Dune1001
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This whole thread has got me thinking about my connections to this.
I guess I can speak from this perspective as I was one of these children. I went through a period where I was "toilet trained", could hold it in and would use the toilet for pee, but adamantly refused to poop anywhere but my nappy. A system came into place where when I needed to go I'd let my mother know, and would be put into a nappy. I was like this until sometime into being 4 years old or so, but it was sorted before I started Primary School (UK) so I was saved any embarrassment in that sense.
I can try and look back and work out what was going on. I think part of it was just simply, I liked pooping in my nappy and didn't want to let it go. There was also some control element as mentioned by @Paxe, I think I was possibly trying to assert a level of command in an area I was able to. There was also some clear personal control elements going on. I remember sometimes when I was put in a nappy I'd poop in it straight away, other times I'd wear it for a bit and wait until I felt ready to let it out, which would sometimes be a deliberately drawn out long process even if I was desperate. Towards the end of it I remember I started to develop a habit of wanting to be alone while as I pooped myself and shortly after I just clicked with it and never looked back. Well, in some senses, haha
I guess it could be seen as poor parenting in some ways. However it did allow me to develop in my own time and I wasn't one of those children who ended up starting school in nappies, which I know can sometimes happen due to genuine conditions or developmental issues but based on stories I've heard both in real life and online, I think an unfortunate number of cases its just disinterested bad parenting. I can't say my parents were ever like that and although I was late in that sense, I got there in the end and before the point where it might cause embarrassment or logistical problems.
Then again, I guess this was the earliest incarnation of my weird fixation on bodily functions and holding it in, so maybe its all rooted here? Who knows. Bit of a ramble but I felt compelled to reply as I've never actually properly considered it or seen others observe it.
comfynappybum said:My friend then told me that their daughter often asks them to put a nappy on her when she needs to poo, and they’ve had a lot of trouble getting her to poo on the toilet
I guess I can speak from this perspective as I was one of these children. I went through a period where I was "toilet trained", could hold it in and would use the toilet for pee, but adamantly refused to poop anywhere but my nappy. A system came into place where when I needed to go I'd let my mother know, and would be put into a nappy. I was like this until sometime into being 4 years old or so, but it was sorted before I started Primary School (UK) so I was saved any embarrassment in that sense.
I can try and look back and work out what was going on. I think part of it was just simply, I liked pooping in my nappy and didn't want to let it go. There was also some control element as mentioned by @Paxe, I think I was possibly trying to assert a level of command in an area I was able to. There was also some clear personal control elements going on. I remember sometimes when I was put in a nappy I'd poop in it straight away, other times I'd wear it for a bit and wait until I felt ready to let it out, which would sometimes be a deliberately drawn out long process even if I was desperate. Towards the end of it I remember I started to develop a habit of wanting to be alone while as I pooped myself and shortly after I just clicked with it and never looked back. Well, in some senses, haha
I guess it could be seen as poor parenting in some ways. However it did allow me to develop in my own time and I wasn't one of those children who ended up starting school in nappies, which I know can sometimes happen due to genuine conditions or developmental issues but based on stories I've heard both in real life and online, I think an unfortunate number of cases its just disinterested bad parenting. I can't say my parents were ever like that and although I was late in that sense, I got there in the end and before the point where it might cause embarrassment or logistical problems.
Then again, I guess this was the earliest incarnation of my weird fixation on bodily functions and holding it in, so maybe its all rooted here? Who knows. Bit of a ramble but I felt compelled to reply as I've never actually properly considered it or seen others observe it.