If you were caught with *B/DL items by a friend or loved one, how was their reaction?

[Kovy]

As the title asks. I was caught two weeks previous to this posting, I made a thread in the Regulars' forum discussing this. It did not go well at all...

 

[Tupsu]

I was drunk with my good friend and we talked about fetishes and I said that I like diapers. He just asked "Really?" and lauged bit but said it's ok. He have made some fun of me but I just laught with him. Once he said that I'm pampersbutt lol.

 

[SulliLan]

i have been caught a few times by my mother wearing and she twice found my stash, the most recent incident was i was over there for a visit and i was playing with her cat. he is a very playful kitten and does use claws. well he dug his claws into my chest a bit before running off it hurt a bit so i lifted up my shirt to take a look. i was wearing at the time and you could easily see the top of my diaper all around. after i realized what i just did i dropped my shirt and sat back down as if nothing happened, she never said a thing thankfully but then again she knows i wear diapers, but never when i dont think

 

[Dakota13]

My dad caught me on adisc before he got his laptop, however he just sat down and talked with me and we worked things out. However I'm not sure I told him enough but you know what he was like "to each their own"

 

[dogboy]

Glad to see you back on Kolvy. I hope all is going reasonably well. I guess you remember my history. I was caught by my mom, years ago before the internet and that kind of support. I was having a psychotic break when I came home from college. Too much sex and drugs,not too much rock n' roll however. Anyway, I think she wanted to know why I was crashing, so she rummaged through my room and found my makeshift diapers, etc, along with a sexual magazine that was not socially acceptable, to say the least. She took me not only to a shrink, but the shrink was located at a large mental illness facility, with interment, ala Girl Interrupted style. I didn't stay, but I had to sit there and tell this stranger that I liked diapers and baby stuff, liked males my age and somewhat younger, etc. This went on for several weeks until I told my mom I wouldn't go back, that he wasn't going to change me and I was stuck with who I was. She had to accept the fact. My dad never said anything, as he was the quiet one in the family. My mom was the screamer. I did eventually get married, had kids and moved on with my life, but the desire for diapers stayed.

Which leads me to the second time I got caught. This was in March of '08. Stupid Amazon sent a query via e-mail as to how did I like the diapers I had purchased. Instead of me seeing it first, my wife saw it. Of course I denied it, so then she called them up to tell them that I did not order diapers. They laughed and told her I did! I chose a quiet evening to tell her about that side of my self. She was very understanding and accepting. Now I wear diapers to bed anytime I want, so it worked out well.

 

[Calico]

I was 18 and my 10 year old neighbor was over and we were in my room and he found my pacifier on the floor with a pacifier clip on it. He asked what it was doing in my room and I told him I have it for my cat and I like to clip it to her ear and put the binky in her mouth and he started laughing. It was a quick story I had to come up with. I couldn't tell him I like sucking on it because I felt it's inappropriate to tell a minor and even have them see you using one.


My parents have also found out about my diapers. My dad found a picture on his camera I took and my mom found a used one under my bathroom sink. Their reactions were ok.

 

[angelabauer]

Early in 1991, when I was 26 and only into AB since the previous October, I was on a business trip with co-workers and a partner of my law firm. Each of us had a private room at a nice hotel. It was late, I had gone to bed when there was a knock on my door.

Without really thinking I answered the door, only to find my supervising senior partner and another associate attorney. They stared at me. Only then did I realize I had a MAM pacifier clipped to my shoulder.

Nobody said anything. Maybe they thought I was trying to quit smoking.

Needless to say since then when it is possible an outsider will see me I double check that I am not wearing a pacifier.

 

[rog05002]

Been caught a few times so far:

First was my mom who caught me first when I was 8. No diapers then just wet beds and I told her they were accidents though I hinted at wanting diapers. I never got them then. We never talked about it much till she found more wet beds around 12. After several doctors visits and things I told her I liked it straight out..she was a little apprehensive at first but she was ok enough to buy them for me for a while until I got a job and could buy them myself. She has brought it up a few times after and worried that I won't be able to find a girlfriend or get married cuz of it, but I have had plenty of girlfriends and have found who I consider the right girl for me lol. When I start dating she felt more relaxed..weird how that works.

I have told two gfs so far, both have been cool about it and the current one is participating more an more, as she becomes more comfortable with it.

I have also told my roommates (two), both of whom were gay and so I knew they would be much more accepting of it. Also told a nursing friend of mine..we had a thing for each other in college and we dated a bit, but we are just friends now. We talk about it quite a bit though, she is really fascinated lol!

So all of my experiences have been extremely positive, and I have decided not to go out of my way to hide it from close friends (i.e. not hide them in the closet under blankets). I find being able to be myself (though not flaunting it of course) is so liberating and nobody has judged me for it ever!

 

[Elli]

I don't really think of it as being caught, but rather a shift in what is known about me by others. People have always been used to me having toys and some close friends/family members know about my baby items. Three or four people know about my nappies. I tend to be quite open and I try to avoid having compartments in my life, although obviously there are things that are private and public. I've not had a situation where someone with no idea suddenly finds adult nappies and a bottle stashed together or something. For a start I wouldn't keep those things together (Just as I don't keep my pint glasses with my underpants!) and if any one thing was seen, it would fit with my character enough not to seem dodgy. If the wrong person found the nappy stash though, that would be awkward.

 

[vankeual]

i got caught today at work.... it wasn't good at all. i had brought my backpack into work with me cause it had all my clothes in it, and i didnt drive today, so i left it in the crew room. when i got off work i grabbed my bag but unfortunately there were a lot of managers and other crew in there when i got off, and i had my binki in a clear mesh part on the backside of my bag, and my manager saw it. she started asking about it really loud and everyone sorta laughed and i just said that i had babysat the night before and forgot to leave it at the house... i wish i could of told them but how they were laughing even before i said anything about it i just couldn't

 

[ballucanb]

I got caught with a few sleepers when I was in my teens as a result of being caught, I have worn them ever since.

I guess you can say it turned out well, except now I can't sleep without one on, and that dosen't bother me at all.

 

[Nam Repaid]

Well I’m an old fool… and was a young one once too! Twenty years ago I got my first video camera, the kind that attaches to a large portable VCR. I taped myself in diapers and “doing” a love doll. (Yea I’ve been into both a long time.) A co-worker asked me to tape a NASCAR race he couldn’t watch and guess what tape I grabbed? Major oops! I’ll never be sure just what was or was not taped over on that tape but to this day I get little hints and comments relating to diapers and dolls from many of my co-workers, meaning he told all. There is never a direct comment or confrontation but often a little sideways remark that doesn’t say it but says, “I know your secret”. I blow it off like I don’t know what their trying to say but I die a little, no a lot, inside whenever it comes up. It’s a damm good job but often I want to quit because this just won’t go away even after all these years..

 

[Rheeer]

My dad has found bottles and sippy cups in our dish drainer...he has an idea of what goes on, and he thinks it's cute in an off-kilter way.

 

[Palko]

I've been caught separately (my parents are divorced) by both mom and dad. She immediately assumed I was a pedophile and insisted on going with me to therapy, where the therapist told her it was harmless, an opinion she rejected. Maybe she came to terms with it, or just decided it was none of her business. For whatever reason, she stopped talking about it pretty quickly after that.

My dad didn't have much of a reaction, except to say that I would have to stop when I went to college. He also hasn't talked about it since. I've been more careful after all this, but it wasn't as bad as it could have been, overall.

 

[NickofNewjersey]

Just recently a couple nights ago I fell asleep with my plushy Husky. I woke up to my mom walking into my room turning on my ac, She definitely saw me cuddling it.

The next night I wanted to push my luck, so I fell asleep with it again, which was awesome! But I woke up pretty confused. The dog had fallen off my bed in the night. So I looked down to pick it up and I saw a husky beniebaby on it! :O

I assumed my mom found one in her doll collection and decided to give it to me. Later that night I decided to ask her. She said she had no idea what I was talking about!

Either my husky gave birth, or it was my dad! Weird.

 

[bobbyjeff]

Just recently a couple nights ago I fell asleep with my plushy Husky. I woke up to my mom walking into my room turning on my ac, She definitely saw me cuddling it.

The next night I wanted to push my luck, so I fell asleep with it again, which was awesome! But I woke up pretty confused. The dog had fallen off my bed in the night. So I looked down to pick it up and I saw a husky beniebaby on it! :O

I assumed my mom found one in her doll collection and decided to give it to me. Later that night I decided to ask her. She said she had no idea what I was talking about!

Either my husky gave birth, or it was my dad! Weird.

I don't even really consider myself to be very into the AB side of the spectrum, but if snuggling with plushies is wrong, then I don't want to be right.

 

[bebehuey]

i've been caught so many times, i completely forget anymore. at this stage in my life, my mom knows, my dad knows, the co-workers know, one of them gave me greif for about 2 weeks, well, now the neighbors know. the bear got into the garbage barrel last night, and tossed the diapers all over the driveway looking for food (we don't keep food in that trash can. bear issues) i spent quite a while cleaning it up