There are several girls on this board
There may be a slightly higher female:male ratio than you'd find elsewhere
I have to say that pursuing that kind of relationship too much is kind of like chasing after the holy grail. You might spend a lot of energy looking for someone and never find it, and meanwhile be missing out on good opportunities to form relationships with women in your town who are not AB but might be great people to date anyway.
Another thing to add, basing a relationship solely off the fact that you both like diapers is a bad idea. I like diapers, you like diapers, you like anime, I hate anime, you love to go on walks, I'd rather ride my bike. There are so many aspects of personality, and things such as life goals, and morals/values that a relationship would never work just because of one similar interest.
Besides - Like Daria pointed out, there are probably other great women you could find even in your Town, and if you loved each other you could tell her about your diaper fetish, and she may even be interested in it.
However, as a girl, I have to say seeing a guy post "I want to meet a girl" is a turnoff, right then, right there; a girl thinks "pervert." There are several girls on this board, including me, and if you were to post, become a good, active member with lots to offer, then it would be a lot more easier to find a girl to talk to. There are only 2 guys here that Ive ever thought about as sexy, or someone who I would like a relationship with, and both have girlfriends, and want nothing to do with me in a romantic sense. ^.^ Like I said, girls find guys who say "I want to meet a girl." creepy.
Let me ask you, though, does it work in real life, when you go up to a woman and say "Marry Me?" Of course they are going to say no if they don't know you. Its the same thing here.
Again, welcome to the boards, and I hope you add some awesome posts, and content.
<sarcasm>Oh, yes, please! I've always wanted a daddy about whom I know absolutely nothing, not even where he's from or his age. But definitely I need someone to take care of me. I hope you're rich so I can have my very own nursery with a crib and a high chair and lots of toys and of course closets full of pretty baby clothes with lots of pretty pink frills and ruffles, and did I mention lots of toys? Oh 'n I wanna go to EuroDisney for my birthday party 'n invite all my baby friends. Okay, Daddy? I mean you said you wanted a baby girl to take care of 'n I'm a baby girl 'n I really need taking care of...really! I'll be oh so good, as long as you give me everything I want! :bf-babygirl-doll:</sarcasm>
For me personally I disagree with some of what you two said on these points, and I am sure many other agrees would agree with me. For me I personally believe it is a waste of my time to go out with a girl (meaning being my gf not just a simple date) who either A.) Does not like diapers and/or babyish things OR B.)Does not accept my diaper and baby lifestyle. Although I do agree that is not the only aspect to making a relationship compatible. But if that factor is not there, then it is NOT going to do anything for me except waste my time.
4. <humor> do you accept boys who like to wear sissy girly cloths *bats his eyelashes*? </humor>
I think that opinion won't get you awfully far in your search for potential partners. If you insist that your girl has to be blonde...that may still work out, but looking for a girl that must accept or participate in your DLism/ABism is next to impossible. It's easy to check a girl's hair color, but finding out her opinion on AB/DLism is going to cost you a lot of effort, just to find out that many of the girls you meet are not into it.
As I'Ve said before / elsewhere: Your perfect partner is not someone who shares all of your opinions, interests and believes. That would become boring really fast, because there's nothing to talk about. It's the little imperfections that make a relationship interesting...and work! And if she doesn't like diapers all that much, it's just one imperfection you have to deal with if the rest of the person suits your needs.