New partner asking for ways to support

[paddedcowboy]

Hey guys! I wanted to reach out and gather some thoughts. So here’s the story… a while ago I met a stranger who I now want to spend the rest of my life with. So far she has been super supportive of me in all aspects of who I am and who I want to become. I recently revealed fo her my DL side and as I should have expected; it did not seem to change how she feels about me. Yesterday I told her I felt a binge coming on soon and she asked I would reach out to you guys and get suggestions on ways she can be supportive of this side of me as it is still very much uncharted waters for her. Please no fantasy’s guys. The objective of this post is to help us make our relationship even stronger 😁. Thanks in advance for the advice and suggestions!

 

[Nowididit]

You're really not providing much info here.
You say your a DL but that's all. There are many aspects of the DLs here, diapers are the main thing we DLs have in common but we're not all the same in every aspect.
Some of us like to use our diaper for everything, some like it just for comfort and not use it. Many of us have a sexual attraction with our diaper, some don't.
So where do you fall in as a DL?
What do you expect of her while you are in your binge mode?

Diapering and being changed is a very intimate experience that both of you should embrace.
If that's diving in too fast then I'd say you diaper up and wear openly around her to loosen things up.

 

[Lyric]

There are a number of members here who were in a much the same situation as your SO is now. ABDLLover is one who comes to mind. Both of you should read her posts. As Nowididit asks, what are your goals. Do like diapers just for their own sake. Is wearing and using them when she is around enough for you. Or do you want her to participate in some fashion? Do you want her to change you or diaper you. Do you want her to be playful, say tease you a little, spank you, pat your diapered bottom. Or take greater responsibility like check your diapers to see if you need to be changed, remind you to be diapered on certain occasions. Does being a DL have a sexual component like it does for some of us. If it does that suggests a much broader discussion, much of which may not be appropriate here.

 

[Forced]

Only you know what you want out of the relationship ABDL wise so only you will be able to assist her.
Most replies you’ll receive here will be tailored to the posting members ‘desires’

 

[paddedcowboy]

You're really not providing much info here.
You say your a DL but that's all. There are many aspects of the DLs here, diapers are the main thing we DLs have in common but we're not all the same in every aspect.
Some of us like to use our diaper for everything, some like it just for comfort and not use it. Many of us have a sexual attraction with our diaper, some don't.
So where do you fall in as a DL?
What do you expect of her while you are in your binge mode?

Diapering and being changed is a very intimate experience that both of you should embrace.
If that's diving in too fast then I'd say you diaper up and wear openly around her to loosen things

You're really not providing much info here.
You say your a DL but that's all. There are many aspects of the DLs here, diapers are the main thing we DLs have in common but we're not all the same in every aspect.
Some of us like to use our diaper for everything, some like it just for comfort and not use it. Many of us have a sexual attraction with our diaper, some don't.
So where do you fall in as a DL?
What do you expect of her while you are in your binge mode?

Diapering and being changed is a very intimate experience that both of you should embrace.
If that's diving in too fast then I'd say you diaper up and wear openly around her to loosen things up.

I guess I really didn’t provide much info did I. Regardless, your post got me thinking. I found it helpful. Thank you.

 

[paddedcowboy]

Only you know what you want out of the relationship ABDL wise so only you will be able to assist her.
Most replies you’ll receive here will be tailored to the posting members ‘desires’

I’m starting to realize that now. Thank you.

 

[paddedcowboy]

There are a number of members here who were in a much the same situation as your SO is now. ABDLLover is one who comes to mind. Both of you should read her posts. As Nowididit asks, what are your goals. Do like diapers just for their own sake. Is wearing and using them when she is around enough for you. Or do you want her to participate in some fashion? Do you want her to change you or diaper you. Do you want her to be playful, say tease you a little, spank you, pat your diapered bottom. Or take greater responsibility like check your diapers to see if you need to be changed, remind you to be diapered on certain occasions. Does being a DL have a sexual component like it does for some of us. If it does that suggests a much broader discussion, much of which may not be appropriate here.

Thank you Lyric. I really appreciate your reply.