Well, i've always been in diapers at night, and with that, dont know if it's diaper lover or more prefer that as opposed to the alternative...
I was on cath when had some longer hospital stays, most of which was not awake when going in or at least have any memory of it...and when being fed iv fluids, medications, and alike i really didnt have much an issue with it, other than the removal/after issues.
but yes the long term relationships i've had did to some degree become playful with diapers, and yes need them anyhow so might as well have some fun...
diaper lover is a bit too much a term for me, as if i could not wear one, that would be great!!!
being ic and not having any choice isn't much "fun".