Welcome,
@MrD. I hope you find the site fun and helpful!
I respect that you didn't try to answer your own question by leading with "M4W: Seeking diaper changes and fun times," LOL. As you doubtless noticed, "meeting," at least in the IRL sense, is not among the stated purposes of the site. Still, I've responded to your poll with "Super Easy," because although I didn't set out to "meet" anybody (IRL) through ADISC, it's happened anyway, literally dozens of times over the years.
That said, I've been in a committed relationship from the start and am not looking for an ABDL partner or caregiver or any other sort of intimate relationship. Without a "goal," per se, I've had the luxury of sitting back, being friendly, and letting relationships form slowly.
You might have a goal, which is
completely fine, and in that case you'll probably prefer a different approach, or perhaps multiple approaches. In addition to playing a long game on a site like this, you might also look to FetLife or other sites that cater more to those seeking IRL relationships. You can be more direct about your intentions on those sites without drawing the ire of the admins or other members, and you may get results more quickly.
In any case, I hope you'll dive in and participate here. Happy surprises may await you.