I've chosen 'non binary' or 'gender fluid' out of the list of gender options more than others which is sort of funny since 'other' was my choice for many years. My reason for the two I use is that there are days I feel much more feminine than male and other days just the opposite but I've never felt fully male or female. To further complicate things, when I'm feeling feminine my desire for a sexual partner is male or shemale and when in a masculine mood, I want a real woman, but there are times when I feel feminine and want a female in my arms and bed. I just have to go with the flow at the moment and not worry about labels.