Lucky you. Although my wife fully accepts and support me, needing diapers for managing my incontinence, only once has she massaged me on the outside of my diaper, never inside,and that only happened once. She said it felt weird because she couldn’t feel my man parts while she was doing it. But It felt great.
Having you wife putting her hand inside your wet diaper and giving you a hand job must be the biggest proof of acceptance and support, any incontinent could experience. Maybe I should work on my wife and see if I could change her mindset.......
Any advices ST50 you could share on how you got your wife to do it, or was it just something she did without you hinting her