Catgirl1234
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Hello! I am new to this website and new to this whole thing in general so I was hoping I could ask a few questions. I didn’t really know where to post this thread so hopefully it’s okay here.
I want to preface this by saying that I do not wish to offend anyone, I just want to understand more.
So last night my boyfriend of 1.5 years told me that he has a thing for diapers. A while ago, I saw a webpage he left open on his phone and it was of a porn video of a girl wearing a diaper. I didn’t confront him about it as I felt it’s his private business, but since then I’ve known that girls wearing diapers sexually aroused. He told me about his interest in diapers last night and I tried to be as supportive as possible. I even let him put a diaper on me before we had sex. After we had sex, we were going to go watch tv and he said he was gonna wear one but I guess I reacted negatively and he decided against it, which made me feel really bad.
He told me that just last week he bought his first pack of diapers because he wanted to see if he would like wearing them and since then he has worn them twice, both times when I was at work. He told me pee’d and pooped in the diaper, and that he finds it comfortable and he likes the freedom. He told me that he hopes that we could both wear them around the house when we’re hanging out together and watching tv/playing video games.
I am completely fine with the diapers playing a role in the bedroom. I understand that everyone is into different thing when it comes to sex, and if it turns him on I’m into it. What I don’t understand is why I am so reluctant to accept him wearing diapers outside of the bedroom. He said he doesn’t want to wear them to work or outside the comforts of our own home, but it still makes me very uncomfortable. I feel very sad that I feel this way because I love him with all of my heart. I just feel like the masculine man I once knew is gone, which I know is bad and unfair to think. I want to tell him that I’m fine with him wearing one as long as I’m not home, but I also don’t want him to resent me and eagerly await for me to leave him alone.
Another thing is that I work as a nursing assistant, so my entire job is changing adult diapers and wiping people’s butts. I don’t find it sexy at all, and the thought of my boyfriend defecating in a diaper when he is capable of going in a toilet is almost humiliating to me. I know that it’s his own thing and I should support him, but I can’t help but feel a little freaked out by it.
I am also nervous about his obsession growing more and more. I don’t want his love for diapers to take over our lives. I don’t want it to occupy the majority of his thoughts.
Can anyone offer me some advice so I can cope better with this? I don’t want him to feel ashamed or scared that I’m judging him. I want to understand why he wants to wear diapers, but I just don’t get it right now.
Thank you all in advance!
I want to preface this by saying that I do not wish to offend anyone, I just want to understand more.
So last night my boyfriend of 1.5 years told me that he has a thing for diapers. A while ago, I saw a webpage he left open on his phone and it was of a porn video of a girl wearing a diaper. I didn’t confront him about it as I felt it’s his private business, but since then I’ve known that girls wearing diapers sexually aroused. He told me about his interest in diapers last night and I tried to be as supportive as possible. I even let him put a diaper on me before we had sex. After we had sex, we were going to go watch tv and he said he was gonna wear one but I guess I reacted negatively and he decided against it, which made me feel really bad.
He told me that just last week he bought his first pack of diapers because he wanted to see if he would like wearing them and since then he has worn them twice, both times when I was at work. He told me pee’d and pooped in the diaper, and that he finds it comfortable and he likes the freedom. He told me that he hopes that we could both wear them around the house when we’re hanging out together and watching tv/playing video games.
I am completely fine with the diapers playing a role in the bedroom. I understand that everyone is into different thing when it comes to sex, and if it turns him on I’m into it. What I don’t understand is why I am so reluctant to accept him wearing diapers outside of the bedroom. He said he doesn’t want to wear them to work or outside the comforts of our own home, but it still makes me very uncomfortable. I feel very sad that I feel this way because I love him with all of my heart. I just feel like the masculine man I once knew is gone, which I know is bad and unfair to think. I want to tell him that I’m fine with him wearing one as long as I’m not home, but I also don’t want him to resent me and eagerly await for me to leave him alone.
Another thing is that I work as a nursing assistant, so my entire job is changing adult diapers and wiping people’s butts. I don’t find it sexy at all, and the thought of my boyfriend defecating in a diaper when he is capable of going in a toilet is almost humiliating to me. I know that it’s his own thing and I should support him, but I can’t help but feel a little freaked out by it.
I am also nervous about his obsession growing more and more. I don’t want his love for diapers to take over our lives. I don’t want it to occupy the majority of his thoughts.
Can anyone offer me some advice so I can cope better with this? I don’t want him to feel ashamed or scared that I’m judging him. I want to understand why he wants to wear diapers, but I just don’t get it right now.
Thank you all in advance!