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Hi all! So I have ibs and apparently I've recently been told I am Incontenince due to anxiety and bad nerves. I am a 27 year old male with generalized anxiety disorder "GAD" I officially got diagnosed with IBS in 2016. I also got diagnosed with PTSD and Panic Disorder/Panic Attacks, etc. I often get stressed or anxious easily its hard to relax.
I asked my therapist if I should wear diapers and I also asked my psychiatrist because they specialize in IBS in the psychological department. And my Pdoc even said IBS can be hereditary as well and I get it from my mom's side and my doctor fully supports me wearing diapers if they help me feel comfortable in controlling my anxiety because anxiety and IBS are related from what I was told. I often get constipated with my ibs. It's not fun. I often do go sometimes tho.
I've been drinking plenty of water, etc. Now my main question is how can I live with IBS and how can I live with wearing diapers? I go to an adult day program with special needs to help people with disabilities be independent. I have an ISP as well and it says I have to wear adult diapers to manage my ibs and anxiety.
My main question is now, what do I do about the diaper situation since I have incontenince? It acts up when my anxiety and nerves flairs when im around allot of people like my day program or going to the movies. I feel like I have to pee my self. I've always had bad nerves since high school. I'm 27 now.
I'm trying to make a goal to move out into my own place and take care of my health more. As far as the diaper situation goes just to be clear I a ABDL like everyone else here but I also have to wear diapers to control my IBS. I don't want anyone mistaking me thinking I'm using my fetish to abuse miuse of wearing diapers or anything. There was a time where my IBS was acting up at my day program and I thought I felt urine running down my legs and my anxiety spiked causing me to have an anxiety attack thinking I was going to pee my pants. Is this why I should be wearing diapers for this reason? How can I accept this? I don't want to get made fun of either but I'm pretty sure there are other people in my program that have to wear diapers too so I'm probably not alone.
And the thing is about this situation my parents aren't to happy about me having to wear diapers. But I can tell you they aren't jerks. They are the most loving people you can meet but they can't see a grown man wearing diapers. Yet I have a bowel issue and I have to wear them but it's not like I'm wearing them all the time.
And if I'm on my day programs van I feel like I need to pee when my anxiety is bad and that's the MOST EMBARRESING PART! :'( T_T What should I do if this stuff happens again I had to hold over 40 minutes until we had to pick everyone up. And I also feel bad for wearing my diapers due to my ABDL fetish too. Like I feel like I'm using my ABDL as an excuse to wear diapers by using my IBS to wear them but my psychiatrist, doctor, and therapist both suggest if I'm having urine issues or poop trying to leak out I SHOULD wear them if that makes sense. I'm sorry if I'm sounding negative.
And as a ABDL should I be glad I have to wear diapers because it give me form of relief? My psychiatrist notices I look less stress every time I wear them. And anxious. Why is that? Sorry for the long post.
And as for the diapers. If I have to wear them to my day program. Which I already have to. What kinds should I get to prevent leakage if I do have an attack? And should I wear something to cover up the diaper from leaking? Is it necessary? I forgot what it's called. And I wear size medium diapers. So yeah. I also have to wear diapers sometimes when I'm out with medical staff as well. I hope someone helps. Thanks you for understanding with my problem. Also is there anything that will prevent the smells so no one will notice? And prevent any wet spots from being visible? Thanks.
I asked my therapist if I should wear diapers and I also asked my psychiatrist because they specialize in IBS in the psychological department. And my Pdoc even said IBS can be hereditary as well and I get it from my mom's side and my doctor fully supports me wearing diapers if they help me feel comfortable in controlling my anxiety because anxiety and IBS are related from what I was told. I often get constipated with my ibs. It's not fun. I often do go sometimes tho.
I've been drinking plenty of water, etc. Now my main question is how can I live with IBS and how can I live with wearing diapers? I go to an adult day program with special needs to help people with disabilities be independent. I have an ISP as well and it says I have to wear adult diapers to manage my ibs and anxiety.
My main question is now, what do I do about the diaper situation since I have incontenince? It acts up when my anxiety and nerves flairs when im around allot of people like my day program or going to the movies. I feel like I have to pee my self. I've always had bad nerves since high school. I'm 27 now.
I'm trying to make a goal to move out into my own place and take care of my health more. As far as the diaper situation goes just to be clear I a ABDL like everyone else here but I also have to wear diapers to control my IBS. I don't want anyone mistaking me thinking I'm using my fetish to abuse miuse of wearing diapers or anything. There was a time where my IBS was acting up at my day program and I thought I felt urine running down my legs and my anxiety spiked causing me to have an anxiety attack thinking I was going to pee my pants. Is this why I should be wearing diapers for this reason? How can I accept this? I don't want to get made fun of either but I'm pretty sure there are other people in my program that have to wear diapers too so I'm probably not alone.
And the thing is about this situation my parents aren't to happy about me having to wear diapers. But I can tell you they aren't jerks. They are the most loving people you can meet but they can't see a grown man wearing diapers. Yet I have a bowel issue and I have to wear them but it's not like I'm wearing them all the time.
And if I'm on my day programs van I feel like I need to pee when my anxiety is bad and that's the MOST EMBARRESING PART! :'( T_T What should I do if this stuff happens again I had to hold over 40 minutes until we had to pick everyone up. And I also feel bad for wearing my diapers due to my ABDL fetish too. Like I feel like I'm using my ABDL as an excuse to wear diapers by using my IBS to wear them but my psychiatrist, doctor, and therapist both suggest if I'm having urine issues or poop trying to leak out I SHOULD wear them if that makes sense. I'm sorry if I'm sounding negative.
And as a ABDL should I be glad I have to wear diapers because it give me form of relief? My psychiatrist notices I look less stress every time I wear them. And anxious. Why is that? Sorry for the long post.
And as for the diapers. If I have to wear them to my day program. Which I already have to. What kinds should I get to prevent leakage if I do have an attack? And should I wear something to cover up the diaper from leaking? Is it necessary? I forgot what it's called. And I wear size medium diapers. So yeah. I also have to wear diapers sometimes when I'm out with medical staff as well. I hope someone helps. Thanks you for understanding with my problem. Also is there anything that will prevent the smells so no one will notice? And prevent any wet spots from being visible? Thanks.
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