Hello all! Thanks again for everybody’s input and advice!
Things have actually been pretty great! I heeded you’re advice and stood with my boundaries which he respects. He’ll wear them some days after work then other days he won’t wear them. He’ll wear them to bed some nights then other night’s he won’t wear them. Every once in a while he’ll ask me to change him which I do no problem.
So things are definitely way better now. Thanks everyone for offering me insight and helping me sort out my feelings with everything!