Thank you. I just found it so hurtful like that’s all I’m worth or rather I’m only worth anything if I do what he wants. I have things I like to do but he stopped that because I wasn’t doing what he wanted often enough.
That sounds like a man child.
I Think I need to explain before anyone goes off on me calling pot kettle black. .
Yes I'm a Little and I love being a Little. But my relationship with my Big is one built on trust and respect for each other.
We do lots of thing together and we do our own thing as well.
If there are things you like to do I would encourage you to do them and don't worry to much about not doing it with him.
Also have a conversation with him about how you are feeling and what you want out of the relationship. If he is not able to fulfil his part and all he want is some kind of nanny.
Then really think if it is a relationship that you want to continue in.
Big vertical HUGS.