ok thank you for the information.Hi Goodnights,
Welcome to Adisc. Before you go any further have a look at the top of the page you will see a link entitled ADISC Intros, Rules and tips. Click on it and have a read there is a lot of information in it that is useful to new members. The group isn't really about setting up meetings although you can do that through private messages (PM's).
how about telling us a little more about yourself and your interests and hobbies outside of the ab/dl community? things like, do you work or are still in education? Do you have a partner or significant other and if so are they supportive or not? The more you tell us the more interest you will get.
then have a look through the forums and find some you like, join them and join in and above all enjoy being amongst like mindedpeople.