that easy. But she kept questioning and I eventually gave here some answers. Not everything but enough to satisfy her.
We haven't slept completely over night. I suppose I'm still nervous. The chance that I might have a BM accident while sleeping (which I do normally when sleeping). I use
internal deodorants but I still worry that she might smell an accident. She's seen me wet and knows I regularly wear a wet diaper. And that she doesn't freak-out. At some point I know, especially when we spend time together, that it will become more normal. For both of us.
I just want other IC people for how they handled it. This is still a fairly new for us. She has seen me in a diaper, booster and plastic pants. She knows about what I use for.
Most of the time I'm wearing some loose shorts or pants but she does know all about my IC. And she seems to be perfectly OK with it. There's not like I have a lot of friends that I can talk about. I'll be seeing my therapist which I've been seen for years (~20 years). I'm sure she'll answer any questions I'll have.
We haven't slept completely over night. I suppose I'm still nervous. The chance that I might have a BM accident while sleeping (which I do normally when sleeping). I use
internal deodorants but I still worry that she might smell an accident. She's seen me wet and knows I regularly wear a wet diaper. And that she doesn't freak-out. At some point I know, especially when we spend time together, that it will become more normal. For both of us.
I just want other IC people for how they handled it. This is still a fairly new for us. She has seen me in a diaper, booster and plastic pants. She knows about what I use for.
Most of the time I'm wearing some loose shorts or pants but she does know all about my IC. And she seems to be perfectly OK with it. There's not like I have a lot of friends that I can talk about. I'll be seeing my therapist which I've been seen for years (~20 years). I'm sure she'll answer any questions I'll have.