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[Nutmeg]

Hi.
Call me Nutmeg.
I'm introducing myself.
I'm female, lesbian, and have a girlfriend.
I'm not sharing tooo many personal details, just because I don't want found out.
She doesn't approve of the things I'm into, calling infantilism "weird." Yes, it did crop up in conversation, we watched a television show that touched on it.
I'm in college. Yep.

 

[Dream]

Welcome to the Site

 

[Nutmeg]

Thank you.

 

[TheFoxxehAssassin]

That was a very interesting opening message! Hah, just kidding. But seriously, welcome, and if you need some help, don't be afraid to holler at someone. We're friendly... most of us...

 

[link]

Welcome, and enjoy your stay!

About your gf, how much of this does she actually know about. Without all of the information, this is a very strange and disturbing thing. but if all of the facts are known, people tend to worry less about it and hold at least a low level of acceptance.

 

[Nutmeg]

Thank you, both of you. I'd like to get to know people better, and read around, ect. Takes a while for me to trust. O.O

But she knows the basics. CSI ran a show on it one time. She has a very negative view on it, and while she's open minded, she's not THAT open minded.

She's got a limited knowledge though, just what it's basically all about, but she doesn't get the meaning or anything behind it.

I don't think explaining it would go over well, sadly enough.

 

[Rational]

Im friendly . And welcome!

 

[Nutmeg]

Thanks. =)
It's nice to be welcomed like this!

 

[Boogeyman]

I'd love to smoke you some time. PM me when you get the joke.

 

[Nutmeg]

... I don't get it...

 

[Mesmerale]

We know about that CSI show, (At least a lot of us do.)

Give her a different explanation, like just something that you "happened to find" on the internet. The CSI show isn't a good explanation at all.

 

[Nutmeg]

Yeahhhh...
I'm not sure I could actually explain it to her in a way that she'd be okay with it. We've been together for 8 months, which isn't a terribly long time in the scheme of things...
*~shrugs~* I'd like her to be accepting of it, but I don't see that happening. So, actually, I don't know precisely what I'm on the board for... understanding maybe? I don't know.

 

[Mesmerale]

There's a lot of people here, for a lot of different things.

How about just talking?

ADISC is the ultimate Renaissance Man. It's a master at a lot of different things, and a lot of different topics.

 

[Nutmeg]

=)
That works, yes.
Thank you for spending time talking to a newbie like me.
I probably should have just lurked more, but I was eager to jump into it.

 

[Mesmerale]

Aw, naw. I jumped right in also, when I first started.

But I stayed away from the forums, they scared me. I was on IRC the for about four solid months before I even CONSIDERED posting on the forums. =)

 

[Mitsukuni]

Hey there, welcome to ADISC. I'm a lesbian with a girlfriend as well.
Hope you enjoy your stay here!
--Kate </3

 

[Nutmeg]

... I'm on a Mac. I have noooooo clue if irc works on a mac... I might have to look. O.O

Thanks Mitsukuni/Kate.

 

[Mesmerale]

Hmm.. Interesting dilemma.. That'll be fun to find out. =)

You can always use some form of a website or another, I suppose.

 

[Aki]

If it doesn't, using Windows Emulator is worth a shot. :3
Anyway. Welcome! ^^

 

[Hans]

I'm having the same problem, I can't get irc to run on my mac.. the wiki isn't telling me shit, unless I'm that retarded.