thank you so much she knows that I sometime sleep with a paci I don't know if she knows about my "little" drawer. not being to tell her was what started my depression. apparently (a while back) they snooped on my ig once and they found out I like diapers but we never talked about it I think they forgot about It. at first they used to be mean every time I got caught with my dummy saying I had a problem. but that went away after a while and i became suicidal we haven't talked about it apart from very minuet convocations where she would just say and I mostly nod but thank you very much
I have accepted myself I do find it a big part of who I am and I am currently looking for a councillor we did try to get me a councillor but didn't get anywere
I would consider more fundamentally what you hope to achieve from telling and whether it is at all likely that those things are likely to be achieved. I start from a default position of non-disclosure but I have seen situations where it is best to tell. I tend to think that we're both over and under cautious and the situations may not warrant that particular overreaction. Give it some serious thought. It's surely not worth it if you're going to move out before long.