My mom found my diapers!!

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So just today I'm pretty sure my mom discovered my diapers hidden in my room. She hasn't confronted me yet.. thank god!! But what am I supposed to say when she comes to talk to me or shows me one of my diapers and waits for a response?? Please comment excuses or ways to help the situation. Note: I do NOT want to tell her the truth about me liking diapers and being a DL.
 

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They weren't in the exact place I left them in. Plus I have a camera(Canary Camera) in my room and it notified me as she was snooping through my room... Like she normally does. My diapers are in my closet but she pulled the door as she walked in so it was pretty much closed so I couldn't see what she was doing...
 

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What kind of diapers are they? That's important to how I would go about explaining.
 

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I remember when my mom first found my stash...Long story short, it ended up with me going to see a shrink -___-
 

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I remember when my mom first found my stash...Long story short, it ended up with me going to see a shrink -___-

I'm sure that's a pretty common reaction from a parent. I know my parents would have done the same to me and taken me to church to have the demons prayed out of me. Luckily for my kids, if they turn out to be ABDL, I will be accepting, even though I won't divulge my own ABDL side. My wife on the other hand, would have a huge problem with it. She already told me that she would.
 

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I'm sure that's a pretty common reaction from a parent. I know my parents would have done the same to me and taken me to church to have the demons prayed out of me. Luckily for my kids, if they turn out to be ABDL, I will be accepting, even though I won't divulge my own ABDL side. My wife on the other hand, would have a huge problem with it. She already told me that she would.

It's such a shame too. Because rather than accepting the issue and the parents/child growing closer, it becomes exacerbated and the child then grows distant from the parents. I've always retained negative feelings toward my parents for sending me to the shrink.

But I suppose it's part of who I am....so c'est la vie.
 

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Yeah, my mom sent me to a psychiatrist at a residential mental facility. My situation was more complicated because I came home from college for the weekend, and I had a psychotic break. We had company over for dinner, and right as dinner was to begin, I started crying and I couldn't stop. There was a lot gong on in my life at the time. When I went back to school, she searched my room looking for drugs, but what she found were my diapers and gay porn, a bad combination in 1970. Sitting in the waiting room the first time was frightening because I went by myself from college. I felt enough like a freak just liking diapers. Being sexually active with another guy was also a lot to wrap my mind around, so it was a tough time.

If your mom confronts you, I would be honest. I was with my mom. It just seemed easier. I simply couldn't think of anything else to say. It was a horrible moment in my life, however, but it quickly passed. A few weeks makes it very old news.
 

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It's a terrible situation which many of us have found ourselves in. I have... many times. And like others I have been sent to the doctors by my parents... again, many times.

But, like other things that many go through in our younger years, it certainly can get better. I wouldn't have believed it at the time, but it did.

Really, you are going to have to ride the wave, hard as it is. Just hang tough and ride it. I'm pulling for you :)
 

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I haven't been in this kind of situation like most people here, but I think that the best thing you can do if your mom talks to you about it is to be reasonable. You don't want to tell her the truth and that's completely understandable, but she's going to put two and two together so there's no point in tip-toeing around it. Remind her that wearing diapers doesn't hurt you or anyone else, and that there are far worse things you could be doing for fun like drugs and unprotected sex. That's what I'd do, at least.

That's just my advice, whether you choose to follow it or not is up to you. Either way, I hope things turn out well for you. Good luck.
 

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Fingers crossed for you... I know honesty (limited to only the essential information) is probably the best course to take when it comes to family and especially when you are under your families roof but not everyone is accepting or even tolerant of what they don't understand.
 
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If you don't at least admit to wanting to wear diapers because you like them then you risk being forced to have medical tests.

I'd keep it to the minimum, but let her know that you wear them because you want to and it is way better than liking drugs or something similar.

You never know, she may not have seen them at all

Good luck.
 

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So 14 hrs ago you were asking about butt plugs for enamas and castor oil, then all of a sudden you post you got caught and that you knew you were caught from during the day well before you made your butt plug / castor oil posts. Not calling you out but i feel that this post in particular is for more entertainment than needing actual advice.
 

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Wow, I feel really bad for all of you that had rough experiences with being caught. I guess I just got lucky. I know my parents found my stash at least once (probably more), but they never confronted me about it.

My step-dad used to like snooping through my room (looking for drugs and whatnot), and apparently took pictures of anything he found to show my mom. I came home from work one night, and she said that he had showed her some pictures of what he found: certain things that I had thought I hid better and (her words) "some things I don't understand". She just told me to choose my hiding spots a little better, and left it at that. Never brought up the diapers. I picked a new stash spot (I had been keeping them in an old PS3 box at the bottom of my closet), and started periodically moving them around. That was when I was in the binge/purge cycle, though, so I rarely had diapers in my room for extended periods of time.

There was another time that I had ordered a sample diaper, and it came in a large manila envelope. They must have seen me pull it from the mailbox, and then questioned me about it when I didn't bring it inside (I stashed it in the garage to retrieve later). My step-dad made me grab it and show it to him, and I stuttered out some explanation about kids in my class playing pranks like this. I doubt they bought the story, but, again, nothing was ever said about it. I'm assuming it made them pretty uncomfortable (my family has never been the best with communication), so they tried to just ignore it.
 

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Ya, my stash had been found on more than one occasion. It usually ended with me being yelled at, threatened to be put in a mental hospital, and/or kicked out. Literally being an AB/DL destroyed a good portion of my relationship with my family, along with being transgender ... even if I was about to be on the street they wouldn't take me in XD. The only place I might be able to go back to is my sisters house, but her husband tried to choke me to death ... so it's not really a very good option.
 

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In my biological family Gay and diapers would have been a freaking firing squad with out a doubt with out benefit of a blindfold, I am glad you "survived the drive" .

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Lucky for me my mom respects my privacy and doesn't snoop around my room to my knowledge. Even if she did find my stash i think she would be very understanding. I told her about me being an abdl long ago and she took it well but felt it was a phase that i would grow out of. I wear around her under my shorts of course all the time though so i'm sure she knows its pretty obvious that im walking slightly different when i'm wearing. She just doesn't bring it up or mention it.
 

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I just have to know are they ABDL babyish diapers or like attends or Tenas? My mom discovered my stash twice in my life. The first time she found them I was 15 and she flew it. She actually dug through the outside garbage and opened the trash bags. She stormed into the house and started screaming at me."DO YOU WANT TO BE A BABY???!!!WTF IS THIS??!!" I was so mad. I hated her for humiliating me. The second time she found them there were Bambinos, super babyish and they were packed to move to our new apartment in 2015. I know she found them because the bag had been pulled tight shut and I found the bag partially open. She said nothing. Thank God. But at my age, 41 I barely care who knows anymore. I have been ABDL all my life and my family better live with it or mind their own damn business! Good luck pro!

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Your mom is awesome!!:smile1:

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Being an IC do you prefer babyish diapers like the rearz safaris or bambinos?

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Ya, my stash had been found on more than one occasion. It usually ended with me being yelled at, threatened to be put in a mental hospital, and/or kicked out. Literally being an AB/DL destroyed a good portion of my relationship with my family, along with being transgender ... even if I was about to be on the street they wouldn't take me in XD. The only place I might be able to go back to is my sisters house, but her husband tried to choke me to death ... so it's not really a very good option.
OMG I am so sorry. My cousin is non-binary and their dad kicked them out and slapped their face. They now live their mom who is super liberal and allows each one to be themselves at all times. I pay rent now, more than half and I WILL NOT BE KICKED OUT AGAIN!!
 

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Well since these models had an more "neutral" appearance,(the others with AB pattern are way more "suspect") you could eventually pretend they are for an exceptional medical use for a short time. Nothing serious, but you did not want her to worry...Well it's a big lie, unfortunately your mother will certainly not be fooled :dunno:
I must say that all these "found out" stories are going to encourage me to put mine under key when I will have a stock. (I think of a big linen bag which the zippers can be padlocked).
Ya, my stash had been found on more than one occasion. It usually ended with me being yelled at, threatened to be put in a mental hospital, and/or kicked out. Literally being an AB/DL destroyed a good portion of my relationship with my family, along with being transgender ... even if I was about to be on the street they wouldn't take me in XD. The only place I might be able to go back to is my sisters house, but her husband tried to choke me to death ... so it's not really a very good option.
It's terrible to read! Well, relatives can be rather a "punishment" than a "family"...:no:
Bless you for staying up despite going through all this s**t!
 
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