My morning NS Air Supreme diaper is wet and very messy. Sooo warm and squishy, and just delightful. Messing my diaper is one of the simple pleasures of life, like the Charmin commercial: "Why not enjoy the go." If I could have anything different about messing my diaper it would be to mess whenever and wherever I was, but courtesy and social convention dictates otherwise. My "code of diaper ethics" involves never exposing the general public to my diapers, let alone a messy diaper. I wet around my wife, but don't mess when I am with her. Messing my diaper is my quiet, solitary early morning routine well before my wife gets up. I often don't change for several hours, thank goodness for Vaseline and baby lotion. I don't mind cleaning up at all, I have it down to a science, takes me only 5-10 minutes, and longer if I have a real diaper blow-out. This morning's poopy diaper is staying nicely contained in the bottom of my diaper, even while I am sitting here responding to this thread.