Mom, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa AB/DL?

No one I know of but my parents and grandparents were all so emotionally repressed it's entirely possible they lived with something like this but were never able to accept it in themselves.

I have to consider the possibility that my daughter might find out about me one day. Of all the ppl who might find out, this is the one I fear the most, mainly because of her age (8). It's far too much to expect her to take on. Altough her dad cross dresses and shes seen him, she says "Daddys a princess like me!" I didn't have any say in this, would have likely played safe and said dont let her know this young, but it seems to have worked out OK!

I guess it might become OK for her to know I'm AB later in life when I'm at an age she may be caring for me, I'd be vulnerable anyway in that situation and i hope shed b the kind of peson to accept this is who i am. I guess it's up to me to bring her up to be that person.
 
lulu22 said:
No one I know of but my parents and grandparents were all so emotionally repressed it's entirely possible they lived with something like this but were never able to accept it in themselves.

I have to consider the possibility that my daughter might find out about me one day. Of all the ppl who might find out, this is the one I fear the most, mainly because of her age (8). It's far too much to expect her to take on. Altough her dad cross dresses and shes seen him, she says "Daddys a princess like me!" I didn't have any say in this, would have likely played safe and said dont let her know this young, but it seems to have worked out OK!

I guess it might become OK for her to know I'm AB later in life when I'm at an age she may be caring for me, I'd be vulnerable anyway in that situation and i hope shed b the kind of peson to accept this is who i am. I guess it's up to me to bring her up to be that person.
Lol you’re a princess like me I love it But really I started at eight I started wearing diapers before I even knew there was a such community I started looking for a mommy at 13 and been getting scammed ever since so they’re not really a age limit on ABD El just tell her it’s OK to wear diapers and that’s all you gotta say
 
Turtle said:
I’m sorry I’m just a little curious did she put you in diapers or did you put her in
To answer your question, no neither of us were diapering each other. I just suspect it because a lot of what I was doing back then she was virtually acting identical. Had/still have a lot of plushies, had to do a lot of laundry, frequent cleaning when family mentioned we and our rooms stunk, and she saw me diapered one time and didn't react negatively about it. I only have my suspicions though I can't say for sure 100% she was, just that I think it was/is likely.
 
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Turtle said:
Lol you’re a princess like me I love it But really I started at eight I started wearing diapers before I even knew there was a such community I started looking for a mommy at 13 and been getting scammed ever since so they’re not really a age limit on ABD El just tell her it’s OK to wear diapers and that’s all you gotta say.
 
mistykitty said:
To answer your question, no neither of us were diapering each other. I just suspect it because a lot of what I was doing back then she was virtually acting identical. Had/still have a lot of plushies, had to do a lot of laundry, frequent cleaning when family mentioned we and our rooms stunk, and she saw me diapered one time and didn't react negatively about it. I only have my suspicions though I can't say for sure 100% she was, just that I think it was/is likely.
Then talk to her and ask her because she may not know about this community
 
Trying to reply to Turtle's post, phone playing up. IIf my daughter shows any sign of being one of us, or struggling with her iidentity on any way, of course I'll tell her it's OK to be herself, whoever she may be. In fact it's the best thing she can be 😍

Tbh that's my general message to her anyway.
 
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lulu22 said:
Trying to reply to Turtle's post, phone playing up. IIf my daughter shows any sign of being one of us, or struggling with her iidentity on any way, of course I'll tell her it's OK to be herself, whoever she may be. In fact it's the best thing she can be 😍

Tbh that's my general message to her anyway.
Ok Just let her know because I wish somebody would’ve done that for me when I was eight because I was very hard on myself and I thought I was only one
 
And I had to find out through the ABDl porn because I was watching porn when I was eight and then came across something on porn hub and then I watched it could not stop thinking about it watch it again and then look up that on the porn website and there was a bunch of it I didn’t know what it was until I was 13 so I was wearing diapers and all of that around eight and with the technology nowadays other kids is probably gonna be experiencing their own because it’s very hard to control what your kids see on the Internet
 
Turtle said:
And I had to find out through the ABDl porn because I was watching porn when I was eight and then came across something on porn hub and then I watched it could not stop thinking about it watch it again and then look up that on the porn website and there was a bunch of it I didn’t know what it was until I was 13 so I was wearing diapers and all of that around eight and with the technology nowadays other kids is probably gonna be experiencing their own because it’s very hard to control what your kids see on the Internet

I'm so sorry to hear you had to find out this way 🥺
 
lulu22 said:
I'm so sorry to hear you had to find out this way 🥺
I know ABD El mommies and daddies is all scams because that’s what I have been taught by everything mommy over the years I’ve been trying to find a mommy sent 13 I’m 29 now still no mommy or daddy
 
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Seems very unlikely. My grandfather is so not interested in being a baby that he won't even drink from a straw because he thinks it is too similar to sucking on a bottle. He literally gets a fountain drink from the gas station every day, but refuses to get a lid or a straw.
 
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patrick1776 said:
Seems very unlikely. My grandfather is so not interested in being a baby that he won't even drink from a straw because he thinks it is too similar to sucking on a bottle. He literally gets a fountain drink from the gas station every day, but refuses to get a lid or a straw.
Maybe not, and way off, but maybe he is deep down, and in denial? It would be hard to know for sure. But if it’s a frequent subject of his to bring up, that he thinks using straws and drink lids are babyish, it’s possible.

I know from my own childhood, I loved diapers and plastic pants, but would totally deny I did, due to fear. I knew, even as a very young child, not to expose my affection for such things. So if that phrase ever was to come up, “you want to be treated like a baby?” My outward, open response would be NO! But, inside, and to myself, a big YES!

Just something to reflect on.
 
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For me I'd have to say no I don't suspect anyone else in my family is ABDL in any way shape or form. however there is one point in the last couple of years which I do find highly ironic.

Back when I was about 7 years old my parents had split up and on a weekend where I was visiting with my dad I had an accident and soiled my pants (something which had only happened once since I was 3 when I was about 5 in school and the teacher wouldn't let us go to the toilet near the end of the day), he got really mad drove me back to mums forced a nappy on me had an argument with my mum demanding she keep me in nappies all weekend, she didn't and took the nappy off right after he stormed out.

At the time it was humiliating and I hated him for it but it is probably what sparked my interest in diapers and wetting/messing myself over the next couple years. I have forgiven him for that incident and it was kind of forgotten long ago.

Fast forward to about 5 years ago when my dad had a stroke which left him in pretty bad shape for a while, he then had another lesser one about a year later which basically left him needing a wheelchair outside the house and with a pretty severe physical disability. I don't mean to make light of this situation as it is a terrible thing but the ironic part is that he now either has a catheter or wears nappies nearly full time.

Now I don't imagine he's at all ABDL and would probably freak out and disown me if he learned about me being one but all the same it is interesting how life turns out sometimes.
 
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My grandad was amused by the plastic bibs that I wore for eating, and kept saying that he wanted one himself. He got his wish late in his life, just for fun.
 
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Family members? My daughter had some control issues when performing sports in highschool and wore depend underwear and was quite open about it to everyone on the team. Calling them "her diapers" But I don't think she is abdl...
 
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