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Hi,

I just wanted to ask if anyone has been in a similar situation. My partner of 9 years has recently told me he is only with me because I put him in nappies. Am I right to feel upset and hurt?
 
Yes you are.
 
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Really sorry to hear that.

Hope you get more out of the relationship and he is getting.

Hugs
 
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That's awful and you have every right to be upset and hurt.
 
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Lyric said:
Yes you are.
Thank you so much. I knew it was part of his life but he originally said occasionally. I’m so confused. Is twice a week occasionally?
 
siysiy said:
Really sorry to hear that.

Hope you get more out of the relationship and he is getting.

Hugs
Thank you. I just found it so hurtful like that’s all I’m worth or rather I’m only worth anything if I do what he wants. I have things I like to do but he stopped that because I wasn’t doing what he wanted often enough.

Hugs x
 
happy89 said:
That's awful and you have every right to be upset and hurt.
Thank you. I thought I was being unreasonable but it’s not great to hear and confidence is rock bottom
 
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Turbert said:
Thank you. I just found it so hurtful like that’s all I’m worth or rather I’m only worth anything if I do what he wants. I have things I like to do but he stopped that because I wasn’t doing what he wanted often enough.

Hugs x
That sounds like a man child.

I Think I need to explain before anyone goes off on me calling pot kettle black. .

Yes I'm a Little and I love being a Little. But my relationship with my Big is one built on trust and respect for each other.

We do lots of thing together and we do our own thing as well.

If there are things you like to do I would encourage you to do them and don't worry to much about not doing it with him.

Also have a conversation with him about how you are feeling and what you want out of the relationship. If he is not able to fulfil his part and all he want is some kind of nanny.

Then really think if it is a relationship that you want to continue in.

Big vertical HUGS.

Siysiy
 
Wow. You deserve better.
 
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