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Only a few people know and theyre all online
Sorry to hear thatTopCat said:Tried To Tell My Favourite Uncle And It Did Not Go Well.
Can't help but wonder if you're surveying as some sort of personal influence.... like, the results will help you decide if you're going to be more open about it or not.Newbaby110521 said:For some of us being an Adult Baby or Diaper Lover is something we’re ashamed or embarrassed about. So we don’t tell anyone...or do we? Personally no one apart from all you people on here and my physiatrist know I’m ABDL. I’ve avoided going out and meeting people because I’m afraid they’ll know well I recently went to a choir rehearsal and you know what no body knows. I don’t wear in public anyway. But I thought I’d do a quote poll to see how open we all are.
I think mothers always know, even if she wasn’t sure what to say about it.ChrisK said:There seems to be a lot of mom's out there who know or maybe don't know what they came across. My mother has found a few diapers when I was a kid but we didn't talk about it. She probably forgot all about it because she didn't know what she was looking at. but if ABDL was more known or common we would probably still be talking about it
Don't tell me that..... you think she knows? Noooooooo!!!Ali123 said:I think mothers always know, even if she wasn’t sure what to say about it.
Thank you for the nice reply. Because we all have diaper needs oaths forum and liketo learn more about and share our secret here, Ihave no “STIGMA” or embarrassment about opening up here. Ifindit therapeutic.Andrewgdfw said:I know and live those feelings quite well. In a way, it's just how we go about our day, carrying our 'secret' wherever we are. My two previous relationships seemed to have happened because both she and I had diaper needs nearly full time. Although the relationships ended due to career and job related transfers, I'd say both liaisons were otherwise successful, even if long distance. So, that's my 'bias' when it comes to seeking a potential GF.
At least here via the Internet, we can reveal some of our very personal feelings to 'familiar' strangers. Maybe there is less embarrassment in this forum setting because STIGMA doesn't lurk so large and discretion can be moderated somewhat. Count this a step in the right direction, I think?
I’m pretty sure she would have known. It’s so hard to really hide things from your mother.ChrisK said:Don't tell me that..... you think she knows? Noooooooo!!!
Hard to say really, from her reaction when I told my mother she had absolutely zero clue^^Ali123 said:I’m pretty sure she would have known. It’s so hard to really hide things from your mother.
When I first started to enjoy wearing girls’ clothes and nappies I know for a fact that my mother knew about it.
____SabuInu said:Really depends on Situation, if you really want to tell somebody, please be sensitive!, I've read quite a handful of threads/posts where people wanted to share their secret and went full baby-mode into the room where the other person was waiting...well they wondered why they got a bad (over-)reaction...bad idea...