TheMat
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Some DLs just like to wear diapers. Others like to use them too. For me, wetting is 80% of the experience and I can't stand feeling like a diaper is wasted or not used completely, especially expensive diapers. If my wife told me I couldn't wet I would probably feel like I might as well not wear at all too.
In no way should you do anything you're not comfortable with though. I think a reasonable reservation for you would be that you don't want to touch/change/see his diapers if he's used them. Maybe he can only wear them when you're around and wet them when you're not. Or only if the diaper is covered. But to say he can't wet at all is like buying him a new car and telling him he can't drive it. Try to find a compromise where he can still wet some of the time.
It sounded like he partially used a diaper, then put it away, and that's what he wanted you to put on him? If so, that is kinda gross. Once a used diaper comes off it shouldn't be kept around so you're reasonable in not wanting to do that.
It's really reasonable and understandable that since you deal with so many diapers in the real world that it's hard to get into your bf wanting to wear them so it's really admirable that you're trying at all.
In no way should you do anything you're not comfortable with though. I think a reasonable reservation for you would be that you don't want to touch/change/see his diapers if he's used them. Maybe he can only wear them when you're around and wet them when you're not. Or only if the diaper is covered. But to say he can't wet at all is like buying him a new car and telling him he can't drive it. Try to find a compromise where he can still wet some of the time.
It sounded like he partially used a diaper, then put it away, and that's what he wanted you to put on him? If so, that is kinda gross. Once a used diaper comes off it shouldn't be kept around so you're reasonable in not wanting to do that.
It's really reasonable and understandable that since you deal with so many diapers in the real world that it's hard to get into your bf wanting to wear them so it's really admirable that you're trying at all.