I was discovered 30 minutes ago.

[Serendiapity]

I was playing a video game about 30 minutes ago when my mother came in and said good night. She asked me to brush my teeth, and as I was doing so, she called me,
"Come here... What the hell is this?"

Now I will mention what happened last night. It was late and I was the only one up. I was having a good time, reading on ADISC and chilling out in a diaper. Then I decided it was time to go to sleep. I decided that I would put on a diaper for the night because I sometimes *need* one. (Read my other post on that...) But I got distracted and dropped the diaper, and then when I had come to my senses, I couldn't find it. I looked on the wrong side of the bed! So I got another diaper and went to bed.

So if you read this, it makes it clear that what she found was the missing diaper! She was picking up my pillows when she saw it. I responded to her question by telling her a half truth: that I was wetting my bed. Note that I do sometimes, but I mentioned that but not my TB/DL side.

She seemed concerned, rather than mad, and she asked where the rest were. I told her another half-truth, under my mattress. :wallbash: There were several full diapers there, and she asked questions like how often it happened, etc. I answered them all.

She claims she isn't mad, only concerned about me. I will be seeing my doctor, as some of you guys have recommended to me in my other thread. I begged her not to tell my father, which she accepted, but she is not that trustworthy.

I am writing this in hopes of response, because I am worried and have feelings of stress and anxiety. I can't sleep.

Thanks for reading, please respond.

 

[ThatKid]

dude...I wish you luck...i hope this all turns out well for you

 

[Serendiapity]

Thanks very much, ThatKid.

What drives me mad the most is that it was the ABSOLUTE NOOBIEST MISTAKE I'VE EVER MADE! After about a year of diaper wearing, all the careful precautions and thoughtful security measures, THIS was my downfall! UGH!

 

[Ranger]

Good luck dude. You may need it.

 

[baby_mike]

That sucks dude...I hope all gose well for you.

 

[Serendiapity]

Thanks guys... I will need it!

 

[link]

all anyone can say here is good luck. ther's not much advise to give because the damage has been done. try not to worry yourself too much. its your parents job to be concerned of you, even if you don't want them to be. don't worry about the doctor too much. i know there's some pritty painful tests, but i don't think that'll be their first resort. sence your bedweting probably isn't a horrible medical issue, they probably won't use the horrible tests.

best of luck to you, and don't worry. worrying is what makes uncomfortable situations bad situations. keep your cool, don't stress out, get some sleep, and know that it'll all be over soon.

 

[Serendiapity]

Thanks Link... I think I will go to sleep soon.

 

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[Gingy]

Parents are never trustworthy. Just think of all the time they are together without you! Like when theyre falling asleep, when you're with friends. I dont mean to be a negative nancy, but I'm pretty sure she will tell your dad.

 

[Serendiapity]

Yeah, good point... Remember Santa? Lol...

 

[Point]

All I can say is you're very lucky that you have an at least partly viable excuse, and that you didn't tell her flat-out. I don't know your dad but hopefully if she does tell him then he'll be understanding. Don't say anything to the doctor that may have you be the subject of various... tests. Be more careful in the future, and I hope all turns out well for you!

 

[Mink]

You got lucky man, just stick with your bedwetting story, she sounds concerned for you which is a GOOD thing because she wasn't mad more or less worried about your physical health.

 

[Eclipse]

Well first go to the doctor as your mother wishes you too. If they want to do any tests like stick anything up there, I would refuse it if I was you, they can not make you do anything you do not want to. Also it seems your mom is letting you keep the diapers and use them, right? If so thats good, now you might have a diaper hook up hahe, it might be a good thing to propose to your mom ordering you some good ones online, say they leak some nights and you want better ones.

Anyways good luck dude, keep us posted.

 

[EmeraldsAndLime]

Well first go to the doctor as your mother wishes you too. If they want to do any tests like stick anything up there, I would refuse it if I was you, they can not make you do anything you do not want to. Also it seems your mom is letting you keep the diapers and use them, right? If so thats good, now you might have a diaper hook up hahe, it might be a good thing to propose to your mom ordering you some good ones online, say they leak some nights and you want better ones.

Anyways good luck dude, keep us posted.

Well, technically, since he's only 14, his parents can still consent for him, correct?

And before jumping the gun about getting good diapers, it'll probably just be best to clean up this whole issue first. You might not even get diapers! And if you don't want your dad to find out, I really wouldn't force the issue on them.

 

[Serendiapity]

Thanks, everyone, for posting. It feels SO GOOD that even in times of stress, the community is always there.

To Eclipse: Not really sure, she just sort of put the diaper down and said no more about it. Maybe someday, though, I will be able to do that, or better yet, it blows over.

I agree Lukie, I probably should make sure that the issue isn't so hot anymore before I try to get them to buy me good diapers. The only reason I don't want my dad to find out is just because I would be embarrassed.

Thanks again for posting, please keep it up!

 

[the0silent0alchemist]

hmm what are yor circumstances regarding school and such. is possible they may bring it down to stress.. and did you have any bedwetting history... thatll also help... BUT yeah that was one SCREWED UP mistake.. and its possible that, after a WHILE you could suggest better ones.. say you noticed it... also maybe make a point of saving various articles about counteracting bedwettng on your favortes of something.. dunno about how useful thos is but she ight notice it and note that your unsure WHTS going on but are trying to find out...

another note... try too stress that things like alarms will do more harm than good.. its what I did

 

[diapeybabybrian]

Well, like you said, you're only <i>half</i> discovered....The question you need to ask now, is what you want your parents to know.

I was discovered under similar terms with you, and immediately deployed the "bedwetting" excuse. But a couple days later, I decided to tell my parents the whole truth since they were semi-aware of my interests.

After I told them, My mother made me go see a shrink, and diapers are something that she does not like, and rarely brings it up with me.

HOWEVER, I have heard stories (fairytales) on diaper forums where people have told their parents with great results. It might be a good thing to tell them as well.

I say, go with your gut, you can take it easy now and let them think you're a bedwetter for your whole life, with only 50% of your secret discovered, or you can just let them learn the rest of it, and hopefully they take it good.

 

[Peachy]

Parents are never trustworthy.

Personally, I find that statement is too general and also shows a lack of respect of your parents, or parents in general. Responsible parents do care about their kids, even if their decision may not seem obvious or even correct to their child. Keep in mind that your parents have about 30+ more years of experience and may have been in a similar situation themselves. So kids should trust their parents, unless they show obvious signs of a lack of intelligence or experience, in which case it may be better to ignore them.

At any rate, I think your parents, Russian, reacted in the most logical and best way you could have dreamed of. No parent will feel happy when they find out their child has a bedwetting problem. They are concerned about your health, and it's their job to be. Besides, you've told us about your bedwetting problem before and everyone adviced you to see a doctor, so now you can get it all done at once: Have a doc check out your bedwetting problem, get your family used to the fact that you have diapers around, and - if the doc finds no cure or nothing wrong - keep wearing your diapers for a while. Just make sure you don't go too hard on your parents. Yeah, you may want to continue to wear diapers, but you should also understand their position: They think you have a serious bladder problem which has to be cured. Think of it like if you had cancer, just on a less severe degree - I'm sure your parents would do everything they can to help you get rid of it.

Peachy

 

[Tommy]

I know how you feel, the VERY FIRST TIME i got some nappies (diaper.... lol) they were only baby onces, and waaay to small.

I was attaching two together using the straps, then my mum comes up the stairs, and knows that i hid something....she was saying, what are you doing??????

I just showed her, i told her a few weeks before that i think i have a nappy fetish, she didn't like it, but was trying to encourage me to get rid of this.

God, that was BAD getting caught my first time, the next day i went outside to get 4 of them from the bin once she went out....it was HORRIBLE, she saw me going outside from the garage door and came back to the house. She had a go at me, and said GET AWAY FROM THAT BIN, in a quiet voice but like angry.

God, i hated this lol.

GOOD LUCK MATE!!!