Leaked on the bedsheets last night 🙉💦

[ItsTimmyTime]

Had a pretty substantial leak overnight in our bed and the worst part was my pee smelled quite strong last night, it's not usually like that. It wouldn't bother me personally but I was a bit embarrassed because my wife noticed I'd had a leak and the smell.

She's so great with me though and she told me not to stress about it as the bedsheets needed washing anyway. It wasn't long until the morning so I just hopped up and went to the toilet for another wee so I didn't push my nappy any further, it was already pretty wet, hence the leak.

I got back into bed and my wife turned to me and held both my hands and I drifted back of to sleep all content until the morning 😊

I got everything striped off first thing in the morning and into the wash, I told her I didn't expect her to clean up after me, though she probably would have. We have a protective cover so the mattress wasn't ruined.

I sometimes wish I could tell my close friends and relatives of what an incredible person she is, I mean obviously I can but not in regards to what she's done for me since I told her about my abdl side. All the little things and verbal things she says really is helping me to finally be at peace with myself 🥰🥰

 

[foxkits]

Well a small gift is nice.
Also I love you very much notes for her to find maybe take her to a nice restaurant is great too do too.
Just to make her feel special I know you got this it's the little things that matters most.👍

 

[DinoFran]

You are very lucky, first because you have an understanding wife, and second, because you have a mattress cover.

But don´t just tell everyone how wonderful or incredible she is; but also demonstrate directly to her how much you cherish and appreciate and love her. Surely you already do.

Take care!

 

[ItsTimmyTime]

Well a small gift is nice.
Also I love you very much notes for her to find maybe take her to a nice restaurant is great too do too.
Just to make her feel special I know you got this it's the little things that matters most.👍

Yes definitely all very good ideas. I might leave a few little sticky notes around for her to find, I like that idea. I am constantly telling her how much she means to me and doing nice acts for her so think we have a good balance and it's not all a one way street 😀 I think she feels special and so she should 😍

 

[ItsTimmyTime]

You are very lucky, first because you have an understanding wife, and second, because you have a mattress cover.

But don´t just tell everyone how wonderful or incredible she is; but also demonstrate directly to her how much you cherish and appreciate and love her. Surely you already do.

Take care!

Haha, don't forget the mattress cover! 😄 Honestly, I can't believe how lucky I am. I wish I could make her understand how much it means to me with her being so understanding, I don't suppose she'll ever truly understand what it feels like to have hidden something like this your whole life and then for it to be finally accepted.

We're only 4 months into our journey but have been married for 15 years!! She'd never even heard of abdl until I came out to her so that's even more incredible!